People keep telling me that it's so easy for girls to get a guy to have fun with when you go out of a night, but not for me! If any guys approach me they're not good looking and all the good looking ones don't go anywhere near me, What can i do to get some attention in this area?
2007-07-19 16:17:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm looking for some fun, not love or dating material. I just want to know what it's like to get with a guy when i go out clubbing, and i am good looking thank you very much! I keep getting the vibe that guys see me as dating material, not as a girl to get with, could that be why?
2007-07-19 16:32:29 · update #1
When i go out i'm always smiling, well-dressed, happy and confident, and yet it still doesn't seem to be working for me!
2007-07-19 16:34:43 · update #2
Try flirting with them, that's what I do! You got to have confidence with yourself! You are probably very beautiful, I mean I didn't have that much self confidence and all the guys think I'm a dimepiece! So, honey, you just need to DO WHAT IT DO!!!!!!!!
2007-07-19 16:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when i was in highschool i was not in the preppy click and i was not considered pretty by any means... but i have found that you being you helps attract people to come to you and want to talk. Now think of this if 2 girls walk into a bar.... one thats really pretty perfect body and so on........ the other one not so perfect....
if the pretty one has a bad attitude and the other doesnt (even though she isnt perfect) people tend to come to you if you have a welcoming personality and are confident. Now if you have a bad attitude they will turn away. I mean come on now who wants to hang around someone who is rude.
Another thing dont be stuck on yourself. By that i mean dont ask them questions like do i look good or does this make me look fat. the worst thing you can do in front of a guy is put yourself down. I am engaged now and i am finding myself more comfortable with myself and i cant keep the guys off of me. Everyone wants to get with me!!!! Any other questions just send me a message on yahoo messenger!!!
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2007-07-19 23:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by latricia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear make-up.. wear it just right... put it on with a close eye to what you're doing. Be sure it's all smooth and not too much, but do pay close attention to your eyes, play them up. Be sure face is real clean 1st. Wash whole body well and exfoliate skin. Wear nice clothes dressy or not be sure very nice. Sexy bra. Show off best assets; cover worst. Show confidence. Smile. Make eye contact. Dance. Walk carefully; gracefully. Sit with people in a group or get to know someone. Eye contact most important. Make men feel awesome about themselves. Try all of this and it will work. Be a sexy kitten loving caring daring out going but graceful creature that you are already underneath. You'll get a guy,
2007-07-19 23:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man I fell in love with was definitely not the most attractive one around at the time but still I was open-minded. Any guys I know, notice character and personality just as quickly as they do looks. Try talking to them first, they like that too.
2007-07-19 23:22:17 · answer #4 · answered by QOM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because you're pretty. You see, when a guy sees a pretty girl and he's good looking too lots of them are scared to get shot down by you because you're pretty and they might not feel worthy of you even if they are good looking. Get it? Ugly dudes just ain't got anything to lose so they'll approach any girl because they're so used to getting shot down anyway.
2007-07-19 23:21:43 · answer #5 · answered by ♥§weetiepie♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask a friend for a truthful personal evaluation...maybe you're not approachable? Standoffish? Attitude is everything, be positive and proactive. Are you dressing provocatively? Good guys won't be interested in "easy" girls.
2007-07-19 23:21:34 · answer #6 · answered by Trucks4me4ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but kelly's right you either don't look so great or you have a horrible personality. It's old and cliche but look around you at the girls who are getting attention. See how they're different from you. That's your real answer.
2007-07-19 23:21:50 · answer #7 · answered by dpjcrazy007 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so you think the good looking guys dont give you light of day but what you doing to the lesser attractives ones is EXACTLY same...you are not interested in them either so whats your problem again.Maybe you should fix your obsession with outer beauty...
2007-07-19 23:22:51 · answer #8 · answered by ajal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have too high of an opion about yourself. Get realistic about what kind of guys you can attract and look beyond the physical.
2007-07-19 23:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make yourself look popular and cute and if you cant do that then just wait for the right guy too come along
2007-07-19 23:20:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋