my boyfriend love sme very much it bothers me sometimes that we have very little if anything in common, i asked him if it ever bothers him he said he never thought about it, it has never been a problem or anything for him,
i am suprised he has never givne it much thought why??
he doesnt think about things as much as i do, my minds always going and im not sure why, he is very sweet to me and loves me alot hes not good with words though lol idk why the interests thing is more of an issue for me than it is him i wonder why hes never given any thought to it?
2007-07-19 16:42:36 · 7 answers · asked by bobbo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2007-07-19 16:45:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Bobbo-
So what's your real issue?
Are you worried that you're in love with a great guy who'll never be you're intellectual equal and you're afraid how it's gonna look on you?
Or are you just one of those many people that go through life over analizing the heck out of everything good or just everything ??
One way you've got it made, cuz Jon Boy loves you to death it seems - and could care less if the world falls in!
SO ....what are you worried about?
If the man had any problems with you - he'd say so!
If you don't love him or if his IQ isn't up to your comfort levels, well I guess you've got to make some choices....none of which we can make for you.
You can love him back and enjoy life together if he's right for you, or save him the heartache after he convinced himself you're the only one on the planet.
Sorry to put the burden on your shoulders, but you have the doubts, not Jon Boy !
And yes...opposites do attract. thats how you two got together and it makes life interesting !
Good luck
2007-07-20 00:11:15 · answer #2 · answered by Davey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you so much that he doesn't care if you don't have any interests together. Just try to do things together. For example, if you like something, tell him to try it out with you. Then you should do the same if he likes something. There is so much more that you can do together. Just talk to him and ask him if he would like to go to the movies, then return the favor by going to a game that he is interested in seeing. Its all about compromise!
2007-07-19 23:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by Loving Rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not reasonable to expect that a couple will have EVERYTHING in common. Some characteristics are more important than others. Do you agree on your most important values? If so, you are probably compatible.
2007-07-19 23:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
opposites attract but commonality keeps it together.
2007-07-19 23:46:19 · answer #5 · answered by hankelmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worried about it? It sounds like you get along. Let it be.
2007-07-20 00:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by Jose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah ever seen a magnet?
2007-07-19 23:47:52 · answer #7 · answered by lalala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋