I seriously want to stay over at least one night at my boyfriend's house.. But my parents wont let me!!! :@ We've been going out for almost 2 years.
2007-07-19 16:38:51 · 12 answers · asked by Zimbie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you sleep over your boyfriend house then you will ruin three relationships: the one with your parents because you are going behind their backs and when they are telling you not to for a reason and you don't want to find out the hard way what that reason is; the other is with your boyfriend because if you want a serious relationship you need to be a respectable young lady toward him. You don't have to do it just because it is the thing to do, listen to your parents and look in your heart and you will know what the right thing to do is; and last you will ruin your relationship with God even if you don't already have one. God will take of you as long as you take care of yourself and going against your parents is not pleasing to Him at all. Love God and your boyfriend the way you were taught by your parents (if they taught to love God) and you can not go wrong. Remember that is your boyfriend not your husband, you don't owe him a thing.
2007-07-19 16:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin E 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There is no way I would let my daughter stay at her boyfriends when she was a teenager! I remember when I was a teenager
One thing that kids seem to not understand, their parents were teens once upon a time. Some did the not so good things while others did everything perfect.
Sorry, I have no suggestions with this one and I honestly hope that your parents stand to their word... They know what "boys" are capable of and want to protect their daughter.
I am sure you have heard this statement - "When you have your children, you will look back and remember this" In some cases, you will just smile and shake your head as you go down memory lane
2007-07-19 23:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by LyndasCa 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay, do you actually think that's really a good idea? You haven't told us how old you are, but if you have to get permission from your parents, I'd say you are not yet 18 years of age. Your parents are just trying to protect you when they say you should not do such a thing.
What you want and what's right for you are not necessarily the same thing. Please respect your parents for their intelligence and protection of you and don't spend the night at your boyfriend's house. Besides, how do his parents feel about it? I would have a hard time believing they would approve of such actions either. They might think you were acting like a tramp, or trying to trap their son into a loveless marriage via teen pregnancy.
This can come to no good end. Stay home like a good girl, you will thank yourself for the good judgement years from now.
2007-07-19 23:44:34 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara W 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl...i am 17 and been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and my mother wont let me! I mean all they are trying to do is make sure you dont wind up pregant. If you want to take a risk in being caught though say you are spending the night at girls house and you will be waking up early to go shopping, buys you time to sleep in with him.
2007-07-20 00:37:18 · answer #4 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you are asking from your parent is permission to have sex with your bf.
Any sensible parent will say NO my dear..
At a later stage in your life, when you have children, would you let your own daughter to have sex with another man?
If you are sensible enough, you will derive the same answer from your parent as well..
So really what is the BIG deal if you do not sleep over one night?. If you are married you can sleep over many nights and no one cares... for now you should just listen to your parent.
take care
2007-07-19 23:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by trymejames 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, you are not at an age of consent or you wouldn't need to get your parents permission. It doesn't matter how long you've been going out, what matters is they said no. If you want them to trust and respect you, you need to trust and respect that what they want, it is for the best. You have plenty of time to "sleep over" when you are older. What' the hurry, anyway?
2007-07-20 00:23:38 · answer #6 · answered by foodieNY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's wrong with you people asking these stupid questions
you want to play house before your married and you want your parents permission
2007-07-20 00:13:35 · answer #7 · answered by jeanniep 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my mom let me stay over at my boyfriends house :)
she trust me; so prove to your mom that she can trust you.
your mom is probaly just scared that you guys will have s.e.x
aand you might get pregnant.
i know crazy right ?
haha well you could always invite him over to your house for the night and tell your mom that she can keep an eye on you guys if you want. than she might trust you and let you stay over at his house :) xo i hope she lets you !!
2007-07-19 23:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Lie
2007-07-19 23:41:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I doubt they're going to let you...sorry. i had the same problem when i was younger...but, after 2 yrs, my mom let him move in. so theres hope i guess...
2007-07-19 23:42:23 · answer #10 · answered by Alysia 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋