Me and my best guy friend hang out almost everyday and he calls me everyday. He says that we are too good of friends to go out with each other, but I want to tell him how I feel. How should I go about doing this? By the way, I am 17, if that matters.
2007-07-19 16:39:12 · 9 answers · asked by the mentalist 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way, he did slap me butt... multiple times. And he's not a pervert or anything like that.
2007-07-19 16:46:12 · update #1
how bout this.... will you go out with me???
2007-07-19 16:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by Pam A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about if you say something like you really want to do "whatever," but don't want to do it alone, and don't have anyone to go with, so you are wondering if he would go with you. Or, if there is something he knows how to do that you don't, such as bowling, ask if he will show you how to do it. Perhaps, after you do this a couple of times, he will ask you to go/do something with him. I'm afraid if you tell him up front that you want to date him, you will scare him off. Make it seem like it is just two good friends doing something together, and see where it goes.
2007-07-19 23:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by soupkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. Believe it or not some guys actually like a chick that takes the initiative. But if he's already said he just wants to be friends try to respect that. But also don't hold it in. Sit him down and talk to him. tell him how you feel and that you realize what he said, but you just have to get it off your chest. Good luck girl!
2007-07-19 23:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A young girl, interesting???? I'm just playing. Anyway, sure sounds like he may like you before you like him. And if what you're saying is true, then it's very probable(likely). I mean, did a girl ever ask me out??? Actually, a couple did but a man's gotta do what a man's gotta do, right??? Usually the man makes the moves. If a girl makes a move, then it's just a bonus. But is it O.K for a girl to ask a guy out???? I think no doubt about it......but coming from experience, try this.
You say you guys practically go out everyday, right??? Trust me. When a guy talks to a girl, sometimes it differs. First, men will talk to a girl who they may find interesting. Usually your friends are people whom you frequently come in contact with but with someone you like, you intend to talk to that person(regardless how many times you may see her/him). Attraction does lead to appealing. And the more we like someone, the more we are comfortable. And the more we talk to her/him, the more we want to hang out. In other words, talking with someone who you like usually means that you are interested. TRUST ME: Men don't talk to girls(unless is for something else....you know what I'm talking about) who they don't find interesting, they talked for a "reason".
I can tell you just by the way you said it that I believe that the boy may like you. Why??? Well, like I said, He talks to you alot, I mean alot. So, it's not like you guys are doing a "science project". To tell you the truth, he may be shy. I mean, come one, what else could it be??? Maybe he feels that you may not like him, maybe that's right he never asked you. Also, do you give him signs??? I mean, expressions(ex. smiling) towards him. Like how you are with him, compared with your friends and so on. Your behavior determines if he finds out you like him. So, I do think though that he may in fact like you. I will give you about a....75% chance that he does in fact like you. But what will you do???
I think if you really want to tell him how you feel, then go ahead(he probably feels the same way). But if you do feel that he likes you....wouldn't you want to wait and find out????? Also, I'm sure you are a very pretty and intelligent woman and the last thing you want is an assumption. I always thought that the pretty ones were tougher to get, don't you agree????
PS: Hopefully this helps you out. Im not saying that I know what I'm talking about but I do know how the game is played(literally). Also, I was raised old-school. And I hardly seen the ladies ask a guy out. The man usually does the work.....Times have change, don't you think??? Good luck.....
PPS: I'm actually 21 and I have seen it all, trust me.
2007-07-20 00:19:39 · answer #4 · answered by Lucifer6972 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not seem to share your sentiment. Best if you could just drop the idea and find someone else. Dont risk losing the friendship over something that may not anyway be meant to be.
Good luck!
2007-07-19 23:44:14 · answer #5 · answered by snoringcouchprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he wants to take the relationship to the next level.
Talk to him in person where telling him your feelings
Life is to short kiddo
2007-07-19 23:43:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just simply say: " so and so, i feel that our relationship is close. i wanna get to know u more. do u mind if sometime we can go out to know each other more?"
2007-07-19 23:42:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt seem like he wants to take it any further. sumtimes things like that ruin really precious friendships.
2007-07-19 23:48:08 · answer #8 · answered by Ms T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He already told you his feelings on this. If you take it further, you'll lose him.
2007-07-19 23:42:49 · answer #9 · answered by ♥§weetiepie♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋