I've always wanted to go to these asian spas one to find out what the fuss was about.
Would anyone consider my going to one of these parlors as cheating on my wife? I don't plan on getting anything more than a rub/tug, and I don't really feel like that's crossing the line.
I've worked hard this week and just feel like I deserve it.
2007-07-19 16:22:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
come on the rule is "it's not cheating if you don't get caught"
so just be careful and you'll be golden
2007-07-19 16:27:31 · answer #1 · answered by Michael 5 · 1⤊ 7⤋
what "fuss" are you talking about in "Asian" spas?
seems like you are already guilty without having to do it yet.
having a massage is not cheating. maybe you have to define cheating with your wife. what would be considered cheating between you and her? For almost all, sex with another woman is definitely a form of cheating, while for some "fantasizing" another woman is already cheating-(which can happen while youre getting massage). Dont feel guilty if you just want massage and you'd only get massage.
2007-07-19 18:18:10 · answer #2 · answered by Red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To have a therapist (meaning DR.) massage your body is one thing (fine) but as soon as your family jewels start getting massaged then it's game over, you've cheated. Think to yourself, "Would I appreciate some other guy getting my wife off?" If the answer is no, or you feel you have to justify it to make your conscience clear, then it's not usually the right thing to do. If you need to have a little "rub & tug" then you should be going to your wife. If she's not doing it for you, then I suggest you re-think your marriage.
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2007-07-20 05:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by bylovemagic 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Asian Rub And Tug
2016-10-04 13:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all you get is the massage then no. The main question should be, Does your wife consider it cheating, because if she does, she will accuse you of cheating.
2007-07-19 16:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by mikebnchprss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy ending = cheating. Tug it yourself, like the rest of us LOL!
2007-07-19 16:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by old man 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have your wife give you a rub/tug as you say.. then it's really not cheating..
2007-07-19 16:25:42 · answer #8 · answered by Wildflower 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You bastard your wife deserves better. Yes you are cheating and next you will do it again and again because you did not get caught. Mine got caught and now I am leaving him he deserves it.
2014-06-29 17:19:09 · answer #9 · answered by carole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
massage only - no (it's not cheating)
'happy ending' - just on the other side of the line, debatable (for me, yes, it is cheating)
2007-07-19 16:26:13 · answer #10 · answered by ThunderBallMenace 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's cheating if you lie to her about it. It's cheating if you're doing something you wouldn't do if she was with you.
You already know the answer.
2007-07-19 16:26:04 · answer #11 · answered by Buttercup 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋