okay so my ex and i got back together like two days ago (it was his decision) after four months apart....this time around he's putting his friends ahead of me...he told me that he writes lyrics for agirl coz he feels inspired by her but he's not in love with her....he also added that she has everything he wants in a girl but he doesn't have feelings for her...is that even possible? and he's also decided to stop smoking coz three of his college mates (all of them are girls) told him to.....am i being too overly possesive and jelous or should i really be worried about his behaviour? or should i hang around a little longer since we've only been together for two days?
2007-07-19 16:21:23 · 8 answers · asked by broken angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
worry.if he's putting friends ahead of you it means he doesn't really care.if he says he writes about a girl cuz he feels inspired but has no feelings or isn't in love then id say the odds are hes probably lying.he obviously cares quite a bit.I'm just gonna say hes most likely playing you.you can pay attention to me or you cant.its your choice but Ive done the same thing before so iknow.me and the girl i said "inspired" me went out for about 2 weeks then i noticed I'm missing something.I'm going back out with the girl that i told not to worry and i cant be happier.i always tell her i feel bad and I'm still sorry but shes says not to worry about it.I'm just thanking god she took me back.
2007-07-19 16:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by overpossessive depression 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds a little flaky and that he is interested in everyone but you. He needs to focus more on you if he wants things to work. Sounds like maybe you should reconsider your decision to take him back. From my experience, breaking up getting back together back and forth is just prolonging the end result-those type of relationships rarely work out. Sorry, just personal experience. =( You deserve better!
2007-07-19 23:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by sugarcakes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ex's are ex's for a reason.
He's writing lyrics for another woman, a woman who he says is everything he could want in a woman, trying to quit smoking because 3 other women told him he needs to.
Yeah, he still needs to be your 'ex'.
2007-07-19 23:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by Michael H 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2014-08-20 05:14:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. It's only been two days and he's already talking all about other girls and putting his friends in front of you? It will only get worse.
2007-07-19 23:26:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
time changes us all. maybe something happened and he opened his eyes to a change. women complain because they cant change how men are, but when they do change, they want them back the way they were. just let it ride for a while, unless something bizarre comes up
2007-07-19 23:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by paulzy_jlp 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like you need a new car!
2007-07-19 23:29:02 · answer #7 · answered by true_value5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a player .........enjoy!
2007-07-19 23:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by klunk 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋