Family & Relationships - 19 July 2007

Recently my boyfriend of about 2 months said "I love you" at the end of our phone conversations. Right when he said those three words i felt butterflies in my stomach and had the biggest smile on my face, so of course i said it back. Since then we've always ended our conversations with i love you. The only thing thats bothering me is Im thinking of asking him how does he know it's truly love that he feels for me. He is the first boy that i have ever said those words to, and i've always felt that saying my first i love you to someone should be mutual. Im so happy when we spend time together. He is the first and last thing i think about day and night. Its crazy because sometimes when we hang out its usually from early morning to 11 pm and i still feel like its not enough. When im with him i feel so taken care of and secure. So is this love that im feeling for him? Should i ask him "How do you know you love me?"

2007-07-19 17:50:07 · 5 answers · asked by xtoxic_desirex 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, here it goes. Me and my husband have been together for 12 years and we have one child. Before we had our child, I used to be an exotic dancer and he worked as an electric engineering and he's also an martial arts trainer.He trained friends and other people. But he also trained this woman. We became friends sort of. She wanted more from his training, I told my hubby about it but he didn't believe me. He said that I was jealous ( hey can u blame me?). One day, she told me they had something going on. For example, he gave her a massage and it led to you know. And then I confronted my hubby nad he he gave her massage and that wa it. I assumed they had sex, so I got even with him and I had sex with my boss. So couple of months went by, and the truth came out of her and she said nothing happened. Let me make it short. I feel so bad what I've had done to him that till this day he sometimes brings up the subject . How can I make him get over this now till this day were parents? Help?

2007-07-19 17:48:35 · 17 answers · asked by monieval_74 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-19 17:46:14 · 1 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband and i have been married for 9 years and we have to kids, anyways he kissed another girl while away on a job and told me the next day, I am having a hard time with this and i feel like Im showing him my ture feeling on how much ai love him, I also said i need some time to think about thhings and he says he will give it to me but reminds me hes not waiting forever, i kninda feel like he trys to warn me that he may not be there because he knows I am scared to lose him so, he plays alot of hard to get, im always the one he crys for him and I know he loves that but I need it to, hes the one who cheated but yet Im the one whos showing him all the love, could I have hurt him that badly that he was really lacking my attention so when he gets it he loves it.I also feel like when i say I wanna end the realtionship he gets tuff but when we have a problems and he starts feeling like Im gonna leave he gets all worried, I dont get it

2007-07-19 17:46:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A friend of mine is in the hospital right now because every relationship she steps into with a guy, she's always being physically abused. & she keeps getting hurt because she leaves 1 guy for another, thinking the new guy is "Mr. Right". Well, today she got sent to the hospital because this guy got her pregnant & she thought that if she get pregnant for this guy, then her ex would leave her alone. Well, her ex found out that she's pregnant & now she wants to get an abortion, & the guy who got her pregnant beat the life out of her when he found out her abortion plan. & on top of that, she lost the baby & when he choked her, she bit down hard on her tongue. How long would it take for her to recover from the tongue injury? She has to get stitches. So him beating her up killed the baby. Now what? & this guy who put her in the hospital was a 1-night stand & not a boyfriend. This is like the 5th guy she's been abused by, & this is the WORST scenario. 1st time being hospitalized.

2007-07-19 17:46:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

also true for girls to get whipped over guys?

2007-07-19 17:42:57 · 18 answers · asked by Peter 4 in Singles & Dating

...before she had a relationship with you, what would your reaction be?

2007-07-19 17:40:58 · 25 answers · asked by Lilly Jones-Fair 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband has a 13 year old daughter and we are now starting to see her alot more. He pays about 400 a month, plus all the medical and dental insurance for her, another 300 a month. Mother is not paying anything for medical and dental insurance and is against the court order now 8 plus years. We have not done anything about it because we can not afford an attorney. My question is, if we have the child over the summer months, do we have to pay the mother child support? Plus if not, how and who do we call to stop it. The support comes directly out of his paycheck every month. My husband and this woman were never married.

2007-07-19 17:39:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have been together for 3 years.

2007-07-19 17:29:44 · 5 answers · asked by Whitney D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have no motivation
I feel tired and listless
I would rather sleep or lay in bed for 12 hours than get up
I feel bored all the time
I don't have any close friends, someone who I could talk to or look to for support.
About once a month, I get very upset about something, to the point of extreme crying, anger, and feeling suicidal
I have no hobbies
I have a boyfriend, we've been together for 7 years, but I feel very unimportant and forgotten by him.
I'm always "nagging" him to spend some time with me, but I never know what we should do. Is it unreasonable to expect someone to just talk, or hang out and be bored together? He's got his hobbies, and everything I suggest for us to do is never fun or entertaining enough for him. But I'm just tired of being alone all day. We live in the same house, yet I still feel very alone.
I cannot keep up with my housework or basic responsibilities at home, even though I don't have a job.
I'm here all day and feel no sense of accomplishment at
the end of the day.
I have 2 children who I love very much, but I feel so guilty for not playing with them enough or interacting much.
I just feel totally useless and like a bad parent and a lame girlfriend who isn't worthy...
What can I do?
I don't have much if any of a sex drive....
No motivation to do anything constructive and nothing to look forward to.

2007-07-19 17:22:29 · 16 answers · asked by a person 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

In a new marriage and my husband seems to have some major trust issues. If he calls from work and i don't answer he will call like 25 more times and leave very rude hurtful messages accusing me of doing something i shouldn't be. Then when i tell him how i feel about what was said he gets even angrier. He knows i do nothing when he is gone i wouldn't do when he is here but he also has a thing about me having to call him before i go to bed at night when he is working too. I'm afraid we are heading for a divorce because neither of us is going to change our minds on this and when i try to explain my point of view he just gets angrier and puts me down and makes me feel even more like he is the one with something to hide.

2007-07-19 17:19:46 · 18 answers · asked by urangel4life2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is in construction he was laid off for 8 months, finally when we just spent the last dollar in our savings he started working again, it has been out of the hall. Like work at one place for a week then go to a dif company for a few days etc... He was hired at a small co who said they needed help until the winter. Well apparently winter came early this year b/c he is laid off once again!!! The co lost their @$$ on a job someone made big boo boo (no not my husband he wasn't even on that project). Anyway because of the big loss they had to let go of some people, well since he just started their 3/4 weeks ago, he was the first to be let go. Hopefully he can go to the hall tomorrow and find something, but I am just sick about the situation! We have 2 small children that need to eat/ have clothing etc, not to mention a house I would like to keep!!! I work full time but i'm not bringing home mega bucks by any means. Thanks for reading I needed to get that out b4 I had a breakdown.

2007-07-19 17:19:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what happend was i have been trying to get a job for so long and at the same time i was trying to get on a tv show so that i can perform and i was talking to my sister about it and she said that she think's that i didont realy want to work because she thinks that i am putting my music first which is not true and it hurted me for her to say that because i realy have been trying to get a job and today my mom had confronted my sister about it and now shes being in denial that she did not say that stuff to me.should i have kept it to myself or did i do the right thing by telling my mom the truth by telling my mom how my sister hurted my feelings?

2007-07-19 17:15:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i work 12-10 , 4 days a week and got into the habit of staying up late, and sleeping till i go to work,, now it seems like all i do is sleep and work, whats the best way to break out of this pattern so i can sleep at a decent time and wake up refreshed to get my active life back??

2007-07-19 17:14:51 · 1 answers · asked by angela j 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

umm i kind of need some help well you see i broke up with this guy because he pissed me off and this other guy asked me out and i said yes then the other guy asked me back out and i said yes now im caught in the middle and i have no idea who to brake up with wat should i do??????

2007-07-19 17:08:28 · 32 answers · asked by nicole s 2 in Singles & Dating

I DIDN'T WRITE THIS YARP DID BUT I'M HELPING SO PLEASE VOTE FOR THIS GIRL SHE SEEMS SO SWEET.
YARP:

Okay, she is best friends with this girl who's having a Super Sweet Fourteenth and wants to get it on tv. All her friends are getting people to vote and stuff. I don't know her that well but she is really really nice and it would be cool if the party was covered by MTV. My friend that's best friends with the girl, Briana, asked me to post this here and ask you guys to vote and help her?

It would be so nice if you would. If you do make sure you vote for overall at the top, outfit, invitation, gift, venue, theme, and whatever else there is.

http://mysupersweet16.com/accounts/BrianaKirkland

You are really nice if you vote for this person you've never met so she can have the best birthday ever. Thanks



I COPIED THIS FROM YARP I WANT THAT GIRL TO HAVE THE BEST BIRTHDAY EVER SO I'M HELPING!!!

2007-07-19 17:07:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

1.) People that don't date or have a relationship in high school, do they eventually get a bf or gf??
2.) Would someone not want to be with a person because they never had a relationship before?
3.) Do you know any late bloomers?? Did they eventually get a relationship and how old were they??

2007-07-19 17:07:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does her age influence how you feel about the issue?

2007-07-19 16:59:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

That's right. Because, the previous year, when I was on probation, sitting in the back seat of a car as a captive audience, she in the front sniped at me twice, "You are not my brother", and I couldn't get my mother to pull over and just let me out..
And, if I had punched her out for saying that , while on probation, I would have had my passport revoked, she knew that, that's why she was so aggressive about it), so I played it cool, and then the following year just totally gave her wedding a miss.
Now, she has two kids, and I don't even acknowlewdge them, or any other development on her part. I just got completely off the bus, especially for her saying I was "not her brother" while I was in such a vulneranble situation. I'll get back, forever, no joke, especially if she told me she wants it that way, I admit it even here.
I don't even herknow kids, but I will have such a good time one day telling them about this, and that I don't want to know them, either, for it

2007-07-19 16:58:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

like saying "wow she's pretty"??? lol

2007-07-19 16:58:28 · 11 answers · asked by ooh 2 in Singles & Dating

Im hot

2007-07-19 16:55:41 · 11 answers · asked by Kay 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been with my bf Shane for almost 2 years and our relationship isnt the best, we constantly fight and he always makes me upset and he's jus a real hipocrite. im finding it hard lately to admit to myself that i love him still. the other problem is one of his closer friends Steve has been really friendly to me over the past few months, heaps more than he used to be and its actually really noticeable to everyone, ive had quite a few people mention it to me. The first thing which really got me is he now comes up and gives me a big hug and kiss everytime he sees me out which he never use to do before when he was with his gf.. and another thing is one night we were out and a bit drunk and he was saying how pretty i was and that i reminded him of his old g/f- not in front of my bf of course but lastly when me and my bf fight his friends take my side and tell me i dont have to put up with this crap from him...so basically my problem is im starting to have feelings for Steve, what shuld i do

2007-07-19 16:55:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think its wrong for girls to ask boys out?

2007-07-19 16:53:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was dating this stuck-up chick for about a week, she broke up with me cause she said i pick my nose in public and pass gas at the dinner table. this is total crap.. i only done that maybe 3-4 times while we were together. i was so mad i got drunk at a party and told everybody i broke up with her cause she gave me the crabs and stuff. her dad heard about it and he is saying that he wants to talk to me man to man as her father and not as a cop, i think he wants to knock me out and stuff. can he do this he has been a cop for 14 years. can i get him into trouble or something...what should i do ? iam not going to apologize to her cause she is a skanky hoe, and he made her so i hate his guts too. i think he should just back off and mind his own buisness, this is between me and her..any ideas ?

2007-07-19 16:50:16 · 17 answers · asked by Factual52 7 in Singles & Dating

I cussed out this guy because he got me mad and then I said to him "Can u hook me up with one of ur boys" And then he said "Oh so its like that" and then stopped talking to me..I don't know if he really liked me back or not but he said he did. He's been ignoring me since then. What should I do or say to him? I told him how I felt on the email and stuff but he's still ignoring me but I want him back. But we were just friends but we were talking like interested in eachother stuff..I really miss him.

2007-07-19 16:48:57 · 4 answers · asked by NeNe 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in southern cali. I have lost a loved one and would like to bury some of their ashes at a cemetery. Anyone know approx costs for this?

2007-07-19 16:48:29 · 1 answers · asked by Steve V 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i came to na dat he was trying 2 flirt wit her. but wen i asked he use to say dat "no i am not lik dat".and wen i asked him weather he ll surly marry me r not he wont say any thing he use to say "i luv u so am wit u". i don na wat is ther in his heart but he is trying for her is 100% true. but wen i stop talking to him he use to cal me 100 times a day and say that he cant stay wit out me. ohter wise i would hav left him long back only.i don na wether he loves r he flirts wit me.completly lossed my happiness.i luv him more than any thing in this world.i don na wat to do.pls if u hav any suggestion do mail me.will be waiting for ur rpl..hope some one will help me ...

2007-07-19 16:48:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 16 ,last night i was hanging out with some friends and i guess i forgot to call because i came home late around 2 and the lights were still on and i thiught that,that was kindof weird and when i got in he was there yelling at me and when he was done i was piised and said what do u have to say and i said well you can goto hell! he slapped me across the face and pulled me upto my room andbelted me 10 times and i actuallyteared a bit. how do i deal with him, what would you have done if you were him

2007-07-19 16:47:59 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

her interest in having sex with her husband? it is not him i don't want to have sex period with anyone.

2007-07-19 16:47:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 15 and i havent seen my grandma for 2 weeks and i miss her. she never calls me. when i call, there is no answer. she is always busy. she is very popular and always hanging with her friends. how can i make her call me? everyday is wasted because i have nothing to do. help! this is going to be another day wasted! btw her name is nancy. i left her a message a few days ago and she still wont call me back. she is in town. my parents wont help me. i cant remember what house she lives in. so dont tell me to personally visit her. i never go this long without hearing from her. i cant mail her. what should i do? tomorrow is wasted. everyone keeps turning me down. i need my grandma more than ever. i miss her hugs and kisses. she wont return my calls. i usually see her once a week. she isnt sick. i cant stop crying. i cry myself to sleep because i miss her so bad. i need her in my life. she is the best thing that has ever happened to em. <333. what should i do? it hurts so bad!

2007-07-19 16:46:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family