Does her age influence how you feel about the issue?
2007-07-19 16:59:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I personally do not value virginity. Keep in mind I'm not a religious person. If I were single and dating, It would certainly not be a factor. It would only be a detriment if she intends to STAY a virgin.
I don't subscribe to the double standard of women who enjoy and seek sex being sluts. Her sexual history is unimportant, as long as she's healthy and no STD's.
2007-07-19 17:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by flashmeon3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hm, I heard this kind of question many times before, but ok I'll answer it again. I think virginity is important. It shows a lot of things about person (regardless of gender and age). Being able to guard your virginity until marriage shows yourself as a responsible, committed, controlled, self-respecting, and well prioritized person. Besides, like your life, you can lose it only once, ever. Why waste it?
2007-07-20 00:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by Le Jazzfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think virginity is a good thing.
Reason one, you know that she hasn't had sex with anybody else, so you eliminate the risk for STDs
Reason two, it is much more pleasing, much tighter lol
Reason three, Itll be the first time for them, so If you are serious about being with them, it will be something to remember, that you were the first one to pop her cherry.
Age does influence because pedophiles suck.
2007-07-20 00:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by Pedro S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends.
its great if im going to be the first, sucks if im not getting any.
virgins are fun. they have no experience, so you are the best they ever had.
sexually its a great feeling for the guy.
does age matter? yes. an under 18 year old virgin is like a $100 in a mine field. untouchable.
anything over 18 doesnt matter.
2007-07-20 00:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age does have something to do with it, I think anyone over 18 who is a virgin has some very strong will. I couldn't do it.
2007-07-20 00:05:42 · answer #5 · answered by jamesdean250 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I would love a girl who is still a virgin. It means that she doesn't sleep around with alot of men. Most guys respect women more when they wait, believe it or not.
I would love the fact that she is a virgin but I don't want to be in a relationship and have to wait years to have sex with her. I am too young and my sex drive is too high for me to have to wait. Plus what if I wait three years and we end up breaking up. All of that time was wasted.
2007-07-20 00:05:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
virginity doesn't matter to the vast majority of men. however if it does matter to the man then he is either a religious type or he has a fetish for taking virginity
2007-07-20 00:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by sgtirish 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't really think it matters that much. But, if she decides to give it up for a guy, then it would make me happy to know that i am the first person she trusted that much.
2007-07-20 00:05:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me, a womans virginity doesn't mean anything to me...but, I would feel honored to know that she chose me first...
2007-07-20 00:04:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend's 21 and a virgin... I'm happy for her. It shows she can control temptation and it also shows that she's saving it for someone extra-special. If it's me, that's good, and if not... then I'm cool with that too. She's not going to do it until she's married, and I respect that. (I'm the same way.)
2007-07-20 00:03:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋