my husband and i have been married for 9 years and we have to kids, anyways he kissed another girl while away on a job and told me the next day, I am having a hard time with this and i feel like Im showing him my ture feeling on how much ai love him, I also said i need some time to think about thhings and he says he will give it to me but reminds me hes not waiting forever, i kninda feel like he trys to warn me that he may not be there because he knows I am scared to lose him so, he plays alot of hard to get, im always the one he crys for him and I know he loves that but I need it to, hes the one who cheated but yet Im the one whos showing him all the love, could I have hurt him that badly that he was really lacking my attention so when he gets it he loves it.I also feel like when i say I wanna end the realtionship he gets tuff but when we have a problems and he starts feeling like Im gonna leave he gets all worried, I dont get it
2007-07-19 17:46:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Kissing another girl isnt exactly the worst form of "cheating" in anyones book. My bet is he probably thinks your OVERREACTING because.. your overreacting.....
He kissed a woman.. thats no where near cheating. Its not honorable, advisable, or "right", but in no where does it demand that much "thought"
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2007-07-20 05:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by bylovemagic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think it's time that someone became the mature one in this relationship? Such drama should really be left to hollywood shouldn't it? I'd suggest you toughen up and get your act together. If he threatens you then go right along with it.. you don't need to give in. Sounds like you are both threatening all you can and seeing who is bluffing. This is not a game of poker. This is real life. Both of you get into counseling or get out of the relationship because you are only hurting the kids. You are a fool if you stick around and cry. Toughen up and be the mature one and don't take his ****!
2007-07-19 18:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is also my problem. once im in love, i give much more than i should.
you actually let your husband walk all over you in the beginning, that is why he go used to getting away with just anything. so i say its partly your fault. you give too much so your husband may not be challenged in the relationship anymore. but not because you are nice doesn't mean he should just be taking you for granted.
and p.s. let me tell you, he didn't just kiss her, he's lying. i'd bet my thumb something more happened to him and the girl.
think of the worst, hope for the best.
find a therapist that will deal with your issues, if all else fails, its your life. you decide for yourself. dont let yourself be a hostage for a person who doesnt treat you well.
good luck!
2007-07-19 18:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by nuttynellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is playing a dangerous game playing hard to get. It's a mind game and he's manipulating your emotions. My husb used to play too till I told him to leave and not come back. He shaped up real quick and he don't threaten to leave anymore.
2007-07-19 18:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by Blue Love Aura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is in NO position to play hard to get. If you are going to forgive him, trusting again will take some time. He will have to deal with that.
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2016-11-09 23:09:21 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you need to grow up and raise your children in a loving home.
2007-07-19 17:57:58 · answer #8 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
didn't you say earlier you wanted to cheat on him as revenge??? pick a story and run with it
you can't change the details to make yourself look better
well actually you can, but you shouldn't
2007-07-19 17:53:09 · answer #9 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got a feeling he made it all up just to get your attention.
2007-07-20 02:01:32 · answer #10 · answered by Sweetface24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋