i was dating this stuck-up chick for about a week, she broke up with me cause she said i pick my nose in public and pass gas at the dinner table. this is total crap.. i only done that maybe 3-4 times while we were together. i was so mad i got drunk at a party and told everybody i broke up with her cause she gave me the crabs and stuff. her dad heard about it and he is saying that he wants to talk to me man to man as her father and not as a cop, i think he wants to knock me out and stuff. can he do this he has been a cop for 14 years. can i get him into trouble or something...what should i do ? iam not going to apologize to her cause she is a skanky hoe, and he made her so i hate his guts too. i think he should just back off and mind his own buisness, this is between me and her..any ideas ?
2007-07-19 16:50:16 · 17 answers · asked by Factual52 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well being a mom you have really out done yourself this time I have to say.Boy do you know how to get yourself in a rut.You never should have opened your mouth to begin with, no matter how dissatisfied you were over the realtionship breaking apart so soon. Be thankful it ended as soon as it did.You two obviously were not meant to be together.You do owe her an apology even if it is in a letter and left in her mailbox.That way you don't have to face dad.Sometimes ducking out in a foolish manner will save your hide.Especially when you mess with a cops' daughter.I know a few good cops and they wouldn't hesitate to confront their daughters' ex-boyfriends who hurt their daughters' feelings. Even if she was wrong. I mean we are talking about daddy's pride and joy. I'm not married to one but my husband can become the meanest person on the earth when it comes to his daughter and he's had to be held back by me quite a few times from going after someone.
Please do yourself a favor and bow out gracefully in this one and forget you even met her.You're all pent up with nastyness inside of you(I can tell just by the way you wrote your question).I don't know how old you are but take it from a mom, watch how you treat women and how you talk to them and about them because you never know who you will be face to face with.
My dad got ahold of some crazed out guy that I knew as a teenager with some of his italian buddies because the kid freaked on me bad.I have to admit I was the one who stuck my foot in that one to begin with and when i told my dad it was my fault to begin with, he said that he didn't care because I was his little girl.That made me think long and hard about what I said to people and how I treated them.Hense to say the kid AND his parents apologized to me and 3 months later moved across the country.I felt bad but it taught me a valueable lesson in humanity.
You can get more flies attracted with honey than you can with vinegar.The same applies to you.If you want to go through realtionships like water, then you are going to have to be suave about how you treat the women and what kind of a note you leave them on.I would recommend being a real casanova and leaving behind a great reputaion of yourself in doing so.
If you think that having to deal with a cop is bad, ask if anyone has a parent in the government or CIA or FBI or even better, the toughest branches of the military where they deal in getting rid of bodies without a trace.
Don't want to hear about you on the news son.Be smart and redeem yourself to a higher standard with women.You always learn more as you go through them.Just be smart about it.You never know what background they come from,even if they look goofy or ugly or dumb.Take care and be cool.
P.S.: Dad will never mind his own business, he brought her into this world and he wouldn't mind taking you out.Remember that.Just a warning about parents.Some are meaner than others.
2007-07-19 17:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He should leave you alone. I think/hope it was just a harmless threat.
As the father to your ex-gf, I think he was just angry you badmouthed her.
Next time, keep your yap shut, even if the chick is a skankbag.
And in the future, be real careful of how you drive and act if you're drinking alcohol. Cops have friends, and you might get in MAJOR trouble for the littlest things.
2007-07-19 16:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't get him in trouble, or anyone else for that matter, because of what you THINK they might do. If he keeps insisting he wants to speak to you, then maybe you can arrange a meeting with him in a public place, like a restaurant, where you can both talk but no one will make a scene.
2007-07-19 16:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by missmuffin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MAN I'm only 17 and I even think what you did is disgusting. I am a guy and it is just immature and nasty to fart and pick your nose i public. You should be ashamed of yourself!!! Well that cop can't do anything to you. He is also a human being he won't kill you I think he will keep his word.
2007-07-19 16:57:45 · answer #4 · answered by dnt_bthr 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a lot of growing up to do. He's her father, and you treated her poorly. He has a right to be upset at you.
No, he cannot assault you, especially not as an officer of the law. You must be pretty stupid not to know that. But getting drunk and shooting your mouth off is pretty stupid, too.
2007-07-19 16:56:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Can you get him in trouble???? Who are you gonna call? The cops? Who's side do you honestly think they will be on? He could make your life unbearably difficult
2007-07-19 16:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he touches you he'll lose his job. Just break all contact with her and forget about her family. If she broke up with you for something as trivial as that (as disgusting as that is) there should be nothing "between you and her" at all.
2007-07-19 16:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound disgusting and the "man to man" talk would be a man to little boy talk. Get over it and grow up.
2007-07-19 16:59:19 · answer #8 · answered by ksgirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just walk away from the situation.
2007-07-19 16:55:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow i dnt think that apologizing will wrk for this 1..u always have to treat a girl with respect.
2007-07-19 16:55:02 · answer #10 · answered by lalala 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋