I feel like my guy isn't so into me anymore. I've tried a lot of diff things. Does any one have any ideas??? Plz I really need some help.
2007-07-19 15:52:27 · 35 answers · asked by sexigrape1020 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We've been together for over 2.5 yrs...
2007-07-19 16:10:14 · update #1
As a relationship ages, if both partners don't make a concerted effort to keep the flame alit...the sparks will get a bit dim. So i say u 2 should make attempts to spice things up. However step one is talking to him about it!
2007-07-27 11:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by The sage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what you should do is go out somewhere together, have a good time. Do something new and exciting, to get the spark back. If you're always doing the same things all the time, it becomes sort of like a routine and gets old. So go out somewhere where you two have never been. I'm sure it will work. =]
2007-07-19 15:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by Rach 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if something is wrong or if something is bothering him. Maybe you guys need to take a break until he is an active part of the relationship. Could he possibly be seeing another girl? Does he still spend as much time with you? or maybe he is feeling comfortable in the relationship and feels he doesn't need to try as hard.
2007-07-19 15:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your guy loves you for you , then it shouldn't matter about appearance if thats what your getting at..
A true relationship also should be good companionship/friendship.. Some guys lack this though ...sad to say..
Has he been checking out other girls?
You can try dying your hair another color or changing your makeup around or hairstyle...
He doesn't even sound worth it..
2007-07-19 15:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by MeganElizabeth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make plans with your friends, rent some movies you want to see, be polite to him but don't go out of your way to do things with him. See how he handles it. Maybe he needs some space and will be grateful and happy for the time you do spend together.
2007-07-19 16:10:15 · answer #5 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you too focused on that and nothing else? It's a big turn off, like have your own life kinda thing, too many girls just don't do that. What do you like to do, start becoming unavailable but not just to be unavailable, really enjoy something else.
2007-07-19 15:56:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times guy lose interest in a girl that's why your relationship should be base on how mentally close you are then about sex. sex will be there but if he feels like he lost a someone really close to him he will try to keep you together
2007-07-27 15:53:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lingerie and sex toys! Plan a big night doing something that you both like to do (movies, ball game, dinner, picnic, theater, whatever). Talk to him about what you're feeling - maybe there's something else going on that he isn't telling you about.
2007-07-19 15:56:10 · answer #8 · answered by sarahjaniepoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People do grow up and sometimes apart from each other. Perhaps you need to develop other interests - are you too much into him and nothing else? Keep your distance from him - if it's supposed to be, he'll come around.
2007-07-19 15:56:34 · answer #9 · answered by Micki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get the book called He's not that into you. It will help you look at the situation through someone else'd eyes.
2007-07-19 15:56:05 · answer #10 · answered by thyme4change 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋