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Question

Can I make a statement?

Men care so damn much about breast size, and weight size, and yadda yadda, when many of them look awful, and we still love them. Why? Why is what Im asking. Women are nagged to be easy ( why cant we be "easier") and crave sex more and act upon our desires. CAUSE WE GET FUDGIN PREGNANT THATS WHY.

I just dont get it. I have to wake up every morning and look in the mirror and know that I will not get much of any kind of attention from a guy because A.) I have just making it to size B boobs.. and B.) I wont jump in bed with you right away. I wont get many compliments unless I am pam anderson and I come off easy. While yet, a guy who cracks a joke, makes me laugh, and smiles alot turns me on? Why? Why is it that I am (WOMEN ARE actually) so easy to impress? FACE IT. We are.

All Im saying is... why the hell are guys such assholes sometimes? Cant you just make it a little easier on us? Jesus christ.

I have seen hitch. Its cute... but yet the biggest contradiction ever. A kinda dorky looking guy with a nice personality, wants a hot girl. What else is new? I would like to see something like hitch work the other way around... a dorky looking girl with a nice personality, gets a hot guy? NOPE not gonna happen. Why. Men are shallow. And I dont think Im ever going to commit whatsoever to any, or get with any... Ill just be a tease the rest of my life, or just ... pretend I dont exist to them.

Thnks to the ones who are telling me to say it loud and proud, see yal know what im talking about. Someone said I bet you didnt get turned on by there jokes until you thought they were somewhat attractive... well im not gonna deny that, but in all reality WOMEN HAVE COMPLETELY DIFFERENT STANDARDS. For example, a guy I got turned on by his jokes/personality... I like his smile... I like his eyes... this guy doesnt have the greatest teeth, by standards, and his eyes are big and sometimes bloodshot.. people have told me that isnt too attractive ethier, again standards... but to ME I liked it. I dont know why. Beauty in the eye of the beholder.... but that I think is the main diff between us. men dont know what that is. maybe one in a million, but really... men typically have stereotypical, cliqued standards... name me a guy who DOESNT automatically find a girl with c/d boobs, a nice body, blonde hair, blues eyes to be his DREAM GIRL? I dont know ONE. So fudge you guys. hahaha

Answer 1

wow, you are such a fing sexist. not every guy is like that. i, being a guy myself, would know. you obviously know nothing. get yourself a good boyfriend who doesnt care about that kind of stuff and you will stop caring that other guys are like that so much, and if you cant do that, just go dig yourself a hole.

Answer 2

Actually you should probably blame other women more than guys. I'm pretty sure I talk to more men in a week that you do in a year and I don't think I've ever heard one say "Man I love me some giant boobs". But easily half the women I know have brought it up.

And you have to know that men could easily make the same argument. Women on average are just as shallow as men. And not only are men faced with shallowness but they're also expected to be the one who makes the first move.

Take all of the things you think are against you and imagine if the expectation was on you to be the one who crosses the room and says "hi I'm X and I was wondering..." When I've done it, I've litterally had a woman laugh in my face, another say "Oh god you're joking", and in a club a table of women held up little signs with ratings on them nothing higher than a 3 and I could go on...

But you know what I've never cried foul. And I never blamed the next woman for the nastiness or stupidity of the last one.

Sorry but I'm finding it a bit hard to feel sorry for you. It sucks for both genders. And you know why it sucks? Because there are so many bitter people springloaded to bite the head off of the first person to show interest in them. Tell you what - seriously for the sake of both genders be celibate. That way you don't create another bitter guy and you don't make women look bad.

Answer 3

Here's your best answer... I'd give a better answer if i knew how old you were...but I don't. so...I will get general...
#1...Don't have sex with the wrong guy.
#2...Men DO NOT respect a woman who is easy...never...no matter what they tell you.
#3...If you ignore #2 YOU WILL BE HURT!
#4.... If in doubt, even in the slightest...DON'T DO IT!
#5....women have the same sex drive as men, everyone wants sex...The woman is in charge.
#6....Don't even think about it without protection.
#7....Don't try to compete with the stupid bitches who give it up to be popular.
#8... You look in that mirror and see self respect! If a good guy is out there...you will find him.
#9.... it's great to laugh at jokes and whatever....but...remember your self respect and what you will think of yourself the next day...
#10.....Guys are assholes.. You just have to sort a good one out,. Part of the fun of dating.
#11...Don't ever wake up in the morning hating yourself for doing something stupid.
#12 Did I mention self respect?

Answer 4

You can't just blame all guys. I know I am a girl but you do have to cut the guys some slack here. No ALL guys are like that. Its okay that you aren't Pam Anderson its just fine. You don't have to be like her... and who cares if you are only in size B?? Who cares? That guy that is critical. So what? The guy that is worth your time won't care. Don't waste your time on those assholes. Look for someone that is worth your time. Good Luck!!

Answer 5

I and us men can say the same thing about women as well. You say us men only care about breast size, weight size, etc, etc, well why do some women only care about how much money we make and what we look like? It goes both ways, always has, and always will. I've done expierments with numerous dating sites, and this is what I wanted to find out. I wanted to find out what type of woman was attracted to me. I posted several different "narratives" about myself, different incomes, and I (hate to admit it) posted different pictures of different type men on my profiles to see what I would attract.
This is what I did:

A - My picture was posted first and all my information was accurate about myself with. I made good, honest answers to the site's questions about myself and what I want in a relationship

B - I posted another man's picture (this guy got a 9.4 rating on HotorNot website) and stated in my profile I made over $100.000 dollars a year. In my answers about myself, I made it sound like I was the biggest a**hole on the planet and full of myself. I treated women like dogs, and I was the best thing on the planet.


I did the above on numerous sites, and guess what profile got the hottest looking women and most attention, you guessed it, profile B. I'm about an average looking man, but did not attract much or none at all. I put a good looking picture up, said I made lots of money, and was a total a**hole towards women and everyone the planet, that profile got all sorts of attention.

So in conclusion, pleast don't say all men look at is boobs and weight. Some women do that exact same thing. I've heard so many women at my work tell each other to leave their husbands and find a rich, hot looking man. So it goes both ways.

Both men and women both have "preferences" when it comes to body preferences. Me? I know I do, but I can be man enough to admit it. Is it the only thing I look at in a women? No, but I do want a woman who takes care of themselves. This is my "preference" and not the right one or wrong one to judge a woman on, just mine.

Stating that "all men" want is this or that is BS because women do that same exact thing. I've done research on this on many dating sites and the results I've found should be put in a book.

Answer 6

Assholes? Yes we like those too ;)

Give me a break. When I was younger my jokes and nice nature didn't get me laid while the good looking, arrogant jocks with the brains the size of walnuts and the charisma of a rock were sleeping left and right with the girls.

When you are young being nice to girls does not pay. They seem to like the jerks. When they get older and realize their shallow boyfriends/husbands are crustaceans and they are no longer God's Gift To Men then they dumb down their choice and find the cuddly fat guy with some money who makes them laugh.

WOMEN! CAN'T LIVE WITH THEM. CAN'T KILL THEM!

Answer 7

I think you may be rolling to the wrong type of guys. I like women with natural breasts, nothing huge. When I dated my "now wife" sure I pushed, it's the testosterone. Can't blame us for that, but didn't get lucky until we knew were getting married. Guys look for the healthiest, it is inherent, not like we know better. The way of nature is to guarantee the survival of the species i.e. our sperm needs to produce.Maybe you should look for an older guy, maybe it's a maturity issue.

Answer 8

I love it!!!!!!!!!!! Speak it loud girlfriend.

If you wonder about it so much, do a bit of research on the history of women. What is the psychological make up of women? What is expected of women now versus fifty years ago? How are women exploited today versus fifty years ago?

These are some examples of questions to give you an idea of where to look. I know it is frustrating, but women have come on long way in acceptance, choices, and rights.

That, and some men are just so egotistical that they don't know their artz from a hole in the ground -- you wouldn't want one of those fellas anyway.

Answer 9

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I am sorry you know such people...
I hope you meet someone that truly cares, about you and not your looks. All have faults, and many don't see what matters is people and who they are. to many it is not the girl, or boy in some cases, but the enjoyment and body..'who cares as long as it's fun' is to commen, and many don't remember what love is. It has nothing to do with kissing or bodies.

It is about people. Would you die for someone? or is that an easy answer? did you have to think about it?

...Would you live..for someone. That is much harder, and if you would..maybe you glimpse a bit more then most...what kind of living?

A marrage is to a friend, not to a body or a wallet. If your mate was incapacated for life, would you stay with him/her and never be untrue, even though they were unlikely to wake up again? Love is others before self, We before Me.


I wish you luck...


Reft~

Answer 10

Let me tell you something I'm an A cup woman! and I don't see it as a flaw, I flaunt it! It's part of me and I feel sexy being the way I am! Guys feel attracted to your attitude not your breast size!! If you feel confident about yourself everything will happen in its due time!