my ""wife"" of 4 years and I have been having some problems that weve been tyring to work out. It started out @ her jobs christmass party she went with some females co-workers to this so called christmass party.which I had no problem with I actually thought it was a good Idea till she came home @ 3am with some man who dropped her off. I didnot react that night for common sence reasons"anger" spoke to her the next day
she swares she did nothing wrong he just gave her a ride home a couple of weeks later she get diamond earing from him and throws it in my face I felt i shouldnt have had to ask her to return them thas just a matter of respect anyway I found out later she was having lunch with this dude finally I left she calles me @ my job to tell me that she is 6wks pregnant by this dude who is married w/6kids oviously im getting a divorce "adultry" she has not told him yet. her family told me that things like this happen get over it they think that Im vendictive "I am when provoked""
2007-07-19 16:02:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah, there's something wrong with that picture! She cheats on you and her family defends her and tells you to get over it?? I will say one thing. You are better off without her and her so called family. I think that was very uncaring of them to say such a thing to you. So, in answer to your question.. no, you sure weren't going overboard...her family just doesn't want to admit that it was "her" with the problem. Good luck to you. Hope you find someone faithful..someone who will make you happy.
2007-07-19 16:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by ShineOn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you were not going overboard. Of course her family will take her side. Dont forgive her, she lied to your several times saying nothing was going on. She deserves to be punish for doing this, adultry is the right way to do it!! What better proof that a baby in her thats not her hubby's>
2007-07-19 23:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by How can I help? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No she asked for it and deserves to be kicked out on her butt. What a lousy wife and what a lousy guy to cheat on his wife. Dont feel bad she is just rubbing that stuff in your face so she doesnt feel bad when you get mad. She wants you to throw a temper so it helps her to cover her guilt and justify her wrong. And as for the family they are right. Things like this do happen all the time but it does not make them right. Dont get over it get rid of her she is a waste of time.
2007-07-19 23:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by Matt L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that is crazy and i feel bad for you, that's aweful what she did and i can not believe her family told you to get over it....i would so be moving on, you deserve better than that....you can find someone else out there that will treat you better and respect you more, i say move on and it's her loss....best of luck to you
2007-07-19 23:14:04 · answer #4 · answered by Nita and Michael 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think you are going overboard because you want to divorce your cheating wife? Hell, if that isn't a good enough reason, what is?
2007-07-19 23:11:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Overboard? Absolutely not! Do not listen to this family. I'm sorry for your marriage exploding the way it did.
2007-07-20 01:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by Yankee Micmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't go overboard. SHE DID!!!!!
2007-07-19 23:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by butterfly 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋