Ok so me and this girl liked each other and I used to like her a lot but she started being a flirt with other guys so I started not to like her as much. This was 2-3 weeks ago. So I asked her if she would go out with me and we always went in circles about why or why shouldn't we go out and finally just dropped it. Then she out of the blue says she wants to go out with me. People have been calling her easy and stuff like that so I think that she is using me to shed her reputation.
What do you think?
2007-07-19 15:05:20 · 14 answers · asked by Devan! 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give it a shot and find out more from her... if you think that shes jus using you, dump the biotch
2007-07-19 15:08:46 · answer #1 · answered by Concerned 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, just maybe, she is wanting to dump that reputation... but maybe it's because she Really wants to change too. Maybe she wants to change for You.. because she realizes she likes you so much and that she's sick of being used by guys.. and realized what the heck she was doing, and now is just hoping she's not too late. However, she also sounds like the potential to be a cheater, and a player of games... you can give her a try if you want... it's really up to You.. just don't live on What if's or have any regrets. Look in your heart and decide if you want to give her a chance despite her probably hurting you a little. In the end it's truly Your Choice. you're the one who has to live with it.. you have to decide if you want her.. good luck and best wishes to you!
2007-07-19 22:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by sweetaction 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she seems like a big flity and people say she's easy then she probably is. Sadly, girls are like that. Not all are, but she doesn't seem to be worth it. If she was really into you she wouldn't even bother to flirt so much with other guys. That's what happens to me when I meet some one and I'm really into them. If she can't focus her attention on you and if she comes off as easy to you then it's not worth it!
2007-07-19 22:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by TegLover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on you. If you're just after the meat you can get with her np (she sounds like that kind of person, but I don't know her). But, If you want the good stuff...a loving and affectionate relationship...I say you analyze her a bit more before jumping into that.
2007-07-19 22:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she blew you off 3 weeks ago, then keep walking unless your in love with her only you can answer that...how much do you like her, and as far as other calling her easy, what kind of reputation do they have?
2007-07-19 22:11:53 · answer #5 · answered by debra_ehu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that almost makes no sense at all. I would advise you not go out with her, because you might get in a hole you will not enjoy digging yourself out of. remember...you don't like her as much. Why is this a question anyway? just forget it, tell her you're not interested right now and leave it alone.
2007-07-19 22:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by beautyful2god 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are under 16, you should not be dating, period. If you are over 16, go on a date with her if you want to, and don't go on a date if you don't want to.
2007-07-19 22:11:04 · answer #7 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out with her on a date, You have nothing to lose. Be yourself, and if it works out, then great. If not, it is better to loved and lost, than to have never loved at all...
2007-07-19 22:10:28 · answer #8 · answered by bev b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is done flirting and wants to be with u b/c she found out that all the other guys she flirted with are ppl she truly isnt interested in. maybe she is only interested in u and finds other guys jerks, and wants to be with you.
2007-07-19 22:09:57 · answer #9 · answered by Natalie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if she couldn't make up her mind about you at first, that you are too good for her and she doesn't want you bad enough. Forget her. But it's just my opinion.
2007-07-19 22:09:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋