Really good looking guy/girl with a not so nice personality or a not so good looking guy/girl with a great personality? And why?
2007-07-19 23:56:25 · 30 answers · asked by Kristy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are you kidding? a great personality is such a huge deal if you're looking fo a serious relationship. if it's just a fling, then you can choose the good looking one.
but for me, I'd rather have a not-so-cute guy that I can laugh with, share stories with, go on trips with and simply snuggle and talk with... than a cute guy whom my friends cant stand, who tests my patience or someone who embarasses me by being a jerk :(
please.
2007-07-20 00:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by sheesh_kebab 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A great personality is always the winner. Good looks can come and go especially when you get older but a nice person is a rare find in the world out there these days!
2007-07-20 07:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl.. just like any guy we will ask you out because of your looks we find you attractive, different people are attracted to different things. Next person your interested in get to know them, as a friend and keep things simple you might actually find out that he isnt the person you think and might have actually have a nice personality, make small talk with them and try getting to know them a lil bit, take it slow, be casual, if he doesnt have a good personality just move on. Seriously, lighten up a bit there must be some serious stuff on your mind, dont worry you'll find someone - did you say you were at the snow - what the hell are you doing on the computer at the snow? People will just stuff you around - 2 days ago i just got stuffed around really badly by a girl - she was a ***** but the way i look at it is there is plenty of them in the sea "plenty of fish in the sea", and you'll no doubt if you just forget about it you'll find someone without even looking that hard, i always have in the past.
remember it goes
Attraction(lust) -> Love
i cant remember the tv show on abc the other day. but it was all about the study of relationships. in my opinion you sound pretty bad sleeping around with guys its a huge turn off.. you shouldn't do it because when you have sex a chemical is released and that makes you want to stay with them like glue, but when you go against that it seriously screws with your head.
chill out - and get off the computer already. alright i will too.
it sounds like you just want someone to understand whats happening to you and talk it through with someone. go talk to someone close like your mum, you'll be surprised how good it will be to get it off your chest.
2007-07-20 07:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initially I would pick the really good looking guy with the not so good personality, but then I would get to know him and go for the really good personality, not so great looking guy.
A not so great looking guy with a really great personality becomes better looking to me.
2007-07-20 06:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by so Fresh 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a not so good looking guy/girl with a nice personality because whats the point in going out with some one that you really don't see yourself getting along with
2007-07-20 06:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by shyfree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A not so good looking guy/girl with a great personality because you don't want to be stuck with some idiot that orders you around...
2007-07-20 06:58:49 · answer #6 · answered by Chantel C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriends have varied widely, I've done the both to both extremes, But if I had a to choose a button and one or the other would pop up, naturally the more attractive with not so nice personality.
Because I'm shallow and why not pick the more attractive choice?
When I got car shopping I go for the more attractive car with more horsepower, while the other cars may be more convienient and have extra cup holders, maybe more space inside but the sports car is faster, sexier and more fun to drive.
2007-07-20 07:20:57 · answer #7 · answered by Johnny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would pick a good looking girl with a not so nice personality, because im that type of guy, like im shy not too much talkitive. so amongs my friends i dont make any personality at all cos im fully invisible. so thats why i would pick that kinda girl that wouldn't talk alot have some shy in her and be beautiful n good looking. thats all
2007-07-20 07:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not so good lookin, with Gr8 personality, because if you enter a relationship with the intention of changing a person it will never work out. Be happy, be treated right and you will find the most beautiful looking person can also be the most ugly person ever! when you see the inner beauty of a person their appearance in your eyes changes!
2007-07-20 07:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by nnatindahat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go for the not so good looking guy with the good personality. But that's just me.
2007-07-20 06:59:56 · answer #10 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋