2007-07-19 23:22:20 · 15 answers · asked by idk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no not if i was in love with her
2007-07-19 23:25:14 · answer #1 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!! If you love your girlfriend then sex would not be the be all and end all of a relationship, there are lots of other thing's that make a relationship such as love, TRUST, affection, having fun together, if you feel that you cannot wait until you marry or you will never marry this girl then what is the point of being together, you are leading her on into thinking that you want to spend the rest of your life with her, when you so obviously don't as if you did you would not be asking this question!!!!!!! Finish the relationship and give her the oppotunity to find somebody who loves her for who she is not just wants to get her into bed!!
2007-07-20 06:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by sugarbabe180 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is willing to sacrifice sex until she is married, then you should too. If you love her, then you should wait. She obviously wants a relationship that isn't based on sex, which is a good relationship, better than the ones that are based on sex.
I am a virgin, and am going to wait until I am married until I have sex. Yes at times my fiancee and myself just want to make love, but we are committed to making this work, and am going to wait. Also it's my belief that it is wrong to have sex before you are married. Just look at the state this country is in, how many single parents, and teenage pregnancies? When God said no sex before marriage, this is one of the reasons why!! no one has got any self respect. all they see them selves is someone else to have sex with. You have to go with the floor and be good in bed, if not, then you are a "loser". That is not what was intended!!
2007-07-20 06:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, so what you are saying is she made this pact, not you? If you love her and want to be with her for the rest of your lives, marry her and have all the sex you both want. If you are not sure, respect her wishes and let her go.
2007-07-20 06:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by ♠♥ Miss Zora ♦♣ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question would be why am I with her? If I am with her for sex then I would dump her and get someone else. If I'm with her because I actually like her, then I wouldn't give another woman a second glance.
2007-07-20 06:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no i definitely dont think you should!!!
u obviously liked her in the first place to make her your girlfriend without sex so why dont u just resopect her wishes and find other ways to get close... there are lots of intimate things you can do without having sex..... and wont it be better in the long run if she does decide its you she wants to go the full way with......
2007-07-20 06:28:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he did, then it's a good reason why i would wait to have sex until im married.. because i wouldnt want to waste it on someone who has no respect for me.
shame on them.
2007-07-20 06:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would be stupid to.Save your seed till marriage so you could have a great time after .
2007-07-20 06:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way. wait for the girl friend.if u realy love ur friend u will wait.thats the true love.
2007-07-20 06:27:51 · answer #9 · answered by revathy l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch a film called American pie.it's a comedy.it's got all the answers !!!
2007-07-20 06:44:39 · answer #10 · answered by philip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO-If she's my true love, I'd respect her to the max.
2007-07-20 06:25:20 · answer #11 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋