I worked full-time at a manufacturing plant. My manager and I always got along... we didn't see eye-to-eye on everything... but we did concur most of the time. She is beautiful, smart, very professional; family oriented (3 wonderful kids); OH, and has a boyfriend; of 3 years, one kid is his, but hasn't aked her to marry him. She says its not time.
Now, I can read her, as a woman, like a book... her moods, if she had problems at home with the kids, or if something was on her mind. But I had difficulty reading her as a manager; she kept everything professional.
Since I have left employment, we haven't spoken much. I operate my own business, and I would love to contact her. She is one of the most loyal and faithful people I know, and would not do anything, (working too late, spending too much time with friends, etc) to jeapordize her family life.
She is exactly what I've always wanted; a loving mom and wife that is hard working and has family values.
What should I do?
2007-07-19 21:36:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go for it.. give her a call.. and ask her out for coffee on her break or something.. then compliment how great she looks or how you've always admired her... see where it goes from there.. you never know until you try... btw.. you can't come between her and her boyfriend unless she wants you to.. so don't worry about that.. it's her choice.
2007-07-19 21:40:14 · answer #1 · answered by Wildflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for her man. If she's still with the guy of 3 years, just be friends with her. You never know he may end up not being the one and when she goes and confides in someone maybe it'll be you and she'll realise your the guy she's looking for.
But if that doesn't happen just be friends iwth er, I always find it easier to have a healthy friendship with a lady I'm attracted to as I'm more caring of her and don't say stupid guy crap.
2007-07-19 21:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by Richard S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really is someone with family values she would not leave a partner of 3 years and pursue something so quickly. I think that it is fair to be in contact with her but wrong to come between a couple whether they are married or not.
2007-07-19 21:39:32 · answer #3 · answered by MissKittyInTheCity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok! needless to say the guy who responded b4 me did no longer pay too plenty interest! Lol. the guy did no longer kno they have been mutually! How ever I nonetheless agree w him while he says he's the cheating form because of the fact he's clearly very plenty so in a courting w ur ex! So I say u shudnt evn sleep w him! flow on from the two him n ur ex n attempt looking somebody outdoors of the triangle ur in!
2016-11-09 23:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the next time u talk to here let her know how u feel, and tell her that u really like her, if u like her and her kids then let her know before she gets away.
2007-07-19 21:42:01 · answer #5 · answered by april c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact her. Ask how she is doing. find out if the boyfriend is still in the picture. If he is, forget it, she has a child with him. If he is not, ask her to meet you for lunch or coffee one day.
2007-07-19 21:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long question--short answer: NO, move on with your life. Search for "fresh", "new and improved" version of the oldl
2007-07-19 21:44:02 · answer #7 · answered by EMAILSKIP 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt sound like a person who would leave her BF of 3 years {}
2007-07-19 21:43:43 · answer #8 · answered by who ?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've answered your own question Justin. To paraphrase.....'she would not do anything to jeapordise her family life. '
2007-07-19 21:41:20 · answer #9 · answered by lou b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid bad thoughts
2007-07-19 21:39:13 · answer #10 · answered by keral 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋