Family & Relationships - 22 July 2007

first i told him i kissed another man and that night he said "i can't believe you let another man kiss you' and went to sleep somewhat upset. The next day I confessed i slept with another man and he was upset but didn't get crazy angry yelling or anything. He was quiet and locked himself in the room. His reaction is that of a man who doesn't really love me. He didn't get extremely angry like I definitely would have. What gives?

2007-07-22 12:25:01 · 43 answers · asked by Angie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i've been getting kinda bored with my look--i just dyed my hair from dark brown to blonde sometime in march and now i kinda wanna change something else

i don't really wanna get another cut because i'm trying to grow out my hair but i'm just kinda getting bored with my look so what do you think i should do?

2007-07-22 12:23:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or even a 20 something man in a 40 something yr. old woman.

2007-07-22 12:22:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

make my page

2007-07-22 12:22:09 · 1 answers · asked by nyc_b_a_d_b_o_y 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

why do women feel old at this age, i feel great. i hated my 20's, couldn't stand my 30's and today i'm 40!!!!!!!!!!!! to me it's just a number. so why do women and some men feel it's the end of the world?

2007-07-22 12:21:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would you date him even if you KNEW he had a live-in girlfriend?

2007-07-22 12:19:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months and our dates have prettymuch stopped. Every time I try to do something he says yes but then soemthing ends up happening or something else comes up and we can't do it (most of the time the cancel is from him). What can I do to get a date that will actually happen?

2007-07-22 12:04:16 · 31 answers · asked by Miss Ann 1 in Singles & Dating

im 15 and i love my grandma very much. i see her a lot. so when i saw her today, i gave her a story that i typed up. four pages long. its said how much i loved her and how much she meaned to me. my grandma always puffs her hair. i wrote that in the story and she was laughing really hard when she read it. she was laughing through the whole story. why was she laughing? after the story, she kept hugging me and kissing me on the cheek. does she like the story? why was she laughing?

2007-07-22 12:02:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my brother has been going on my accounts (like this one)!!! it gets me sooo mad but of course hes younger and he gets babied (even tho hes almost 15!!!!)..... any ways i need something to get him back BIG TIME!!!!

2007-07-22 11:54:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Oke so theres this girl i like, but so long i have known her(6 years), i never said a single word to her. Never had class with her until 4 years ago.
how do i get to her without doing anything wrong?
Or maybe i should wait for it to come to me?

For info, I'm 15+sophomore high school kid

2007-07-22 11:54:47 · 9 answers · asked by James 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my wife has had a hard time sleeping at night in the past but some ppl moved in accross the street and my wife and the other girl has been staying awake ALL night long every night since she moved in and my wife has been texing this guy none stop i know it is not nothing about sex or any thing but it is like one tex after another as far as the woman accross the street goes she stays over my house all night long she will go home every morning about 6:30 to 7:30 in the morning an then my wife can go to bed i have hinted around that the woman need to go home that way my wife can sleep with her husband (me) we have kids and since she has been staying over here my wife sleeps till 2:00 or 3:00 in the after noon what would you do if you was me i want to sleep with my wife at night but remember she had problems sleeping in the past but she use to try to sleep with me i dont want to be rude and tell that she needs to go home at night and every time i talk to my wife she tells me

2007-07-22 11:54:05 · 24 answers · asked by kingkong9274 3 in Marriage & Divorce

how old should you be and how long should you already been goin out wit her. is six months to short?

2007-07-22 11:51:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-22 11:48:09 · 5 answers · asked by Brandi C 2 in Friends

What's your view?

Also... if you were interested in someone and found out that they had had sex with a prostitute, would you be reluctant to continue with them?

x

2007-07-22 11:46:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i had a boyfriend for almost 2 yrs. and our communication was poor because he worked overseas. thinking that it was over because of his silence i accepted another guy and our relationship did well. bf 1 suddenly showed up and i frankly told him that im already into a relationship but he refused to accept it and still continued to love me. boyfriend 2 accepted a job overseas and proposed to marry me after awhile which i accepted but still bf 1 persisted to see me everytime he comes for vacation. I cant deny that i still love bf1 but i was already committed to bf2.

to cut the story short i got married and still continued to date bf1 but i my conscience is killing me i stopped to see bf1 and cut all sort of communication. i joined my husband (bf2) at his work place

up to this date, bf1 still comes to haunt me in my dreams. i have searched for him on the net and i was able to locate him. he is now married.

what should i do. i still love bf1 and i know he feels the same.

2007-07-22 11:43:34 · 24 answers · asked by lady_in_waiting 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 20 yrs old and my bf of 2.5 years is 23. Should i marry him or not is my question?..I love him with all my heart and we are always talking about marriage..but i'm just so confused. Currently i'm working and going to college and he is in jail unfortunately.

When i ask people for advice they usually tell me i'm rushing or that he's not right for me. But i know that he's right for me.Mentally i feel i'm ready...so what should i do?

2007-07-22 11:43:09 · 51 answers · asked by ctownchic4u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in a bit of a dilemma at the moment. My husband went to a buck's night ( bachelor party) saturday night and i found out they had a few topless waitresses walking around them all night and 4 strippers. To me, it was just one big sex party all night. Great, some might say, but how do you actually look at these women? Do they turn you on, and do you compare them to your own wife/partner? Do you think, oh she's got nice ****/bum, wish my wife had those? I refuse to let my husband now see me naked for fear of being compared to the perfection he has already seen. I would really like some honest, truthful answers, as i am not sure if i am being unreasonable or not.

2007-07-22 11:40:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We were talking about my brother and his wife and he constantly accuses his wife of cheating. I asked him if he would be forgiving if he knew that I cheated on him and he said that he wouldnt waste his time fighting with me or the other guy, he would just leave. Weve been together for 17 years and married for 13. I recently had been cheating on my husband. I ended that relationship with the guy and my husband doesnt know anything about it. I look at him everyday and it eats me up that I cheated and I want to tell him,but my heart and something inside tells me not to say anything. I made a huge mistake with this other guy and I broke it off with him.. Should I get it off my chest and tell him or leave it alone.. What would you do?

2007-07-22 11:36:34 · 16 answers · asked by its not that serious 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-22 11:30:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK, here goes......
Two years ago I found out that my husband was having an emotional affair. There was no sex involved(that I know about). But there was sharing of deep personal things and betrayal and lies, etc. He has asked my forgiveness and claims it has been ended. I am having a hard time trusting him again.
The real problem lies with me. Before this happened, I thought we had the perfect marriage and family. I was content to be a wife and mother. I dressed like a mom. I always wore makeup and looked nice. Now, I have this urge to be sexy and wild. I lost 45lbs. (I wasn't even fat to begin with) I got two tattoos. I bought clothes like I wore in highschool. (short skirts, tube tops etc.) I want to be wild and care free. I want guys to want me. I feel like I am caught between two worlds. I don't know what is wrong with me. I'The woman involved in my husbands affair was the type of woman I feel like I am attempting to be.(sexy dressing, flirtacious and wild). Any thoughts?

2007-07-22 11:30:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-22 11:28:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy at a conference (he's in his last yr of law school and i'm in my 1st year of practice) and since we were pretty much the only people under the age of 30 we hung out. I gave him my card and he contacted me to discuss work stuff. Most importantly, he's very VERY attractive. He asked me for coffee earlier today to discuss more work stuff which I think turned into a little innocent flirting. We left our "outing" w/him asking me out for drinks next weekend. And then I stuck my hand out, to which he commented "this isn't awkward or anything" so then I gave him a hug. Not sure if any of that means its a date or he's just being polite & cordial, but I would sure like it to be. Should I send him a little flirty msg to kinda send the indication that i'd like to "not just talk about work"? If so, what should I say?

2007-07-22 11:27:41 · 8 answers · asked by Kyppa 1 in Singles & Dating

My son has turned 16. He has taken driver's ed, but here they require 6 months of driving on an instruction permit before he gets his license. That won't happen until December. It now looks like he has just been hired for his first job. It is kind of down the street but probably a good 1.5 miles if he needed to walk it. I work on the other side of town - so it becomes difficult for me to take him with any consistency. What resources have you used to fill this transportation gap?

2007-07-22 11:27:20 · 3 answers · asked by Ms. Gump 3 in Family

My marriage of 2 years is so much in trouble. from the day one, we had so much conflicts and I wanted to divorce him anytime. But somehow, as I was a child of divorce, I tried to put up with the situation and work things out. Unfortunately the problems have not been resolved and we don't even talk now. In between, I got pregnant and I have a 2 month old daughter now. I just can't put up with my hubby anymore, and I'm preparing myself for divorce in a couple of years time, when my child is 2-3 years, and I have time to find a job to support us. But I don't know, if I should bring her up in a 2 parent relationship where she would see her parents not talking or with no intimacy, even as much as we try to hide it, ,,, or a divorce with one happy parent is a better option. What happens to her? Is she gonna hate me if I get divorce? Is she gonna be an unhappy child just for this?,, what if for any reason, I couldn't follow my dreams of being the perfect mom for her and become unhappier?

2007-07-22 11:26:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it when your married theirs nothing that says you have to send your children to college, but when you divorce the courts make you send your kids to college?

2007-07-22 11:26:23 · 8 answers · asked by keithm_1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really want to do things unexpected,,things that turn him on,,keep him interested

2007-07-22 11:26:09 · 11 answers · asked by Vickie T 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-22 11:24:11 · 11 answers · asked by Sandi 3 in Singles & Dating

any ideas why??

2007-07-22 11:21:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My best guy friend likes me. I don't like him, but lately he's been telling me that he's been getting threatening comments on myspace saying he doesn't have a chance with me, or that he's out of my league, or people have been telling him that in general.

Thing is it doesn't make sense, I'm an average girl, I keep a low profile, I'm someone who isn't popular, or any of that stupid crap, yet he's getting told this? It's not right or fair. He's not butt ugly or anything. Why are people doing/saying this to him? He's a sweet guy, and it hurts me.

2007-07-22 11:21:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a customer that often makes strange sexual remarks pertaining to an employee I have (he's only 18) the customer is about 32 or so. Every time I talk with this lady about work she has comments about this employee and just how sexy and hot he is and how if she wasn't married she'd do X & Y...you get my drift. Well all of us look good when we are 18 or 19. I just think it's kinda weird, I've had lots of customers over the 20 years I've been in business but none like this. In addition this customer is married and has a small child! Should I drop this customer? She's flirty with me as well but I'm pretty much mentally married thus it doesn't matter...the account pays great, she sometimes overpays, but to me money isn't everything and I have tons of business. Drop the account or not???

2007-07-22 11:19:25 · 10 answers · asked by charlie m 3 in Marriage & Divorce