Family & Relationships - 22 July 2007

2007-07-22 04:05:19 · 22 answers · asked by ~*Redbutterfly*~ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i've been dating my current boyfriend for a while now... we live together and talk very seriously about marriage. unfortunately, while i did at one point, i no longer feel sexually attracted to him - at this point he is strictly my best friend. we get along wonderfully, laugh together constantly, and would do anything for one another. the problem is, i feel like a sexual relationship is a really important one in any partnership... and how can i possibly marry someone i have no desire to have sex with? most of my friends say that this is a huge problem and i should break up with him before it gets too too serious.

i feel like this also might be my own problem, always searching for the next best thing, the "greener grass"... from what i've explained, what do you guys think?

2007-07-22 04:02:13 · 3 answers · asked by taryn 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-22 04:01:39 · 5 answers · asked by Melisa G 1 in Family

Well my ex just took me to a picnic, I havent seen him for 5 mos. he looks terrible & fingernails dirty and --I said I aint missing a thing!!!!

2007-07-22 04:00:51 · 13 answers · asked by Crazy Tequilla Girl 3 in Singles & Dating

and why?

2007-07-22 04:00:42 · 13 answers · asked by RoChEr 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently answered a question about married woman and chat rooms so i thought i was ask one..My husband and i have been happily married 16 yrs and i dont go into chat rooms anymore been months and months since i have cause i got bored with it but for about 4 or 5 yrs i chatted a lot and there was a lot of people who me if i am happily married then why chat and i would tell them cause its fun and i like it..My husband never had no problem with me chatting cause he isnt 1 of those jealous husband never has been plus he had no NOT to trust me cause i would never in a million yrs cheat on him and yea i chatted with more men then women but nothing ever sexual and if they did wanna chat like that i would stop chatting with them..I would chat in the afternoons when he was at work and would spend all evening with him and not in the chatrooms and then after he went to bed i would get online again for a while so i would spend plenty of time with him.

2007-07-22 03:58:26 · 8 answers · asked by nicole m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have an enemy, they have used ostracism as punishment for me not wanting to be their friend lol, but the funny thing is they were really a bad friend and backstabber thats why i wanted nothing to do with them, now they have managed to convince new aquaintances that they are the ones in the right and to ostracize me, not only that but these aquaintances went further, as to helping this person take me down with them, what would you do?

2007-07-22 03:57:29 · 4 answers · asked by Del 1 in Friends

if a guy says that he really likes you etc....and he doesnt have a girlfriend, why would he say that a relationship sounds heavy and that he can only do casual???

the guys 29.

2007-07-22 03:57:16 · 16 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

like you had this planned a week ago. and you talked to him the night befroe and still were gonig to hang out but he ditches you, should iwait to ltak to him, or should i wait till he talks to me or what?

2007-07-22 03:55:23 · 7 answers · asked by mellly 1 in Friends

# i love him very much and i don wanna lose him and he loves me a lot too.. he takes a very gud care of me..
# But i CANT tolorate the way he makes love.. lik..there is no romance in our sex.. and he behaves lik a gal sometimes in bed.. asks me to do things i don like and i cant deny.. he jus doesnt gimme a feel of being a gal..
# and now i hate him even when i think of it..

# i dont want him to be my sexual partner but i love him and want him to be with me 4 a life time..
wat shud i do?
# i love him a lot and cant afford to lose him..

2007-07-22 03:51:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

NOT ME.....but, I know people that have done it, and still do it, and I just think it's sad and boring.I chose not to be bored and got a divorce. I just don't see how people can live in the same house with someone they really don't want to be around.

2007-07-22 03:47:16 · 27 answers · asked by Scorpius59 7 in Marriage & Divorce

please help in this regard because in my country very famous actor was cheated by a lady whom he was planned to marry.please help me where i need to find

2007-07-22 03:46:46 · 14 answers · asked by friendfirst01 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Most on here are married or have a significant other. Do you feel guilty flirting on here? Do you wonder how your spouse would feel if they got to read your answers or conversations?

2007-07-22 03:43:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-22 03:40:25 · 2 answers · asked by gandrea9501 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel like I'm my husband's child rather than his wife. He treats me like a child often. It has made me feel angry and bad about myself over time. How do I stop being treated like a child? Does anyone else have a husband that treats them like a child?

2007-07-22 03:39:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

-Your Religion?
-Your Country?
-Your Age?
-Your Email adress?
I need FRIENDS. I am lonely and booooooooring........

2007-07-22 03:23:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

how would you feel if you found out that you had married a child killer without knowing.

2007-07-22 03:21:35 · 22 answers · asked by louise d 6 in Marriage & Divorce

ok maybe im not looking just for girls who like hockey but it would be nice haha I want someone that When i'm old enough i can take to games and stuff like that. At colleges in my state it'll be hard to find girls who like hockey

2007-07-22 03:17:55 · 7 answers · asked by Andrew G 6 in Singles & Dating

I really didn't mean to, I know, i must be completely dense. I flirted with one of his friends right in front of him. What do i tell him? he's barely speaking to me now. I need to figure out how to help him feel better about me.
I feel like such an idiot.
help!

2007-07-22 03:15:23 · 10 answers · asked by ahhhhh 1 in Singles & Dating

My hubby is an officer! He's been one for 4 years! We got into our first big arguement about it! And yeah it was b/c we (kids and I) never see him! Which I never had a problem with before! Ok got over it! Now anytime we argue his work keeps comeing up! I know most officers end up in divorce, I dont want this to happen! What can I do to stop argueing about his work schedule? or is that even possible?

2007-07-22 03:11:55 · 12 answers · asked by woohooo 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend things im really shallow because one time we were talking about guys and i said that if i really like his personality but i dont think his cute or im not attracted to him in that way ill just like him as a friend but if i like his personality and i think hes cute then ill like him more than a friend but if he was cute and had a horrible personality then i would just not like him
and she got mad at me and said looks shouldnt matter and she got all mad and now she says she doesnt like talking to shallow people and i dont think im shallow but she does
is that bein shallow??

2007-07-22 03:10:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am never satisfied....I always seem to want what I can't have or isn't good for me.

2007-07-22 03:09:43 · 17 answers · asked by Sunny 3 in Singles & Dating

The guy who knows I want a relationship with him but says he wants to be friends as a result of my nagging called me when he was drunk the other night and said straight off "I'm wondering why you call me hun and babes and darling in your text messages".

Why do you think he's even wondering or asking me this if he wants to remain friends?....He calls me alot & wants me to go see him for the weekend. But this question is playing on my mind as it makes me wonder why he's even asking me this question?!.....

2007-07-22 03:07:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son is going abroad in 1st week of Aug 07 and he wants to have court marriage first before going.

2007-07-22 03:07:12 · 4 answers · asked by Vilas S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Person A is not a jealous person. (S)he couldn't care less if their significant other got hit on because (s)he is confident that they are the ones who's going to be going home with their S.O. at the end of the night. Several relationships go by and (s)he meets Person B who has the tendency to bring out some insecurities and jealousy issues. Nothing over the top and not enough to verbally express. Just a little nudge to the self esteem. Do you think this constitutes that (s)he has more of an attraction to Person B and cares about him/her more? My friend and I disagree with one another and would like a tie-breaker.

2007-07-22 03:02:39 · 10 answers · asked by dahmer8urface 1 in Singles & Dating

Tan, fair skin; black, brown, blond hair?

2007-07-22 03:00:48 · 6 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5 in Singles & Dating

I cannot resist them, they are so hot in those uniforms and how they are so forceful!!!!!!!

2007-07-22 02:52:34 · 7 answers · asked by piercedpikachu 2 in Singles & Dating

Just to make people aware that this does happen...it just happened to me. Usually using the handle littledemon, shes 25 ( on 19/05/82) very beautiful, works as a hairdresser and lives in bucharest. This conwoman will make u believe she loves u say the most amazing things and then take money usually using emotional blackmail. Im not going to put her name on here but if u r concerned contact me and i will tell u her name and provide u with a picture. This isnt sour grapes, this is a genuine confidence scam, i just dont want it to happen to anyone else.

2007-07-22 02:40:13 · 11 answers · asked by feefeefairy 1 in Singles & Dating

nothing yet. I've come to this place the other day looking for advices or opinion or both. the point is I was just feeling a bit confused. some of you said that my confusion about saying yes to my bf b/c of his diabetes does make me look bad, some said how I could live with myself. Should I sacrifice my happiness by marrying him. I do love him but the of taking care of someone with this sort of illness is scarey. what if he ends with ED, looses a leg or eye sight. Like I said, I've had a rough life, he is great, I do love him, just that I don't want to worry anymore......I don't think I should feel forced to marry him out of guilt or what people might say about me.

2007-07-22 02:38:08 · 29 answers · asked by ?????? 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok my b-day was two days ago, my bf is not in town so he calls me the day of my b-day and said happy-b-day and we talked on the phone for a awhile we talk on the phone like 3 times a day or more all the time. Anyway on my b-day night my gf took me out to eat so that night he called me like 4 times but I didn’t see it until I got home and it was too late when I got home so I said I will call him tomorrow so the next day he calls me early and said why didn’t call me and I said I am sorry I didn’t see it I was going to call u blh blh.. he got so angry with me and he said that he doesn’t know what I was doing, when I do stuff like that the ONLY THEING HE CAN GET AT ME IS BY CHEATING ON ME!! that is what he said I mean DON’T U THINK HE IS CONTROLING?? AND he said don’t do it again when I call u u have to answer ur phone and I said ok I am sorry bye I will talk to u later because I had to go to work so I called him to talk to him form work he was still mad at me. and he said that I couldn’t answer my phone in front of my girls is because I am a follower and all that crazy stuff. And he said please don’t call me I will call u and I said ok so last night I called him he didn’t answer me. I don’t know how to react to this kind of situation. Please help me

2007-07-22 02:33:16 · 4 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Singles & Dating