if a guy says that he really likes you etc....and he doesnt have a girlfriend, why would he say that a relationship sounds heavy and that he can only do casual???
the guys 29.
2007-07-22 03:57:16 · 16 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
can a guy really like you yet want to keep things so casual???
2007-07-22 03:59:29 · update #1
becuase guys are like that. they dont like to feel tied down. let him know that your ok with a casual relationship, thats if you are though. this will make him feel more at ease.
2007-07-22 04:03:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is not ready for a serious relationship cause guys take a little longer to mature mentally then girls do and just wants to hang out with his pals, OR maybe he had a couple of girlfriends before and got hurt and is afraid of relationships cause it will turn out bad again, ask him if he ever had a relationship with a girl and did he get hurt from her and if yes tell him we all have gotten hurt from relaionships in the past but don't let that control your future.
2007-07-22 11:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by Hmmm... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't see why you are confused, he is being quite clear.
What part of " a relationship sounds heavy and can only do casual" are you having problems with ?
2007-07-22 11:01:16 · answer #3 · answered by ALLEN B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer depends on how old YOU are. He's 29 - how old are you? Maybe he is just playing you....maybe he just doesn't want a girlfriend and would rather keep things simple.
2007-07-22 11:11:08 · answer #4 · answered by Paul L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means he likes you enough to have sex with you but nothing else. Don't give into him and stay away from him, cause if he wants to be a free bird going from nest to nest, all you are gonna get from him if you sleep with him is an STD. Do better than him. Good Luck!
2007-07-22 12:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by curious_boricua_soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I guy says that hes affraid of commitment he wants to be able to date as many girls as possible without getting in trouble. Stay away from him he's most likely a player.
2007-07-22 11:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by goldsk8er_05 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sound's okay to me. Who wants bogged down with a heavy relationship. Fun, fun, fun is what we want.
2007-07-22 11:29:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is saying he does not want a steady relationship and that he wants to date different women. If you want to date him ,understand he will also date others.
2007-07-22 11:01:25 · answer #8 · answered by secrethaven45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i see why you're confused
he doesnt want commitment but he's attracted to the girl physically so he's prepared for the physical not the emotional
2007-07-22 11:22:01 · answer #9 · answered by ~*tigger*~ ** 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be because he wants to sleep with you without all the annoying difficulty of not being allowed to sleep with other girls too.
2007-07-22 11:00:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋