how would you feel if you found out that you had married a child killer without knowing.
2007-07-22 03:21:35 · 22 answers · asked by louise d 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
learner
yes i am a girl, the reason i ask this question is it was in the sunday papers today. he is getting married and his future wife does not know his past.
2007-07-22 08:52:32 · update #1
i would feel sick they should never have been allowed out of prison to live a normal as possible life they murdered a child they should have stayed in prison for life its poor Jamie's parents i feel for knowing that there sons killer is getting married what a kick in the teeth this justice system is a joke
2007-07-22 11:16:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is why we shouldn't rush into anything too soon. It takes years for two people to really get to know one another. Within 3 - 5 years most people know their mate or friend very well. Most secrets are revealed in this time frame. It would seem that if someone were a child killer, others would discover this before becoming seriously involved with this person. Personally I would not put myself in this situation. However, if I were lied to or fooled by someone that I cared about, then I would rethink my connection with this person and probably let them go because they were not a true friend to begin with. We're talking about someone that consciously murdered a child! I can not judge people, but I would certainly keep my distance from such. So, how would I feel if I discovered that I had married a child killer without knowing? I wouldn't because that just would not happen to me.
2007-07-22 10:54:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be devastated IF that happened and I would leave immediately. Then, when safely away, I would tell the world all about him and blow his cover..., but I am sure I would somehow know there was something evil about the person and would not even be in the same company he/they kept so would hope I would never have married him.
There is a total badness in them that could be passed on to their children, if they ever have any.
I hope they find it hard to sleep nights. They should have been locked up forever. Let us hope it has been made impossible for either of them to have a family.
Why do you ask. There must be a reason that question came to mind.....Are you a girl or are you pretending to be a girl to see how the land lies!!!!?
2007-07-22 14:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by Learner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of you are saying that poor James death may have been an accident , How the hell can you take a toddler out of a shopping centre , then onto a railway line a accident . I hope that this is a hoax & thouse two are strugling with no job, friends & home but because of our soft goverment they will probely have a wedding paied fopr by the tax payers
2007-07-23 02:17:58 · answer #4 · answered by bambimum123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, more info please. What's happening?? I lived in the UK when Jamie got killed and I know the killers were released etc but I know nothing more. Anyone knowing what had happened to that poor child would be revolted to even be close to one of those monsters, let alone sleep with him. Turns my stomach. I now have a child around Jamie's age and I can't imagine what Denise must go through everyday knowing what they did to her baby.
2007-07-22 10:25:11 · answer #5 · answered by lisa m 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would feel so sick if I discovered that I had unknowingly married one of them.... obviously I would want them out of my life immediately, and I think I would probably go public with the news of where and what identity they are living under now.
Personally I don't think they should have ever been released - to be able to commit such a horrific crime at such a young age is so scary, who knows what they would be capable of now.
2007-07-22 14:54:47 · answer #6 · answered by Lola G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would imagine that someone will soon let her know. In her position I would leave him immediately...but then perhaps she's attracted to him because she's made of the same stuff. Or is there a chance that he has completely changed? I don't think I would be able to overlook that kind of past, and I would not forgive him for hiding it from me.
2007-07-22 17:27:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shocked, and sick to my stomach, but I would want to know what the circumstances were - was it a brutal act or an unfortunate accident? I would need to know.
BTW: With the name "Bulger", it is a possibility that I might be a relative.
2007-07-22 10:25:17 · answer #8 · answered by Paul Hxyz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i was working in bootle when the murder took place,as i was there for over a week i got to now more than was said in the papers............ did you know that they hammered batteries into his eyes and skull and then placed him over the tracks waiting for a train to slice him in half? as for these evil bbbastrds been release and a new identity piad for by the tax payers i hope that she would out them to the public so that true justice can be served on these pieces of shite who were at an age to now better when the took him.
they shouldn't even be breathing the air we breath.
to this day it still repulses me to know there free and getting on with there lifes........
2007-07-22 16:30:41 · answer #9 · answered by dino1electric 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is not only that he killed a child, it is HOW he killed him!
And if his bride to be knows he cannot be trusted with bricks and children, then they deserve each other!
Personally I think they, (Jon Venables and Robert Thompson), should have been led away by the hand, taken to an isolated spot, and THEIR heads smashed in with a brick.
Oh. I am NOT the forgiving type!
2007-07-22 10:35:12 · answer #10 · answered by tattie_herbert 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋