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i have an enemy, they have used ostracism as punishment for me not wanting to be their friend lol, but the funny thing is they were really a bad friend and backstabber thats why i wanted nothing to do with them, now they have managed to convince new aquaintances that they are the ones in the right and to ostracize me, not only that but these aquaintances went further, as to helping this person take me down with them, what would you do?

2007-07-22 03:57:29 · 4 answers · asked by Del 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

i have one leaning on the fence still that dosent want to get involved in it and then the others are all doing whatever this person says

2007-07-22 03:59:07 · update #1

4 answers

This is what I usually do in a situation like this - have nothing to do with any of them. If it means that you are without friends for a while, so be it. Find a hobby to keep you occupied during this time. Sometimes, it's not about right or wrong. These people who like to trash you are snobby and shallow. It doesn't matter if you try to set things straight because they will always have something to say against you. I've been there before, so I kind of know what I'm talking about.
As far as any new possible friends turning their backs on you because of that this enemy says, then they are not really friends either, or are just too wishy-washy to make up their own minds. Good luck.

2007-07-22 04:04:15 · answer #1 · answered by Paul L 7 · 1 0

Forget about them. Don't waste your time with them anymore. Let them be the ones to apologize, since they committed the wrongdoing.

2007-07-22 04:01:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

STICK WITH THE FRIEND WHO DON'T WANT TO GET INVOLVE. MAKE SURE THAT FRIEND DON'T GET INVOLVED. FRIENDS COME AND GO. THAT IS THE FACT OF LIFE. IF YOUR FORMER NEW FRIENDS CAN'T MAKE UP THEIR OWN MINDS AND FORM THEIR OWN OPINIONS, THEN THEY DESERVE TO BE SOMEBODY ELSE'S LACKEY IN LIFE.

2007-07-22 04:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by ANTHONY B 2 · 1 0

"take you down"????? i bet if you looked at yourself seriously, you would realize this is rediculous and rise about it... hang out with your new friends!!!

2007-07-22 04:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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