Family & Relationships - 22 July 2007

My husband and me have been married 14 years and we have came close to divorcing 3 times. I never caught him with another woman his name is Scott Hall and works at TRF. He seem very distant to me.

2007-07-22 05:27:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Whenever I take him somewhere like to a carnival all his friends think im goin out with him what should I do to stop that oh and no im not going to stop hangin out with him.

2007-07-22 05:20:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because don't the pill make you put on weight?
...i don't want to be fat!

2007-07-22 05:15:59 · 27 answers · asked by Kaitlin 1 in Singles & Dating

What would be the most effective way to punish my bf for cheating? I was thinking maybe a knee to the balls then break up with him?

2007-07-22 05:15:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've been dating a girl for two years now and i REALLY do love her. but for the past few months we've been agruing a lot and im tired of it. but her grandpa just died who she was really close to and her parents got divorsed so im wondering if that has a lot to do with her short temper. then there is another girl who i've had my eye on for about 4 years and now she has a boy friend but he is moving out of state and she doesnt know if she loves him any more and she doesnt want a long distance relationship. lately she has been calling me a lot and flirting with me and im thinkin more about her than my girlfriend. i know i love my girlfriend a lot but im wondering if the "fire" is gone from our relationship. give me ur input please =)

2007-07-22 05:03:27 · 25 answers · asked by Curly 3 in Singles & Dating

im 27 i have 6 kids and i would like to try online dating i live in holland mi,anyone close?my ex wife hurt me bad twice i need help bad??????

2007-07-22 04:59:21 · 5 answers · asked by RONALD T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My gf who ive been with for months flirts with her best guy friend.I no this because ive seen convo's between them,the flirting is pretty heavy.Theres hearts and flirting in almost every convo they have.She pretty much kept this behind my back because i had to find out from a friend.We've gotten into a couple fights about flirting with other people before.She knows im not ok with her flirting with other guys,and shes deffinatly not ok with me flirting with other girls.Her best guy friend does like her and he admits to it. Should i leave my girlfriend?

2007-07-22 04:59:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Next year is a big deal, but is 14 a big deal?

2007-07-22 04:58:03 · 6 answers · asked by dustiejhammer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The guy who knows I want a relationship with him but says he wants to be friends as a result of my nagging called me when he was drunk the other night and said straight off "I'm wondering why you call me hun and babes and darling in your text messages".

Why do you think he's even wondering or asking me this if he wants to remain friends?....He calls me alot & wants me to go see him for the weekend. But this question is playing on my mind as it makes me wonder why he's even asking me this question?! Because I only say it in messages, I don't verbally call him these words

2007-07-22 04:54:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my art teacher scares me. he perves on me, and my friend. we are perfect in his class. we never talk, we always complete homework on time, and we are both good at art, but he is scary. he keeps calling me honey, or darling, and he has moved me and my friend to the front of the class. he also puts his knee on the table a lot. we are both scared. i've tried talking to my parents, and they just say he's probably only be trying to be friendly, but i know he's not. i've also talked to my form tutor, and she says the same as my parents. i dont trust any other adults. my friend has done the same. my art teachers has got pictures of naked ladies on his classroom wall, and the headteacher doesnt see them, as his classroom is is a complete different section of the school to the rest of the classrooms, and no-one really goes there. at the moment, i only have him as my teacher once every 2 weeks, but starting september, i'm getting him more often. is my art teacher a pervert?

thank you.
x

2007-07-22 04:48:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

are going to be in nursing homes and be listening to the music of today? I cant imagine an elderly person listening to heavy metal

2007-07-22 04:44:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with my bf for 4 months. He is french I am English, we both live in England. He has recently gone away on a trip to greece with a group of male friends- which he organised before he met me.
Im ashamed to say that i have tested him a few times to see if he was loyal and whether or not he would cheat. I had a fake profile with good looking pictures of another woman- but he turned her down (i.e me) each and every time, and admitted to her that he was falling in love with me.
He is kind and appears loyal- but before he went away on holiday he said that he wasnt bringing his phone as it was too expensive and he wasnt bringing his laptop. All i am to receive from him is a postcard in 10 days... is this unacceptable? Should i trust him? I thought it was odd as it doesnt cost much to go to an internet cafe abroad and email me to let me know he's ok?!
Its now been 3 days and im really worrying. Advice please!!

2007-07-22 04:40:18 · 21 answers · asked by Helen 1 in Singles & Dating

I left him last year for a guy at my work. We where married for almost 14 years. Sometimes when we talk about the kids he gets emotional and starts crying and telling me how much he misses me and still loves me. You would think that after 10 months he should be over me right? I tell him to get over it and move on and then he tells me that I lack a conscience. Why is he holding on??

2007-07-22 04:37:59 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My whole life my dad has been nasty, cruel, and abusive. Last year my dad, step mom, brother and I went on vacation. My dads got a screw loose, and made us go home really early. I was at his house (which is 82 miles from mine and my moms house) and he put a gun to our heads. I was scared to death, but my step mom, had a plan, and got us out. We jumped i nthe car, and went to her moms house. Then we called my g-ma, because my mom has no car, and told my g-ma what happened. She came to get me,and everyone got in her car. We all went to the police but they said it was in a different jericdiction and there was nothing they could do. So then everyone got back in my g-mas car and went back to the city my ddad lives in. When we told the police what happened they went to his house. At first his car was gone, and he didn't answer the door. So the police left and came back. For the second time they knocked, and he answered. He had his hat on and a beer in his hand and said he had been sleeping.

2007-07-22 04:36:17 · 16 answers · asked by young and broken 2 in Family

My husband of a year just found out that he may have a three year old daughter from a past relationship. I am trying to be as supportive as I can, but I just feel different about him now. I can't expain why, but I feel cut off from him in some way. I am trying to keep it from him that I feel this way, because I know he really needs support, as he is shocked to find out about this child as much as I am. (the mother thought the child was fathered by someone else, and just found out he is not the bio father.) Also, I get the feeling he is excited about the idea of this child being his, but he won't tell me that. I wouldn't be mad, I just think he is trying to spare my feelings. Is there a way to get over the jealousy, insecure, what ever feeling I have in this situation? I know a soon as we have visitation of this child I will love her just like my own, I just don't know how to feel right now. Has anyone been in this situation? Any feed back would be appreciated. Thank you!

2007-07-22 04:31:18 · 4 answers · asked by Natalie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What everybody think about this...?
Almost 4 month ago My husband and I we are living apart. He is in his home and I'm living with my parents.
And my husband is dating somebody already!!! For me is disrespectful!!! I'm very sad because I never will do that to him, so fast !
For 2 weekends his car was not there and I pass by his home around 11:30 pm, and las friday was a car seating in his driveway..hmmmm I'm assume he is dating a women??
Very sad...and we still married !!! We did not starting with the divorce , we are just living apart, we are not legally separated either
Do you think I'm right in being upset or he should do wherever he wants???Anyway I do not going to tell him anything
Advice please!
Thank you!

2007-07-22 04:26:17 · 23 answers · asked by mimi72 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel tired of arguing so much with my husband and wish I had a happier marriage. We have been married for several years and he has called me names such as ***** and idiot. He calls me these names randomly not just when it's an argument. For example, a few years ago we were out at dinner and I ordered a glass of wine. The waitress asked me if I wanted a second glass of wine and I said sure. My husband immediately said "*****!" I understand that glasses of wine can add up, but there is no excuse for this. Now we have a child and he has called me a bad mother more than once. He has said I can't cook, clean, not fun, and that I'm bad in bed. Lately, he suddenly blamed me for him losing a guy friend from college. He said that because I didn't like this guy that it's my fault that my husband isn't friends with this person any longer. He treats me like a child and bosses me around. He says "a good woman would do this or that". What should I do? Help!

2007-07-22 04:24:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my bf of 2yrs,got a new female number in his cell phone.when i asked him about it, he told me thats its an old friend and she gave the number to one of his guy friend to give to him. he said he never called her and she dosen't have his number, but now he carries his phone ever where with him , and told me never to touch his phone again.

2007-07-22 04:24:14 · 1 answers · asked by ms attitude 2 in Singles & Dating

what dose it mean when your girlfriend doesn't want to have sex with you, im in my 30's and had sex twice in 3 1/2 months???

2007-07-22 04:24:03 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my net buddy,is making phone calls and says he would die,if i don't speak and cannot live without me,even before meeting me.I threatened him,i would die if he calls further.He stopped calls..i feel very bad for behaving harshly..is this the right thing that i have done,i doubt if he would do something to himself

2007-07-22 04:23:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok. long/short story! im 14 and i have a little sis, who is 4. shes REALLY annoying!!! she keeps asking me all these stupid questions like," y cant we have another dog? y cant we get 2 houses?" im like "because... we cant! so stop bugging me!" i tell my mom but she smiles and says that my mary (my sis) is only playing with me! so i keep telling mary 2 stop it and she doesnt! she says she wants a good answer! not "because... we cant!" help me! what should i say???!!

2007-07-22 04:17:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My man suggested we invite another guy to join us in bed. Well, of course I've always fantasized about two guys at once. The possibilities seem VERY exciting! But I wonder if he will feel weird afterward, or if I will. Anybody with experience? Was it good or bad/? Would you do it again? Did you do it again?

2007-07-22 04:17:04 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if so, why???

2007-07-22 04:13:52 · 13 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my ex have been over for 10months but its got nothing to do with one of us doing any thing wrong,
but we have started talk and stuff and about a month ago i was him and every thing went great and he said he loves me and bla bla bla and thats why he just cant seem to hoook up with any one else but recently when i speak to him he baks away he never says what he feels and yesterday i got a tattoo and a freind of mine called me babe when he commented the tat on mysoace and once i told my ex my pics on my space were then like 5 mins later he became sort of nasty in a weird way. and today he snapped at me whats goin on?? please explain,he has also asked me while we were together not to play games (which i never ever did) and he said his been there he knows how to play the games to get the attention if you know what i mean like when ur in a relasionship and you'll do lil things so they will pay you attention and stuff PLEASE HELP WHAT IS GOING ON thank you sooo much

2007-07-22 04:10:22 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-22 04:10:04 · 4 answers · asked by RONALD T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we'll be getting married in 2weeks time.but the way he's treating me is as if i've been out and about .he's also 14 yrs older than me.tell me if i am making amistake

2007-07-22 04:09:56 · 14 answers · asked by sai w 1 in Family

I like this girl alot and we are really good friends but I dont know if I should ask her out because I dont know if that would mess up our friendship

2007-07-22 04:08:43 · 9 answers · asked by kabboys 1 in Singles & Dating

A girl who hates Romaticism clap-trap (i.e bunches of roses on dates etc..) a girl who wears pj's to go round the house. Who doesn't clean her room daily but cleans it once a week and makes it look like a picture. a girl who needs her space,time for herself?? lol this is just a question!

2007-07-22 04:07:35 · 27 answers · asked by Amelie' 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-22 04:07:32 · 10 answers · asked by Madmen22 1 in Singles & Dating

they are parsis, and i am a south indian

2007-07-22 04:05:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating