if so, why???
2007-07-22 04:13:52 · 13 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
surly if he liked her he would want some sort of commitment right???
2007-07-22 04:14:51 · update #1
Is that the law then, that just because he's 29 he has to want a commitment? It depends on the people involved not on their age.
2007-07-22 04:17:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why not? Finding someone attractive and liking them doesn't always mean you want to "own" them. (which is what a "committment" really means). Obviously you are looking for more in this relationship than he is. At 29 (and depending on how old you are) there is really no reason not to have friends with members of the opposite gender. Finding you attractive is not a reason to be exclusively with you, that would seem to be the real question you are asking here. Or are you asking why he wouldn't want to be "friends with benefits". Perhaps you should take the initiative and ask him what he wants out of your relationship and what you want out of it. Maybe he just like being with you or isn't sure how to make it less "casual". Communication is the key.
2007-07-22 11:22:27 · answer #2 · answered by Wiz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is definitely possible and happens quite regularly. "Attractive" is a physical thing that doesn't necessarily have to lead to anything more than casual friendship. Maybe the guy has other goals he wants to achieve before committing to a relationship. Or maybe he finds the girl attractive as a friend but she just isn't his idea of relationship material. Everybody has different ideas on the person they are willing to commit to.
2007-07-22 11:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by classic1957gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the way that guys think:
1. Likes a girl and is attracted physically to her too.
2. Likes a girl but not attracted to her physically
3. Does not like a girl but is attracted to her physically. (Just because he's attracted to you doesn't mean he wants a commitment)
3. Does not like a girl and not attracted to her physically (not a chance)
etc.
2007-07-22 11:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by #1bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cos he doesn't wanna get tied down as he is only 29...
The gal is attractive... but not good enough (in his opinion maybe) to make him give up his singlehood nor makes him wanna commit to you exclusively.
He doesn't wanna to give up other options available if he is equally attractive and gorgeous to other women.
There are too many attractive lady friends on his list and you are one of them.
He has commitment phobia.
You may be attractive to him... but he could see you as an Unsuitable partner to date...
2007-07-22 11:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by glitzynicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
I have had girls who were friends - that i had no sexual intrest in at all, yet they wanted me.
But then again come to think of it they werent very attractive. haha.
2007-07-22 11:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible for everyone to find someone attractive but wouldn't go further than being just acquiantances or friends. maybe for the reason the person is not that interesting enough for him...............
2007-07-22 11:19:30 · answer #7 · answered by ♥wildflower♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he thinks you are attractive, but he's just not that into you... he des not want to commit to you, he is still looking
2007-07-22 11:17:17 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just wants a friend and nothing more. if things r good between u then take it don't push this or u could make him go.
2007-07-22 11:22:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may not want to feel obligated or tied down, keeping options open for other women.
2007-07-22 14:10:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋