My gf who ive been with for months flirts with her best guy friend.I no this because ive seen convo's between them,the flirting is pretty heavy.Theres hearts and flirting in almost every convo they have.She pretty much kept this behind my back because i had to find out from a friend.We've gotten into a couple fights about flirting with other people before.She knows im not ok with her flirting with other guys,and shes deffinatly not ok with me flirting with other girls.Her best guy friend does like her and he admits to it. Should i leave my girlfriend?
2007-07-22 04:59:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you know they are already an item whether you admit it to yourself or not.
2007-07-22 05:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by Tonya R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both just need to chill this relationship and grow up some more. Neither of you are ready for a "serious" relationship. Just quit trying to be exclusive, there is plenty of time for that when you grow up. That being said, flirting with other people is fun and a good way to release sexual tension without getting serious about it. The only time to stop flirting is when you are dead.
2007-07-22 12:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by Wiz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some flirting is harmless, but I think this one is not.
Obviously she's in to the friend. Sometimes we flirt with our best friends knowing we don't want them, we do it cause it's a rush knowing they want us. Sounds like she does want him though or at least for a moment anyway. Tell her to knock it off that it really bothers you, but don't snap at her about it, just talk to her about it. If things don't change, back off from her and see what happens then.
2007-07-22 12:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like trouble dude, I'd leave her. If I told my girl flirting with someone else bothers me and she still does it, she doesn't have me in her best interest. I think her and her best friend are better off together! I was in that same situation a few years back but I just played it off like it didn't bother me. Next thing I know, I caught them in a club making out!
2007-07-22 12:07:17 · answer #4 · answered by Conflict 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go if he is your best friend tell him he can have her if he wants to be treated the same way by her.There are plenty of females out there don't settle for one that you can't trust.Let someone else have that headache.Move on be happy
2007-07-22 12:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by bjec22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im interested in responses.
I have the same situations, except my boyfriend likes to flirt and thinks its ok or hides it from me.
I say if they cant respect you, they dont love you.
2007-07-22 12:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by Mia l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold Your Horses!!
Leave her????
why is this the first choice??? that tells me you obviously dont really want to be with her. you shouldent even be concitering that option if you love her!!
Talk to her. be calm and dont turn it into an argument.
good luck in whatever you do!~
*Ko Ko*
2007-07-22 12:08:20 · answer #7 · answered by Ko Ko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her is needs to pick between her flirting with other guys or your going to dump her
2007-07-22 12:05:38 · answer #8 · answered by Honey b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like ur not serious about her, leave her
2014-04-01 00:51:29 · answer #9 · answered by Ruben 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you to fight about flirting with her male friend then you should move along
2007-07-22 12:05:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋