Family & Relationships - 22 July 2007

A person who found out my darkest secret Is going to tell my parents. The person sees my parents a lot. He promised he won't tell if he can watch whatever he wants on T.v When he comes over. But even if i let him do that. He black mails me on other things. Like if i don't clean up for him. HE will black mail me. I don't know how to stop it. But i don't want to tell the truth to my parents.
What do i do??

2007-07-22 10:26:38 · 12 answers · asked by Lil Secret Santa Helper 2 in Friends

My boyfriend is constantly hanging out with other girls. He has gone out to dinner and over ones house when it was just the too of them. I know I should trust him because we have been together for 2 years but it bothers me. He has even ditched me a couple of times for them. I have told him how it makes me feel but he keeps doing it. I don't know how to control my jealously or what to do. Please give me advice.

2007-07-22 10:24:44 · 21 answers · asked by Sara 2 in Singles & Dating

if you could choose only one, which would it be?

2007-07-22 10:23:09 · 27 answers · asked by joju 3 in Singles & Dating

D, DD wot is the best size

2007-07-22 10:22:09 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the person who i love more than my life is very far away from me, he too loves me a lot but my parents are against coz his financial status is low, i cannot go against my parents but cant leave him too, help me friends

2007-07-22 10:21:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont have boyfriend right now as in im single,though theres this man ive known him for 5 years and ive always liked him,almost liked ive loved him ,dream about him ,picture my self with him and i still do. he likes me too,and he tells me he likes me.But the problem is hes married.even though hes married he says he wants to have a memory of physically.
what should i do?

2007-07-22 10:18:20 · 21 answers · asked by lyde d 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm from Canada, how about you?

2007-07-22 10:15:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I mean Here are some signs Why I think he is :(

1.Michael Jackson Is his Idol
2.He talks about lemon partys
3.He talks about jesus juice
4.He draws naked men
5.When i was studying helth he was looking at a penis in my health book
6.He's obsessed with the youtube video "Old greg" and its about a gay fish!!!!!!!

I just pray he isnt or he could be acting this way couse he isnt mature yet
IDK!
I dont want him to be
I need your appinion

2007-07-22 10:15:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are they a good idea in a realationship?

2007-07-22 10:09:51 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I broke up with my boyfriend in March. He's still trying to get me to date him again, even though I've clearly stated that I don't like him anymore. Should I get a friend to pretend to be my boyfriend until my ex leaves me alone?

2007-07-22 10:03:21 · 23 answers · asked by spuhgetti 1 in Singles & Dating

well this 'girl' (more like a man but lets not got there) has beeen b!tching about me for some time calling me a sIut etc. telling everyone my buisness and so on and on.
so to get back at her
i slept with this guy she liked who is really hot!

it was sooo funny seeing her face when we walked into the room holding hands and i was purposely all over him!!

yeh she deserved it!

2007-07-22 10:01:49 · 48 answers · asked by Kaitlin 1 in Singles & Dating

we flirt all the time and we've even kissed but i dont think hes ready to dump his gf yet...hes not a player or anything he is one of the sweetest guys i know he says he wants to go out with me but i feel really bad for his gf and have no idea how to handle it

2007-07-22 10:00:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so my ex is suppose to see our child on a certain day of each week...he is always a jerk to me when he calls...and last week he wanted me to meet him somewhere to see his child because he didnt have the money to come out...and i told him if he was goign to treat me like that and call me names then im not going to do him a favor like that...and so he ended up not coming...well that day of the week is coming around again...so should I call him and ask if he's coming? or wait to see if he shows up? what should i do? what's the easiest way to deal with this? I have full custody of the child...and he has to see her under my supervision, as it's stated in the courts. please help me. thank you

2007-07-22 09:56:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok im 14 an 17 yearold bf of 4 years are engaged an want ur advice are we to young to get married?

2007-07-22 09:56:30 · 19 answers · asked by baby_gurl_so_sexy!! 1 in Weddings

2007-07-22 09:54:04 · 17 answers · asked by dina197520022000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well to make a long story short we have no kids together we moved from san diego to salinas and i am injured from work have been since april 06.i have carpell tunnel in both my wrists and a back injury,i also have no family or friends,so its not like i can go to anyone for help.i have tried to go to shelters and they only accept women with kids and for the other i can only be there 1 month.he is very mean and i want to leave but with my injury i cannot do much.it even hurts to drive,bathe,etc...im living with his mother and she is tired of his ways as well.i do not know what to do because i am in a bad spot with not being able to just move cause i would have to replace my doctor get a new lawyer etc.its a tough situation cause even if i left and tried to get a job society is not too good with the disabilty and to get a job with these injuries is nearly impossible.i am a trained cna but cannot do it with this.he is mean when he drinks and im sick of it,what do u suggest!

2007-07-22 09:52:05 · 31 answers · asked by swirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont know what i can do to make guys like me it just doesnt seem like they do but idk. i was just wondering if theres something about me that would make guys not like me. i am veryy outgoing and my voice is kinda high. i have a bubbly personality. my friends think im pretty funny. im not like overly smart but i get a's and b's. i hang out with a big group of ppl but i dont really go out of that group. i care about looks but i dont wear tons of make-up and i normally dont wear any to school. i play soccer and do cross country. im going into 8th grade im 5 ft tall and about 100 lbs- so im not too fat or too skinny. im not like the most popular person evr but im pretty high up on the "social scale"

please dont answer being rude i just want to know i dont want to change i just want to know if there is a reason for them not liking me. idk maybe they do and i just dont know.

2007-07-22 09:49:16 · 7 answers · asked by . 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-22 09:43:54 · 25 answers · asked by anastasia 1 in Singles & Dating

I have told my husband that I can no longer with his negativity and bad attitude any more and it stresses me out. Also, he doesn't hardly show me affection except in bed. I have been talking to an old classmate for two years now. He had been trying to contact me for 32 years and had a crush on me in school. I know now that we had a physical attraction at first but now it has changed. I love him because of his good attitude. I tend to be negative but I am very positive around people who are positive. I worry about my health due to the stress from my husband's negativity. This man is also very smart and not afraid to say or show his feelings. He is also married to a negative person. We are constantly asking questions to make sure we are compatible. We plan on being together after his youngest graduates from high school. The hard part is whether we can live with the hurt it will cause our spouses and families. I don't want to live like this for the rest of my life.

2007-07-22 09:41:31 · 13 answers · asked by JJ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what is it used for?
why is it used?
why do they say "and its still blue?"
is it a tradition? and if so where'd it come from?

2007-07-22 09:35:41 · 8 answers · asked by iiTSz ME3 1 in Weddings

theres this guy that i really like... he's like 5 years older than me though. i'm pretty sure he knows it but i don't know how to know for sure. what should i do??

2007-07-22 09:35:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do u think he wont return my email but will re turn my text

2007-07-22 09:33:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend said it was possible to pop someones balls if they were kicked.. Is it really possible? If so, how? Do you have any stories of this happening? Do they have to go to the hospital?

2007-07-22 09:08:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know a lady who is leaving her husband because he is now disabled due to a violent attack, another who left her husband because he was dying and another because he had MS. Have peoples values changed and is all me me me

2007-07-22 09:07:27 · 24 answers · asked by Peter 4 in Marriage & Divorce

your ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend?

2007-07-22 09:04:11 · 29 answers · asked by mymelody 6 in Singles & Dating

what do boys want in a girl around the ages of 12??? pleaseeeeeeeee no stupid answers!

2007-07-22 08:58:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 20yrs old and I live with my parents. I go to college. I was never a rebel girl. I've never been to a club, I've never come home drunk, smoked, or done drugs, and the latest I've come home is 12am and i was out with my boyfriend. I am happy living with my parents they are great. I am where I am because of them and i thank them...but my dad is extremely overprotective... i did not have a normal childhood because of this. yesterday i tried to take my cosuin to my grandmother's house at 9pm and my dad said that it was too late and too dangerous for me (its my own car) and he said he was going with me. I got tired of all that and i respectfully said "im going to take my cousin to the house ok, i'll be back in 10 mins" and he said "do whatever the f*uck you want!" ... things like this happen all the time. Im getting tired and I dont want to get married to escape this, its not right. he doesnt listen to anything, what should i do? i dont have money! this is too much. or is he right?

2007-07-22 08:56:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I want to do a meaningful place for both of us. There is a beach that is meaningful to both of us where I think would be nice. Now I was trying to think of something creative instead of just proposing at a beach.

My thoughts were we can go out to dinner and go walking the beach after (timing it right for the sunset). She loves sunsets but what girl doesn't. Im thinking of planting a message in a bottle and stashing it between some rocks by the water. I will stash it ahead of time. Probably have a friend watch over the message/bottle so no one takes it. Maybe take some pics of the special moment hiding out while there. When we walk the beach I can stumble up to it and act like I don't know what it is.

The message will be self-written but anonymous so she still doesn't have any clues. When she says that was really sweet/nice..etc. I will tell her I know who wrote that...she will say who? and I will get down on one knee, take out the ring and propose.

Hows this? Think this will work?

2007-07-22 08:55:54 · 26 answers · asked by GreenMonsta 1 in Weddings

I broke up with my bf but he keeps insisting to be with me. Hes so controlling and i dont know what to do about it. The last time i tried to break up with him he pulled my hair and grabbed me by the neck and told me, youre not leaving me. I know im weak for not doing anything about it but i CANT do anything. I dont want to report him or anything because i dont want all this to get bigger. I even found out hes been going through all my mails and my calls. He told me that my x is only cussing me out in the email and telling me **** and now im doubting if he really said that. I feel bad because my x tried to call and i only hanged up on him thinking he would say what my bf told me he supposedly said. I cant trust this guy anymore. And these past couple of times that ive been with him hes been forcing me to sleep with him. He IS my bf so i feel like i HAVE to. I cant push him away because hes stronger than me. I know im so weak and i dont know what to do about it.

2007-07-22 08:22:05 · 42 answers · asked by C12H22O11 4 in Singles & Dating

that is can a man marry a woman today withouth having all the financial capacities to make the woman comfortable

2007-07-22 08:21:44 · 2 answers · asked by brosvick 2 in Other - Family & Relationships