I broke up with my boyfriend in March. He's still trying to get me to date him again, even though I've clearly stated that I don't like him anymore. Should I get a friend to pretend to be my boyfriend until my ex leaves me alone?
2007-07-22 10:03:21 · 23 answers · asked by spuhgetti 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No get a ppo against him
2007-07-22 10:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that.. If it is really that serius.. RESTRAINING ORDER!!!!!!! but if its not that serious.. just tell him to leave you alone or you will report to the police for him harrassing you.. that always works... of course dont call the police unless he is being a jerk or something... or just ignore him.. the more you give into him trying to talk to you the more he will keep coming around because he knows how to get your attention! Good luck with that honey!
2007-07-22 10:07:27 · answer #2 · answered by libbynstanlo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he calls, tell him you have someone who wants to meet him by the name of Miss Dialtone and hang up on him. If he doesn't get the message, continue to hang up on him very quickly OR seriously consider a restraining order if his actions are becoming very strange.
To have a "pretend" person will not solve the situation, as he may continue to pursue you and - equally - try to contact this individual. This is nearly five months and any rational person would certainly have moved on by now.
2007-07-22 10:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by Zombie Birdhouse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lying never solved a problem, it only makes more. If you're feeling like he's pressuring you or if you feel like you are in danger, get a restraining order. The best thing you can do is move on. Go out on dates (real dates) and get out of town for a bit.
2007-07-22 10:54:44 · answer #4 · answered by Trillium 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be careful these type off guys have been found to be possessive and controlling so gettin a new boyfriend would make him jealous and he might want to hurt both off you. Have a mature person talk to him if you really want him to leave you alone
2007-07-22 10:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by cj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, how are you going to explain to this "fake" that you are only using him when he falls in love with you? And your justification is totally cheap! Better to get a real b/f rather than a fake for the better of everyone around. And I promise you'll feel alot better about what you're doing. Best wishes
2007-07-22 10:12:49 · answer #6 · answered by element_op 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're needless to say an exceedingly worrying person who has been harm. regardless of the undeniable fact that, there are different difficulty-free approaches to interpret what has been performed, and to technique the thoughts effectively. on a similar time because it might desire to be some what demanding that he continues to be having curiously emotional conversations together with his ex, he curiously wanted you to be certain it. this would advise a pair of issues. it might desire to advise that he became attempting to enable you down, without honestly being the single to do it, yet i don't think of so. i think of that he wanted you to renowned that he nevertheless has emotions for others, and those emotions could be long term era. this does not in ordinary terms stick to to that different female. this additionally will stick to to you. additionally to contemplate is that regardless of his emotions for this different individual, he realizes that he's pleased with you, and could not leave you for them. It takes countless braveness to renowned that your heart could be in 2 places at as quickly as, yet guard actual on your commitments, and he's telling you which you're nicely worth it.
2016-12-14 16:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time you see him, tell him you want distance. He is not to call you, see you, talk to you ever again. If he does you'll file a restraining order.
If he does, you will need to file a restraining order. Sp be ready to back it up.
I know this sounds cold, but you have to do what you have to do to carry on with life and help him grow up.
2007-07-22 10:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no!!!! anything but that!! cuz then he would try harder to get you back!!! and he would try to figure out who this "guy" is, and he would want 2 kick his A S S or something!! lol seriously. don't ask why i think that. lol
i don't think he'll leave u alone till you really break his heart. go on a date with him, somewhere public, then tell him there.
"I HATE YOU!!!! I DON'T WANT YOU IN MY LIFE!! leave me alone!!!" then throw your beverage in his face, and leave. yup. that's what i would suggest. haha. :)
2007-07-22 10:07:46 · answer #9 · answered by biggs02_15 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dads and uncles can usually take care of this problem too. Just ignore the guy. go out with other people, as friends, without him.
2007-07-22 10:06:26 · answer #10 · answered by aliciamichelle06 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that what you need instead of a "fake" boyfriend, is someone to kick his butt and tell him to leave you alone. What he is doing to you is called stalking. Be safe. Don't go out alone. Please.
2007-07-22 10:07:59 · answer #11 · answered by ♥Sunny Girl♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋