I dont have boyfriend right now as in im single,though theres this man ive known him for 5 years and ive always liked him,almost liked ive loved him ,dream about him ,picture my self with him and i still do. he likes me too,and he tells me he likes me.But the problem is hes married.even though hes married he says he wants to have a memory of physically.
what should i do?
2007-07-22 10:18:20 · 21 answers · asked by lyde d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Plus i left something out.hes wife is cheating on him so he trying to get thing.hes knows that too.its like a getting thing though even if so he would still like me cuz hes liked me before he even got married and before it was easier.
2007-07-22 10:31:01 · update #1
NO!! Do not let yourself do that! He is using you! He has a wife!! Not only would he be unloyal if he was with you, but your also being a homewrecker!! C'mon!! You can do a lot better than that!
2007-07-22 10:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YES, I'm sure he would LOVE to have his cake and eat it too - wifey at home to take care of the boring routine house duties, and YOU to take care of his massive ego!! YEA, what a great guy - cares NOTHING about honoring commitment AND has no RESPECT for marriage - THIS MEANS: he is lazy, self-centered, is not truthful OR trustworthy, and has no HONOR!!
I cannot understand WHY a man with that many OBVIOUS negative traits would be attractive to ANY self-respecting intelligent woman!!!
If a homeless, but very cute, drug addicted man, who lost his house, family, and job because he would not sober up, approached you and said he just got booted from the shelter because he stole a wallet, WOULD YOU INVITE HIM TO BE WITH YOU? THINK.... WHY NOT???
There is almost NO DIFFERENCE between the two men - The difference between them is - one has learned a smoother way to get you interested - ALLOWING A MARRIED MAN THE MEANS TO LIE, CHEAT, DISRESPECT AND DISHONOR, is like handing a murderer a gun - you are just as guilty!!
2007-07-22 18:14:47 · answer #2 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it! Just think if you were this guys wife, and found out about all of this, what would you do? There is a better man out there for you that will want you alone, not you and every now and then an old friend. What goes around comes around. You have to respect yourself enough to get your own man, not someone elses. Trust me, I have been on the opposite side and it ins't fun at all.
2007-07-22 17:32:19 · answer #3 · answered by kaicat2902 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run!!! Married men looking for it on the outside of their marriage are only trouble. If they'll cheat on their wife, they'll cheat on you too. Sure, it might be great and like a fairy tale at first but that won't last long. I know it will be hard but you've got to get far away from this guy. All he wants you for is sex...you may think your situation is different but it's not...just RUN!
2007-07-22 17:22:17 · answer #4 · answered by Pineapple Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What dose he think U R McDonalds. Pick up some side dish and then go home. I can't think of an insulting enought remark for such a selfish, inconsideriate scum as him. Have him discuss it with ur Dad or big brother, let them explain ,why u don't service every straying husband.If U don't want to spend UR life as someones doormat ,check UR moral principles.Stand up for decency would U want UR husband doing this.Send him home with a flea in his ear.
2007-07-22 17:33:21 · answer #5 · answered by oatesmokid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it . Pro's and Con's first . What type of women would that make you not one that you would be proud of . Also if he cheats on his wife the one that he took vowels for what makes you think that he would be any differant id youll became in a realationship. Also how would you feel if you were the wife and you know of the above question. Its not worth it!
2007-07-22 18:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by Somebody Somewhere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you leave him alone!! don't do anything with this man. he's a player- he probably says that to all women that he is attracted to. Just keep talking about his wife- it'll p*** him off, and he'll leave you alone. Trust me. Ask him if he has wonderful memories about his wife, when they first had s*x, guarantee, he will not contact you again. It's called playing a player in his own game. I've been there done just that, he said he wanted to have sex with me, I said sure, What day would be good for his wife to watch us have sex in their bed. He never once asked me again to have sex with him again. It's called beating him at his own game.
2007-07-22 17:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by babysteppin2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being married should be a sacred thing that is reserved for two people. This man is willing to break this serious relationship for you. You should as yourself, "Will I help him in destroying his marriage?"
2007-07-22 17:24:23 · answer #8 · answered by jquick13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kinda been in the same spot but only he had a girlfriend if hes married stay away its cool to talk to him and once in a great while hang out with him but you dont wanna **** up the marriage do you? no so i would just tell him ya you like him to but you only wanna be friends and that you dont wanna screw up his marriage
2007-07-22 17:25:54 · answer #9 · answered by amanda c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a BIIIIIIG SIGN that maybe they should get.... a DIVORCE! maybe? you dont think so? possibly... im just sayin.
thennnnnn you guys can date. its really not that complicated. and the facts are. its obvious. lets hope you guys don't end up cheating on each other too. but they really need to get out of that marriage its not healthy.
2007-07-22 17:36:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋