Family & Relationships - 22 July 2007

My wife says she wants sex more often but RARELY does anything to let me know. I am completely turned off by women who are sexually passive so I find it hard to initiate 80-100% of the time and still be attracted to her. I can easily do 50-60%

Also, her body language and mannerisms repel sexual advances. She finds that men do not respond to her sexually. I think this is affecting her work and personal life. 90% of what we say is in our body language but she won't hear it. She insists that she 'is who she is'. That sounds like a cop-out. People change and grow every day.

I don't mind if she doesn't use body language to look attractive or to attract me, but I can't take her demanding that I and other men respond as if she is, when she isn't.

Do all women expect results from nothing?

I personally don't care if we have sex again... But I don't want to be scolded for not thinking mediocre is wonderful. If you want to be considered wonderful, then BE wonderful... no?

2007-07-22 08:21:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am in love with a girl, while she is practical and she doesnt care a bout such things, and i think she hates men or maybe she had an unlucky former relationship actully I dont dare to ask her, she doesnt know I am even exist. this question labeled for skilled lovers.please help

2007-07-22 08:19:27 · 5 answers · asked by Iraqi guy 1 in Friends

divorce is a very common situation in the arab land and the western world and some believe marriages that it is due to marriages been done just to obtain physical and material wealth from the man after divorce

2007-07-22 08:19:14 · 1 answers · asked by brosvick 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-22 08:09:57 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend is really cute and all, but lately at lunch and stuff he has started pinning me to the the wall in front of his mates and opening my t-shirt buttons in front of them. i mean i dont mind him doin it just between me and him but not in front of his mates. hes really nice and all though.....he aint horrble or anything he is really sweet but he starts opening my buttons 4 some reason! why

2007-07-22 08:09:38 · 40 answers · asked by jazz 3 in Singles & Dating

last friday i was out drinking with my ex (he now my best friend) and before i headed home he said to me "if i told u i am madly in love with you what would you do" he was drunk at the time should i choose to pretend i dont remember it or bring it up next time i see him as this seem compleaty out of character for him to say stuff like that

2007-07-22 08:03:16 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've told her to ask for a raise, but she says she just got one two months ago and asking for another one would not be prudent. I have suggested that she take on a second job in the evening to supplement the income, that I would be willing to sacrifice that extra time with her for some financial security, but all she can say to this is that she needs her rest. How can I get her off my back and convince her to be less selfish? I've told her she should have worked harder in college so she could have gotten a better carreer and she acts like I am some kind of a**hole. Please help.

2007-07-22 08:01:22 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

....I would like to ask for ideas on how to get him there. It'll be held at a community rental facility and is an 80's theme. What can I tell him or what can I do to get him to the party?

2007-07-22 07:57:00 · 3 answers · asked by Michele 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-22 07:53:02 · 26 answers · asked by loulo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-22 07:51:56 · 25 answers · asked by Alian 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 16 and my boyfriend is 18 and we want to get married when i turn 17 what state will let us get married WITH OUT parent consent!?

2007-07-22 07:49:21 · 5 answers · asked by roxysweetheart7 1 in Marriage & Divorce

too heavy as in Shakespeare, and a reasonable length - not a blink and you'll miss it length, but not rambling on either. Any suggestions at all please?

2007-07-22 07:48:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Hi.. I have a question and it might be a little complicated/long.. but please read it and try to help me.. you will be doing me a huge favor by helping me!! : )

Ok so I don’t live in the u.s… but ive been selected to go to the u.s. for one year and live with an American family and attend a u.s. highschool.. Im going in about two weeks.. and the program still didn’t tell me which area im going to and which family I will be staying with… Theres two weeks left and I still have no clue which state in America I will be living in for ten months… If you were in my place.. what would you do? Remember, ur leaving ur culture and ur home and family and school and friends … and going to a whole different environment.. and once you go there.. theres no coming back [until 10 months] Oh, and im going to tenth grade if that helps..

2007-07-22 07:47:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okay heres the story i have been with my man for like 4 years or so well since june of 2003. he was like 20 when we met and i was like 19 and now he is 24 and i am 23 okay well, we were together for like 3 months then i got preganant with my first child Erika which is 3 now... when he found out i was pregnant with the baby he decided that he was gonna cheat on me with some lil girl who was like 17 at that time when i was pregnant.... this went on for about a year or so.... he has cheated like 3 times on me it seems like we fight more and more everyday which isnt good but i love him and he says he loves me how do i know he really loves me? iono im all confused . we now have 2 babys 1 is 3 and one is 19 months... what should i do he is on hard drugs and wont get help i have offered for him 2 g2g counsling and everything what should i ddo we r strugglin with money and babysitting issued and everything i need advice!!!

2007-07-22 07:41:20 · 7 answers · asked by ♣♣♣ MiSs_hOllY♠♣♠ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this girl and I can't get her out of my head. She is so pretty and funny and perfect. I'm straight though (as in I like all guys except her). Plus this girl and my best friend like each other. I know the girl is bi because my best friend is a girl. I don't want you to tell me that I'm bi i need help in making this girl my girlfriend.

2007-07-22 07:35:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Her husband admitted to me that he cheated at least twice, he told me he will change but his wife is my best friend and I dont like keeping the secret from her. Plus they have a child and family business that would go under if they got divorced. Is it my place to tell?

2007-07-22 07:34:14 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do I need to say more? I'm 13 and I have a bf. Am I too young?

2007-07-22 07:25:49 · 23 answers · asked by heart.picklez 3 in Singles & Dating

right well i met this girl in the bar 2 weeks ago we exchanged numbers and nothing happened not a kiss nout anyway i went out with ehr again last night. i got pretty drunk and she wasent drinking because she was working today i wasent you know that drunk i meen tipsy is probably a better word. (i still had my head on my shoulders)

anyway she kissed me last night just before i left we were with other people it was only a peck on lips but u know more than a freindly peck

anyway she text me this morning really early and said she really liked me and couldent stop thinking of me and she really cared about me. i dont know what i feel for her at the moment ive only known her 2 weeks i know i like her and i jsut text her back saying i like her too and she hasent text me back that was 6 hours ago.

you dont think i hurt her feelings or anything do you i meen she opened up 2 me and i was kind of blunt in my feelings back.

please serious answers

2007-07-22 07:24:13 · 20 answers · asked by GG 1 in Singles & Dating

i really really really really really adore this gorgious guy , but he only likes me just as a mate , i really need some good love tips........i mean really really good love tips..........please please please please help me thankyou ssssssoooooooo much...x

2007-07-22 07:23:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This question is for my sister. She has just started a job and her husband does not want her to work. He thinks she should stay home and take care of their baby. He's a control freak and he has threatened to kick her to the curb (previously), which is another reason she needs a job...to save some $ just in case. Long story short, he is making it very difficult for her and trying to get her to quit by making her home life miserable (ie not letting her sleep at night and not helping with their child). Does anyone have any advice or suggestions I can pass on to her.

2007-07-22 07:23:12 · 22 answers · asked by karen s 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-22 07:23:05 · 2 answers · asked by nofear_intrepid40 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

please don't tell me to be myself or what comes to my mind please because if something was on my mind do you think i would be asking you all and being myself just won't work

2007-07-22 07:17:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-22 07:11:51 · 2 answers · asked by philip k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am stuck in the dark!! i can't think of any good songs for the weeding party to dance to!! HELP?

2007-07-22 07:08:04 · 7 answers · asked by ananda 2 in Weddings

having sex with another woman.
some one told me they think it is hot. so i just wanna hear other views.
thanks

2007-07-22 07:05:46 · 16 answers · asked by kabbala 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a college age step-daughter who lives in another state. She has always been very close to her father and me and visited frequently ( at our expense - not hers.) This last year she has visited only once, never calls, or returns our phone calls. Her excuse when we do get through to her is that she is busy. I do know it is perfectly normal for teenagers to go through a period of trying to separate from their parents and establish their own lives. However, I have raised my own college aged children and never had this problem with them. We send her a substantial amount of extra money each month to help with her expenses - even though her child support has ended. I don't mind doing this but my husband is leaning toward stopping these payments. Her behavior has made him feel like he is being treated like a "paycheck" rather than a dad. If you have ever been in a similar situation, how did you handle it?

2007-07-22 07:04:07 · 9 answers · asked by arkiemom 6 in Family

i mean im not evil, i dont hurt people as such, you see i have been a goody two shoes most of my life and up since last year my emotions have been changing, ive been so good that really none of my friends hated me and ive never had a fight or arguement with any one of them, then i did awhile back and to have her hate me and me to hate her felt so evil and sooooooooooo good and the same thing happened a couple of days ago, i mean i know its not good to lose a friend but it felt so good, i felt so evil and i want to keep my friends but parts of me didnt. i mean i know being evil is wrong but it feels so good, is feeling like this wrong

2007-07-22 07:00:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Unless you purposely set him up which ends up making you like a punk. Men don't appreciate that. Expect a flaming bag of poop at your doorstep.

2007-07-22 07:00:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Did you marry the same person over and over maybe younger or older but same person?

2007-07-22 06:59:49 · 21 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-22 06:58:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family