I am in love with a girl, while she is practical and she doesnt care a bout such things, and i think she hates men or maybe she had an unlucky former relationship actully I dont dare to ask her, she doesnt know I am even exist. this question labeled for skilled lovers.please help
2007-07-22 08:19:27 · 5 answers · asked by Iraqi guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Everyone wants to be loved; she may have had a "bad" experience but you may be the one who can get thru to her. It might not hurt to "probe" a little.... and ask her, what you consider the most important questions. You owe it to yourself, don't you? You sound like someone who has a lot of 'heart' and knows how to be sensitive to her needs. I think you need some answers.
2007-07-22 08:38:09 · answer #1 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you really want her the first step is to make yourself heard. Try make her interested. All gals like gd listeners so try and find out as much as u can and try and share and discuss interests.
When she knows you exist, keep talking untill you move up to being her friend. That way she'll trust you. Don't run with relashionships take them step by step.
So after best friends, make sure u have enough experience and had some gd and bad times together and try ask her out....nothing elaborate just plain and simple.
Well.......whe u get to that stage.......you can just go with da flow =]
Good Luck and hope its usefull!
2007-07-26 08:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should get to know her first, become her friend. personallyi would feel really awkward if a guy said he "loved" me and had hardly ever spoken to him. like the other person said u havn't got anything to lose but just take things slow and see what happens you only live once. is she don want a relationship just be her freind
2007-07-22 15:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by freefaller 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wat you got to lose i would tell her why go through life askin wat if and anyway wat you gotta lose? so wat if she says no plenty more fish in the sea and you'll soon fall in love again ive been there brother and now ive found a girl im crazy bout all cos i took chances
wish you the best of luck and let everyone know how u get on
2007-07-22 15:28:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you will have to present your self to her
2007-07-22 17:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by Julie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋