my boyfriend is really cute and all, but lately at lunch and stuff he has started pinning me to the the wall in front of his mates and opening my t-shirt buttons in front of them. i mean i dont mind him doin it just between me and him but not in front of his mates. hes really nice and all though.....he aint horrble or anything he is really sweet but he starts opening my buttons 4 some reason! why
2007-07-22 08:09:38 · 40 answers · asked by jazz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has some major issues.
He probably gets prodded by his friends to do it. He is probably the weakest (emotionally) friend of the group. They ask him to do it and he has too. His emotional level to his friends is more important to him, then your emotional level when he does it. This should be a huge sign.
He likes their needs more then your needs and he wants to show them how much he can control you. You need to be strong and say to him you F******CKING DO THAT AGAIN... IM GONE. Mean it.
2007-07-22 08:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by financing_loans 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with everyone else; that he is just trying to show off in front of his buddies. He most likely wants to show them the power he has over you; to see how far he can go before you do anything. Hormones also probably have a lot to do with it. If it really bothers you though, I know it would bother me... you should tell him that straight out: Stop doing that because it makes me feel uncomfortable and it's really disrespectful to make such a scene.
2007-07-22 08:16:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The possibilities are endless. He could be putting on a show for them or trying to make them jealous. Maybe he said he could do that and she wont complain and they said...lets see! I could go on and on with reasons. Do these friends have their own GF's? Its some sort of silly game I would guess. If it bothers you. Which I think it does or is starting to. I would tell him to chill out on the strip tease show in front of others and leave that for private times. If he isn't okay with that I would begin to wonder.
2007-07-22 08:18:50 · answer #3 · answered by Smarty Pants™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is either his way of flirting in public or he's just trying to show his buddies what he can get away with. He might be sweet, but if he's doing stuff like that in front of his friends, he's also a horny punk who's not worth your time.
2007-07-22 08:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by Josiah S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is totally disrespectful. You need to tell him off but good. He is not nice at all. You need to open your eyes and see that he is acting in an aggressive sexual way in front of his friends. No one has the right to humiliate you like that. Grow a backbone and stand up for yourself.
2007-07-22 08:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
apparently he wants to go to the next step with u if u havnt already and hes just showing off for his boyg dont let him stand ur ground he should NOT be opening ur shirt in front of his friends
2007-07-22 08:14:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does that not feel really degrading?
He's just showing off for his friends
Have some dignity and show you are not an object for your boyfriend to show off with his friends
Because you are strong and independant and don't want to be objectified
He doesn't see you as a person, he sees you as property
2007-07-22 08:42:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's not respecting you!!!, he wants to show off in front of his buddy's and thats not right. You have to put a stop to that or this will get out of hand. I suggest you do something about it asap.
2007-07-22 08:14:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's showing off. But next time, try some revenge! Maybe take off his pants so he's left in his undies? seriously though, ya gotta tell him to stop! I really don't know much more, cuz I'm a guy myself... Just tell him to stop... If he's as great as he sounds, he'll listen to you. Sorry I can't be more help!
2007-07-22 09:13:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yer hes trying to be dominant over you and his friends maybe even showing off im a guy thats a reason id do it i guess but i havnt b4
2007-07-22 08:13:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋