Family & Relationships - 22 July 2007

I admit I was snooping because I saw a prescription drug in her bag, when she was away I looked at it and it is for people who are bi polar or epileptic. I am not sure what to do because I love my brother and I want him to be happy. This is his 2nd engagement he broke the last one off because the chick was manic depressant and he didn't want to deal with that for life, isn't that the same thing as bipolar only isn't it worse to be bipoar? I am worried about my brother and any future children.... I'm not sure if I should mention this to him, he may already know.... I don't want to cause a bad beginning for my relationship with her since she will be my sister in law, can you tell me about bipolar if you know about it please. I looked the drug up on line thats how I know what it is.
Thanks

2007-07-22 20:31:19 · 11 answers · asked by DANIELLE A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend is my age, 15... her boyfriend's 16, they aren't that far apart in age, they share classes and stuff...
She told me that recently they were making out and his hands slid up her shirt and touched her bra, feeling her breasts without going under the bra or anything.
Do you think this is too soon for her, is she too young? She's fine with it, but I'm not sure.

2007-07-22 20:31:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey i am a 17 yr old girl. i am not attracted to boys my age though. i feel they are immature. and a lot of them, cocky, mean, cold, etc. i feel a little guilty because i am attracted more to guys in their 20s or 30s. =( i feel growing up with this generation of guys my age i will have a hard time finding a husband. i feel many guys my age are too shallow and its really unattractive? anyone else feel this? am i wrong?

2007-07-22 20:30:38 · 11 answers · asked by womanly222 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you like the slow, deep kisses... the crazily hormonal passionate ones, the teasing, barely touching ones...
I want to hear about all your best kiss experiences and why they were so amazing, so I can know more of what to do with my boyfriend. :)

2007-07-22 20:29:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I point out things (like gambling) and tell him he needs to own up to his responsibilites and be a man, (which means paying bills) and he gets mad and throws me around, choking me, throwing me agianst walls, almost hitting my face but restraining himself, he is beating me up with out hitting me. I dont know what to do. I am so hurt, and I know everyone will say leave him but I love him and I want to find a way to help him if I can, if I cant I will leave, I dont have a choice right ?

2007-07-22 20:24:57 · 32 answers · asked by thea 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is 10 years older than me - and has his own 3 bedroom house which he has lived in for a long time. We're discussing moving in together and I'm slightly worried it would not be a good idea to move into his as he's so established there it would never feel like my house. I did suggest we got somewhere new together and he seemed reluctant. We've been together over 3 years, and I'm sick off living out of my handbag all the time, as I seem to spend all of my time round his - I do own my own 1 bedroom flat, which is about 20 mins away, but he seldom stays at mine. I worry if I make him move out of his house and somewhere new he would not be happy and be resentful of it, but on the over hand I feel moving into his house may be a mistake as he is so used to living there alone and it's very much his bachelor pad. Not sure what the best step forward is....

2007-07-22 20:24:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i see him all the time at futsal and we went to australia 2gether 4 a futsal tournement and we always wer 2gether there and he was sitting on my lap and stuff while we were there. i also txt him alot and i think he likes me a bit, its just im 15 and hes only 12. i really really like him and have 4 6 months, i want to be good friends with him coz if i kissed him or anything that would be wrong ryt????

also how to i ask him if he wants 2 hang out as friends all the time or should i not do that either??? :( thanx

2007-07-22 20:21:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do all men flirt with all women? Or just the ones they like?

2007-07-22 20:18:42 · 15 answers · asked by mewant2know 1 in Singles & Dating

answer my question please

2007-07-22 20:13:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been with this girl for 3 1/2 year and about 3 month ago she told me she wants some me time and thinks we got 2 serious 2 fast so we went on a break for 2 week which broke my heart, so i told her i carnt live like this so i told her to do her thinking in her own time and il get on with my own life till she decides what she wants to do. so far we havnt got back together but we see each other all the time i take her out for lunch and for long drives, drinks in out town centre and so on but recently she has been txting me and saying things like "i carnt wait till we go out again" or "im really looking forward to the meal tommorow" this is leading me to belive she still has feelings for me and that she is thinking about me and her getting back? am i reading 2 much into it? any advice on how to play it or how to get hr back will be taken on board
cheers.

2007-07-22 20:13:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-22 20:12:43 · 10 answers · asked by Mario C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Who is wearing what Today?? Clothes and Innerwear....Colors and Stuff....Tell me Fast

I am Wearing Cotton Blue T-Shirt, Denim Jeans, and Red/Black Nylon under wear

2007-07-22 20:11:19 · 9 answers · asked by Swami Logicanand ji Mahraj 3 in Singles & Dating

well his bday is soon and i dunno what to get him, so i really was looking for gift ideas..he will be 17 and u kno how hard guys are to shop for.

2007-07-22 20:07:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister came home tonight and I asked what she had been doing with her friend. And she told me not to tell our parents, I promised. Then she told me that she broke into a locked up school playground (breaking and entering is illegal) and that she had told my parents she was somewhere other than where she was (lying to our parents) and that she smoked a puff from a cigarette. She's 17...almost old enough to be locked up for things like this. She's been arrested before for stealing. And she still steals (from me...I dont see why. im 13; what do I have that she wants?) should I tell my parents about this??? I dont want to be on her bad side because she gets physical and screams and has chased me out of the house before.....should I still tell my parents??? (And no, my parents wont do anything to protect me if she gets physical. they havent cared in the past.)

2007-07-22 20:05:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I feel like I want to just hide from everyone, from all my friends and everyone.

I feel like I want to delete my Facebook account and make people wonder what's wrong with me. I feel like noone ever likes paying attention to me, cuz noone ever does.

I try to talk and noone ever listens, I post notes or blogs and noone ever replies to them. I have a huge group of friends though.

What's wrong with me?

2007-07-22 19:57:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I met an Italian man online. I felt so connected, and attracted to him. We ended badly, and mostly on my end. I said some horrible things. I haven't met anyone that affected me like he has. It's been months, and we have had no contact. What would you do?

2007-07-22 19:55:44 · 7 answers · asked by Cherisse 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this wonderful guy and i hadn't planned to fall for him but i did but kno i have a dilemma. We live in two different countries. I live in the Bahamas and He lives in USA[Georgia]...and i really like him and i can see him like every summer and christmas and next year we have plans on going to the same college. So does it make sense to endure this tortue now for our rewards later or just try to put him behind me?? HELP!!!

2007-07-22 19:53:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-22 19:51:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ive been with a guy a couple of times.... i dont know why i stayed at all... he told me all the time that he didnt care about me... acted like he didnt... talked about my friends in ways to purposly make me jelous... he blamed me aparently not being good looking enought for his problems preforming... he broke down my self esteem daily... i know hes an asshole... but im really upset now that he wont talk to me... i miss him... is that bad? does that make me pathetic.. or sick? how am i supposed to get over him??

2007-07-22 19:47:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wanted to know in WA how old you have to be to decide where you want to live. Becuase My mother does drugs andd my step dad is abusive. but my father says he has no idea about the laws and does not want to get in trouble by letting me not see here. Please help me i really have no idea what to do. but i really dont want to be in the kind of atmosphere.

2007-07-22 19:47:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my dad has a girlfriend and her son is really awesome. hes cute, smart, funny and just a great guy. the problem is that since our parents are dating, i am afraid to do nething about it bcuz i dont wanna make things weird. what shud i do?!?!?!?!?

2007-07-22 19:45:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ask me answer my question plz. im wait hardly

2007-07-22 19:40:11 · 5 answers · asked by farooq 1 in Marriage & Divorce

yupp...just share it with the world...he/she doesnt have 2 b famous or anything...i personally think cristiano ronaldo (portuguese footballer) and gaspard ulliel (french actor) are pretty hot right now!!! ; D

2007-07-22 19:38:56 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK I have a really weird situation here.

My uncle wants some porn and he wants me to buy it for him. (So his wife and others do not find out about it). He pulled me aside the other day and told me what he wanted and told me to pay for it and that he would pay me back.

Obviously, this is not something I am very comfortable with. I do not view porn although I do not mind if others do as long as it is done in a private manner. AND there are no minors involved!

What now?

2007-07-22 19:38:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Throughout the course of our 3 year marriage, my ex left me three times. Now, one year after the divorce he is emailing me and calling me and seems to want to be friends. Why?

2007-07-22 19:37:23 · 14 answers · asked by adodd8 2 in Marriage & Divorce

lMy mother has always been telling me I'm going to be something really great in life (like history changing-wise).

I'ts really annoying me. So far my life has been the mundane-boring-thank-god-I'm-still-alive type life. Everything has been just barely above average but yet basically average. I've done well in school, but not THAT well, I get A's and B's and 2 or 3 C's. I have a large group of friends, but I'm no way near popular and sometimes I feel like an outcast.

I'm just one of those types that some people think are really cool, but noone else thinks too much about.

So the point is how annoying it is for my momma telling me to only focus on school and I'll be something great, and it just makes me wanna do average in school and become a house wife just to prove to her what she is saying is just craziness that any parent might say of their child. I really don't have the kind of motivation someone would need to be great, I just feel like surviving is enough. What should I do?

2007-07-22 19:36:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Before he left 4 America, even the thought of living in a house without my husband used to make me cry for hours. I was worried all the time, imagining he'd come to harm and i'll never see him again once we parted, and having nightsmares (for a person who hardly dreams for months). But now that i'm alone, i have to "try" to remember that he lived in that house. I am depressed about my life, as always, but it doesn't have anything to do with the fact that my husband isn't here. I try to feel sad, & hollow & all that, because i feel i owe it to him/our marriage. But i really don't. It's confusing b/c I love my husband & i had the most wonderful 8 months with him, well.. most of it anyway :). He's definitely the kind of person who makes his absence known, especially for me whom he used to be there for & take care off like nobody ever did. However, i feel really fine about living alone and i wasn't like that before. Does this mean i've become bitter or that i don't love my husband at all??

2007-07-22 19:35:42 · 2 answers · asked by Lola 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I lost my love forever.She got (arranged) married to another man.But she says she still loves me.She says there is no happy with him and there is no feel with him.But she want to adjust with him.Somedays ago she told he is everything to me.I understand her feelings.But im very depressed by her marriage she is no more to me.But she is not feeling the pain as i was.She is not crying also.But im crying a lot and im feeling the pain.How to overcome this situation.Plzz helppp.

2007-07-22 19:33:39 · 14 answers · asked by Believe in yourself 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-22 19:30:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what type of personality, hobbies, you know anything that gets you :)

Tell me anything :)

to anybody who is rude, I'll report you right away.

2007-07-22 19:26:51 · 14 answers · asked by ^__^ 2 in Singles & Dating