I met an Italian man online. I felt so connected, and attracted to him. We ended badly, and mostly on my end. I said some horrible things. I haven't met anyone that affected me like he has. It's been months, and we have had no contact. What would you do?
2007-07-22 19:55:44 · 7 answers · asked by Cherisse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget about him and... even if its from a far away country... I don't recomend you to have online relationships. It's not healthy.
2007-07-22 20:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by yari 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn from the mistakes and move on.
You state it has been months without any contact. I would
assume that he has moved on and it is time for you to do the
same.
There are many other men out there, and perhaps the next
relationship will work out far better.
If you find it difficult to move on, seek counseling to work out
whatever issues are holding you back.
Look at the errors you feel you made and try to understand
why they occurred and how you can prevent the same thing
from happening again---next great man who comes along, with whom you feel strong attraction--hopefully you will be
a better woman for what you've been through and it will
turn out beautifully!
Blessings to you.
Doris
WithWingsofAngels@comcast.net
2007-07-23 03:03:32 · answer #2 · answered by Doris L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the two of you ever meet? If it was only an "internet" relationship I would say it really wasn't a relationship. Are you sure he wasn't already taken and maybe playing with you? Well, if you really want him...try contacting him and telling him what you feel about him. Apologize and ask if you can start by scratch. I don't know if this will help though. He might already have another girl in his life.
I live in Italy.
2007-07-23 06:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by Mari76 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would honestly leave the entire situation alone. Relationships are 50/50 and if he is not worried about contacting you or keeping in touch then you should not either.
As far as getting over him keep yourself occupied and just don't allow yourself a moment's time to just sit and think about anything. Because more than likely your mind will drift to him each time because you are not completely over him. Give yourself time the feelings will be gone sooner than you think.
Good Luck!
Charlie
2007-07-23 03:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. If he really cared for you, he would have tried to resolve the problem instead of avoiding it.
2007-07-23 03:00:41 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should forget about him, you had him and lost him
he might be happy now or not, but obviously has moved on or else he would have called/I'm you
furthermore you would be acting selfishly on your part
2007-07-23 03:00:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he had the same feeling like you did, sure he would contact you, maybe he is attached, there is this possibility right?
2007-07-23 03:01:34 · answer #7 · answered by ~outside the circle~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋