2007-07-22 19:51:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If she cheated on you and got pregnant and it bothers you then why did you marry her?
2007-07-22 19:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yarrrr....you need to grow up dude. You made your decisions, now find a way to deal with it, and to get over yourself. How weird, you want to feel hurt like about 2 years after an event? I don't think you're for real, more like you're looking for an excuse to pay her back in some way.
You owe her dude, you married her and her little girl...just grow up, is all I can say, before you hurt others worse than the alleged pain of your unreasonable hurt feelings.
Did you know, by law, you could be divorced for being unreasonable, which is what I think you are being? Also, in your case, you could be cited for entrapment, knowing full well you would not accept her child and still marrying her?
This is quite serious stuff you're musing about. Seems you have some serious choices to make then.
2007-07-23 03:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by justaguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can give you the best answer, im sure you wanted the child your girlfriend or future wife was carrying to be yours. Its hard it must be hard to know the child isnt yours and worse she cheated and their is a product, a child, a reminder of that indiscretion that act of infidelity. The child isnt yours, i do hope you treat her like she is. Noone can tell you what to do or feel or what to feel you just have to give it time and weigh out your options,express to her that you are hurt, talk about it, if necessary take a lil break from eachother and think it out
2007-07-23 03:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wasn't married to you then, so hadn't promised fidelity to you at the time. And you knew about this beforehand, so went into the marriage with your eyes open. Try to put the hurt behind you, after all she married you, not the other fella.
2007-07-23 03:15:45 · answer #4 · answered by dweebken 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a whole differnt ball game. If you love her, work things out. She hasn't cheated on you after the marriage right. And if she does it again, leave her. Don't take carry the extra baggage when it's not yours.
2007-07-23 03:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by Zion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry the girl when she grows up.
2007-07-23 12:10:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you plan on staying with her you need to get over it.
You knew she cheated on you before you chose to marry her.
2007-07-23 02:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by Ericka 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying that she got pregnant with another man's baby and you married her anyway? Its up to you from here.
2007-07-23 02:57:29 · answer #8 · answered by StormyC 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude you put yourself into that problem. Why in the world did you marry her?
2007-07-23 02:59:35 · answer #9 · answered by likewhoa88 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it was before you married then she didn't cheat..
2007-07-23 02:59:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋