Before he left 4 America, even the thought of living in a house without my husband used to make me cry for hours. I was worried all the time, imagining he'd come to harm and i'll never see him again once we parted, and having nightsmares (for a person who hardly dreams for months). But now that i'm alone, i have to "try" to remember that he lived in that house. I am depressed about my life, as always, but it doesn't have anything to do with the fact that my husband isn't here. I try to feel sad, & hollow & all that, because i feel i owe it to him/our marriage. But i really don't. It's confusing b/c I love my husband & i had the most wonderful 8 months with him, well.. most of it anyway :). He's definitely the kind of person who makes his absence known, especially for me whom he used to be there for & take care off like nobody ever did. However, i feel really fine about living alone and i wasn't like that before. Does this mean i've become bitter or that i don't love my husband at all??
2007-07-22 19:35:42 · 2 answers · asked by Lola 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nothing is wrong with you at all.
You just show great maturity.
You are independent and since you had no choice on your Husband leaving. You had no choice but to be strong.
I don't think he would have wanted you to be sad while he is gone. Don't feel bad for how you feel.
You didn't mention how long he will be gone?
Or why he came to America in the first place.
I guess that doesn't matter.
Just keep on being strong.
~faith
2007-07-22 21:37:22 · answer #1 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No, it means you made the RIGHT choice...Good luck and enjoy life...
2007-07-23 04:57:31 · answer #2 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋