My friend is my age, 15... her boyfriend's 16, they aren't that far apart in age, they share classes and stuff...
She told me that recently they were making out and his hands slid up her shirt and touched her bra, feeling her breasts without going under the bra or anything.
Do you think this is too soon for her, is she too young? She's fine with it, but I'm not sure.
2007-07-22 20:31:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not going to stop her or anything, I just wanted outside opinion from older people without actually asking my parents or something.
2007-07-22 20:36:19 · update #1
I'm not her 'keeper', that's ridiculous, I just wanted to see if my opinion was reasonable or not.
I'm not going to do anything to try and stop her unless she ends up nearly pregnant or something.
And don't you dare tell me to 'get a boyfriend myself', that's not even relevant. I'm just slightly concerned for my friend's safety, is that a problem?
2007-07-22 20:38:41 · update #2
Lol, she's lucky to have a friend like you, to look after her. But, yes it is okay for him to do that, she isn't too young, but if gets more serious like hes pushing her into having sex, then yes she is way too young. It's good you care for her, but I think she's doin good so far, don't you? ;)
BNO
2007-07-22 20:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by hellooooo 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think so. At that age, it is so easy to lose control. before you know it one thing will lead to another and then you end up regretting what you have done. Although it is really none of your business, I think as a friend you should tell her how you feel, since I think you are only after her own safety. How she would take it is another thing altogether.
2007-07-23 03:36:49 · answer #2 · answered by jayp 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant make her not do it. Just advise her and keep her trust so she keeps telling you whats going on.
But 15 is young to start doing that type of stuff. She's still better than alot others in her age group. Make sure peer pressure doesn't get to her.
2007-07-23 03:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by rollaracergts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hie Ashley. Well to me it is better for you to stop at it once because if this continue doing it and it will end of her to be pregnant, so the good part is better to stop at once, because she too young to do it and at this particular age if she is pregnant is the guy dare to take care of her and when she is a mom and the child is born then for sure the child will be asking the girl where is dad, and if she goes to aboshen it then she will be facing a lot of problem if whereby she can't really go out and for sure her friends too will make fun of her and she will be in deep deprest and from there for sure she will feel bad of herself and she can also lead her to doing something bad to herself that is comuniting suicide and when it is just a waste of life and she can also lead it to take drugs and other stuff, so it is better for you to stop it at once and for all. Try this and hope it might help you..................................
ALL THE BEST...........................
2007-07-23 04:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I had a rule when I was her age. "Nothing below the belt before 16". As her breasts are above the belt it comes down to personal preference. What is too much for you, might be appropriate for her.
2007-07-23 03:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You`re worrying about your friend`s boyfriend touching her breasts? What are you, her keeper?
What`s bad in it if she`s fine with it? That`s how it all starts you know. Try finding a boyfriend yourself.
2007-07-23 03:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by Suitengu 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
teens do more than touch breasts now a days everyone has gone sex crazy. it is all a matter of opinion
2007-07-23 03:40:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
im going to try to put this niceley....
dont get into it unless shes asks
2007-07-23 03:35:14 · answer #8 · answered by Matt L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to far at that age . in my opion?
2007-07-23 03:35:26 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iTS HER LiFE DON'T WORRY ABOUT iT....GUYS ONLY GO AS FAR AS GiRLS LET THEM.. JUST TELL HER TO SET HER LiMiTS...&& NO THATS NOT TO BAD... i MEAN SHE LET HiM RiGHT...@ LEAST THEY AREN'T HAViNG SEX
2007-07-23 03:37:09 · answer #10 · answered by Confused_chick_77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋