I met this wonderful guy and i hadn't planned to fall for him but i did but kno i have a dilemma. We live in two different countries. I live in the Bahamas and He lives in USA[Georgia]...and i really like him and i can see him like every summer and christmas and next year we have plans on going to the same college. So does it make sense to endure this tortue now for our rewards later or just try to put him behind me?? HELP!!!
2007-07-22 19:53:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes i really like him. I make calls to him every night and we talk for hours and hours and we jell so wonderfully! he is all ever wanted....and i really cant see myself letting him go under no circumstance
2007-07-22 20:07:26 · update #1
Make sure you're not the only one traveling to see him. If a guy really wants you - he will come to you. Hold off until he does. If he doesn't, then its not in the cards, but if he does, cherish him.
I did and we enjoyed several years of happiness until we moved together. We've been broken up for months now. My wish is that this will not be in your future as the pain never goes away after someone like the guy you speak about.
So, hold off until he comes to you. Until then, enjoy all the love he showers over you.
Good Luck!
2007-07-30 17:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by imnokitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol then what do you need help with? You got a great thing going for you, don't waste your time asking about if it's a good thing to fallow through with. Just wait before you know it you'll be with him everyday and think back on when you were making Kissee Kissee noises over the phone. Be patient...let him know your anxious! I really don't see this as torture for you...its more like testing how long you can wait for him.~Hope this helps!
2007-07-31 01:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by Jade_Fer_Sure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The torture you feel is only your physical desire for each other. This is something that changes much over time in a relationship. But your love for one another does not have to change. Let go of your pain, and cherish the love you share. Things will turn out fine. :)
2007-07-23 03:17:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ronald R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Georgia to the Bahamas is like a 1hr flight. If this is someone that you really believe you can build with than you should try
2007-07-30 19:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by cmack45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how could you put this behind you when you've fallen for him so hard? girl, i say, if you trust this guy (him being away from you) and if you really like him then wait for him. be patient. but keep in touch with him, let him know you're there. tell him how much you miss him.
on a side note, however: don't let him play you for a fool. i dont know about your relationship so i cant say much more than that, but keep a look-out.
best of luck!!
:)
2007-07-23 03:07:49 · answer #5 · answered by maya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in a relationship similar to that right now. it will only work if u really love the person. if u just like him then be friends and when he comes to visit make it all about him. just know that anything can happen when u live that far apart and it takes love to forgive.
2007-07-30 22:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships never ever work out. It takes alot of work to make a normal relationship grow and be healthy, it would take alot more than that to make that work but good luck!!!
2007-07-30 13:58:21 · answer #7 · answered by ladyluck334 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you and u love him then i suggest u wait til u both get out of college. or just hang out with him in the summer and winter.
2007-07-30 19:37:48 · answer #8 · answered by Dogdiggedydoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends really. if you really want him then go for it. at least you see each other. Love is patient so yea.
2007-07-23 02:58:25 · answer #9 · answered by Don Reyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make it work and go on
2007-07-30 22:17:49 · answer #10 · answered by Christian B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋