I like this girl alot and we are really good friends but I dont know if I should ask her out because I dont know if that would mess up our friendship
2007-07-22 04:08:43 · 9 answers · asked by kabboys 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you really like this girl you'll take risk and ask her out, rather than torturing yourself in the future with what if's question(what if i asked her out, could we be together right now?-kinda stuff?!)....
2007-07-22 04:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by ♥wildflower♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out, if you are good friends you can go out together and enjoy each other. As long as you both are honest with each other about what you expect there should be no problem. If you are looking for a "romantic" relationship and she is not, you can still have a good time with each other, as long as you respect what each wants from the relationship. The key is you will never know unless you talk to her about it, if you are really good friends you should be able to tell each other how you feel about this.
2007-07-22 11:15:51 · answer #2 · answered by Wiz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Robin Thicke's mother, Gloria Loring" had a hit that goes "So I'll be your friend; and I'll be your lover; 'cause I know in our hearts we agree [that] we don't have to be one or the other; we could be both to each other". It works for some. And by the way, relationships DO change, because WE change...can't avoid that, so in the meantime, why not find out (and quit wondering) the boundaries of your friendship.
2007-07-22 11:20:23 · answer #3 · answered by Tonya R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are quite sensitive with matters of the heart... You should go and tell her how you feel, because a true friend would not look down on and you and be indifferent just because you told her you liked her.
When we women know that men are attracted to us, definitely there's this feeling of happiness that would make us think twice on keeping you in the "Friend Zone" Tell us how you feel, because if you love us... we're more than happy to hear em! Who would not want to hear that someone wants to take us out for dinner?
There's no one in the world that does not dream on finding genuine love...
^_^
2007-07-22 11:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should be careful of what to do if you think she likes you ask her out but if you don't try not to mess up the friendship but it's your choice.
2007-07-22 11:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are scared to ask her streight do this?>
ask her out take her to restaurant or club any place...
smile when you are with her,be funny,from time to time put your hand on her hand(touch) and see how she reacts
give her gentle hug while you are walking
FEEL REACTIONS
but now you have to be strong to ask her with smile and joke >tell her>i m so close to you i feel being so happy and i m not sure what life will bring if i will ever meet a woman (girl )in my life such is yourself
it works
good luck
2007-07-22 11:20:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know and tell her if she doesnt like you like u like her it is okay. its better to be certain than to wonder what could have been.
2007-07-22 11:11:56 · answer #7 · answered by bilkmilk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st get to know if she has feelings for u to..and when she does ,go for it.
2007-07-22 11:13:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt with her and pay attention to her reactions.
2007-07-22 11:16:30 · answer #9 · answered by smiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋