Chat rooms and being married?

Question

I recently answered a question about married woman and chat rooms so i thought i was ask one..My husband and i have been happily married 16 yrs and i dont go into chat rooms anymore been months and months since i have cause i got bored with it but for about 4 or 5 yrs i chatted a lot and there was a lot of people who me if i am happily married then why chat and i would tell them cause its fun and i like it..My husband never had no problem with me chatting cause he isnt 1 of those jealous husband never has been plus he had no NOT to trust me cause i would never in a million yrs cheat on him and yea i chatted with more men then women but nothing ever sexual and if they did wanna chat like that i would stop chatting with them..I would chat in the afternoons when he was at work and would spend all evening with him and not in the chatrooms and then after he went to bed i would get online again for a while so i would spend plenty of time with him.

So why does everybody assume just cause your married and in a chat room that your looking for something..

I did ask a question..I ask why do people always assume that if your married and chatting that your looking for something?

Answer 1

because most people in chat rooms ARE looking for something...

either friendship, or more... :D

personally, i chat to people on here, much more fun... ;)

Answer 2

It's a problematic question but there's a reasonable answer that relates to Obsession. A accomplice in a dedicated relationship primarily marriage should recognize the other accomplice adequate to prevent all elements of obsessive flirting with others in a method that might jeopardize the dedicated relationship. This means that any passing flirtatious comments need to be small and in regular if in any respect and all moments where dialog leads in the direction of more disrespectful activity involving the partners real relationship will have to be consequently a lesson closer to altering his or her attitude regarding the communication and admire for the true relationship such that they remain committed so long as they wish to be that method (honesty is a virtue for the period of such classes). Nowadays the sort of finding out curve cannot be avoided as folks are growing ever more aware of the communicative ease of the web.

Answer 3

Well, I gotta tell ya, I dont like it.

My ex was in chatrooms. Turns out he was cheating, even though he said he wasnt.

Chatrooms tend to attract that element. Chatrooms, by nature just smack of secrecy.

I would avoid them, just as a courtesy.

Answer 4

Yes, there are chat rooms and discussion forums and internet groups regarding many varied interests other than sex. If others assume that sex is the only reason for internet chat, then they are proving their ignorance.

Just what is your question, anyway?

Answer 5

I think it's great that your husband trusts you, But I think anytime you chat when you are married you are opening your self up to tempation and I feel marriage is hard enough as it is. That's just my opinion.

Answer 6

because the majority of the people who do go in the chatrooms are looking for something they dont have in their marriage. if your husband isn't bothered by it than tell everyone else it isn't any of their business & dont judge you by other peoples actions cause it isn't fair.

Answer 7

maybe those people are looking for something ,so they think you are. as long as chatting does not take up your family time and as long as you are not addicted to it. that is bad.

Answer 8

They don't That was just a stupid question on their part...