my friend things im really shallow because one time we were talking about guys and i said that if i really like his personality but i dont think his cute or im not attracted to him in that way ill just like him as a friend but if i like his personality and i think hes cute then ill like him more than a friend but if he was cute and had a horrible personality then i would just not like him
and she got mad at me and said looks shouldnt matter and she got all mad and now she says she doesnt like talking to shallow people and i dont think im shallow but she does
is that bein shallow??
2007-07-22 03:10:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Actually that didn't sound shallow to me at all. Personality is more important than looks and you seem to be saying that is what the core of your "liking" a boy is all about. Looks enter into every relationship, whether you are conscious of it or not but you don't seem to be relying on that. Now THAT would be shallow. Personality will last but looks can go away.
2007-07-22 03:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by Wiz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might have been the way you said it but obviously looks are not everything but to have a true relationship you must be attracted to someone. By attracted i mean looks, personality, beliefs etc. but you do have to be attracted to someone physically!
2007-07-22 03:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teens and pre-teens go through this all the time. Yes it's shallow but we do it all the time.
2007-07-22 03:16:23 · answer #3 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks do come into it! you have to find someone attractive! if not what is the point of it all!
2007-07-22 03:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by Little Minx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋