do u think that is his way controling me please answer me?

Question

Ok my b-day was two days ago, my bf is not in town so he calls me the day of my b-day and said happy-b-day and we talked on the phone for a awhile we talk on the phone like 3 times a day or more all the time. Anyway on my b-day night my gf took me out to eat so that night he called me like 4 times but I didn’t see it until I got home and it was too late when I got home so I said I will call him tomorrow so the next day he calls me early and said why didn’t call me and I said I am sorry I didn’t see it I was going to call u blh blh.. he got so angry with me and he said that he doesn’t know what I was doing, when I do stuff like that the ONLY THEING HE CAN GET AT ME IS BY CHEATING ON ME!! that is what he said I mean DON’T U THINK HE IS CONTROLING?? AND he said don’t do it again when I call u u have to answer ur phone and I said ok I am sorry bye I will talk to u later because I had to go to work so I called him to talk to him form work he was still mad at me. and he said that I couldn’t answer my phone in front of my girls is because I am a follower and all that crazy stuff. And he said please don’t call me I will call u and I said ok so last night I called him he didn’t answer me. I don’t know how to react to this kind of situation. Please help me

Answer 1

I'd be a bit nervous and thinking that this is a sign of the end. If he says that you have to answer when he calls.. that's a bit unreasonable at times, especially if you decide to go to the movies with your girlfriends. It can be understandable if he's a bit grumpy that he couldn't get through to you on your birthday but I think he's taking a bit too far.

And what's this about you not calling him but you have to pick up when he calls? Sounds like he might be cheating on you. One way street?

Answer 2

Here is how you react to this situation...You dump that LOSER like a hot potato, and don't answer any of his phone calls, ever. And if he continues to call or follow you, call the police. Get as far away from this nut as fast as you can.

Answer 3

yes it is very controlling. he sounds a little insecure, and a lot jealous. the part where he says he has to cheat to get back at you sounds like he is doing it anyway. move on

Answer 4

Not only is he controlling, but he's crazy to boot. Please take this as a sign and tell him goodbye. I'm serious. This will escalate to violence, I guarantee it.