To Flirt or not to Flirt! Does flirting on here make you feel quilty?

Question

Most on here are married or have a significant other. Do you feel guilty flirting on here? Do you wonder how your spouse would feel if they got to read your answers or conversations?

Answer 1

Perhaps I've made errors in judgement on what I should or shouldn't say on here, but I dont' feel guilty. If my significant other were to discover my Yahoo! Answers activity, I doubt she'd look at me any differently than she does now.

Answer 2

i flirt all the time and i've been married 6 years, if i didnt flirt i think my husband would wonder whats wrong with me. Keeps my personality going, and yes i know there are other ways of doing that. Its totally harmless, i'm not about to do anything, i've already been down that road and i know what it feels like for him to leave. We've already discussd my flirting and he knows he can trust me now, i couldnt look him in the eye if i did soemthing again. the kind of flirting i do is and always will be harmless. i throw out a comment or two, get one back smile laugh and walk on. the guys at work think im fun to be around and they all have families too. They might screw around but i wont give the chance at my husband leaving again. That put the Fear of God into me to say the VERY least.

Answer 3

Flirting is natural for the unattached person. If it continues, the relationship is in trouble because the other person puts his/her own needs for self approval ahead of the relationship.

Flirt back in front of it big time then say to your partner "See I can have him/her but I choose to be with you. How do you like it now? You try it again I am gone. Get counseling and take the chance that I might be around when you get out of your sessions but do NOT hold your breath!"

Answer 4

i dont flirt on here, and would not feel guilty. i do not like it when other users hit on you though. i had a message from some guy that was trying to talk to girls and my husband saw it (and of course, it doesnt show my response to the guy) and he got all mad. lol i told the guy i was happily married and had no interest in him. dont know why people think this is a dating service

Answer 5

I don't consider most of the sexual innuendos which occur on this site to be flirting...Flirting requires more class than that.

I wouldn't feel guilty about flirting with someone online as long as it was harmless flirting.

Answer 6

Hmmm Wouldn't feel guilty if my husband saw anything I might though, if I said something flirtatious and my boyfriend read it. So I choose not to flirt.

Answer 7

I don't believe most on here are married. I doubt your accuracy on that. Regardless. if someone wants to flirt here and they are married they should feel guilty. Married people need to take a look at their relationship and try to maintain it's sanctity. Otherwise, they can just look forward to a long and drawn out divorce and another ex in their life.

Answer 8

huh? you must be mistaken - this is a site where people ask questions about life as well as offer honest, helpful advice.

why should married people feel guilty about asking questions and offering advice? LOL - you have no idea of what's going on

Answer 9

I do not flirt on here. In general, I don't do things I need to hide. But, if you are the flirting type, I don't think it is such a big deal as long as it stops here.

Answer 10

I don't flirt and no, I don't care if he reads my answers, he would know what I'm talking about anyway.