2007-07-22 11:24:11 · 11 answers · asked by Sandi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop the presses. Hold it right there. DO NOT - I repeat - DO NOT ever try to get a man to admit he loves you. Wrong thing to do. No matter how much you might feel in your gut that you know he loves you, pressuring him in any way, shape or form, to tell you he loves you is only going to make him feel pressured and will likely scare him away.
If he truly, truly loves you, even if it takes him what seems like an eternity, he will tell you so, WHEN he is ready. If he is taking too long to tell you and you feel that you are putting your life on hold for this man without knowing where you stand with him, then by all means, ask him to let you know how he feels about you and where you stand because you have certain things that you want out of life and you want to know if you should move on or stay put. Make sure you are honest with him, but don't try to pressure him into telling you he loves you.
My husband loved me from the beginning. I knew it and he knew it. He came close to telling me many times and even got to the point of telling me "I'm falling for you, but I can't say anything more right now because I'm not ready". I knew that he had a bad relationship with his first wife and knew that he was hesitant to say he loved me because with those words, are the implication of a future life together which he wasn't quite ready to deal with yet. When he DID finally tell me he loved me, it was wonderful. I still remember how he told me and how special that was.
Just as you can't make someone love you, you also can't make some admit they love you. If you succeed in doing one of those, you likely will only be succeeding in getting someone to do what you want them to do. Wouldn't it be far more special to hear a man tell you he loves you because it's what HE wants to do and is ready to do, instead of because you somehow convinced him it was the right thing to do?
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2016-05-19 18:30:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't.
If he loves you, he will tell you so. When he feels the time is right. Don't try to manipulate the words out of him or anybody.
If you manipulate him into saying a phrase that truly carries so much weight... You will never know if he said it just because he felt obligated to say it, or said it because you pressured him to do it so much that he did so just to shut you up.
When and if he says those magic words of his own volition... You will then know that he truly means it. So do yourself a favour and don't spoil the magic of hearing him say it with heart and meaning!
2007-07-22 11:35:22 · answer #4 · answered by ✿Donna❀ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you, he will tell you, if he doesn't tell you, nothing you can do will make him say it before he's ready. You say "admit" and it makes me wonder if you have asked him if he loves you and he gave you an answer you didn't want to hear.
2007-07-22 11:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by C J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its always a great sign in a relationship when you need to manipulate your partner into telling you their feelings! You can't get anyone to admit(!) that they love you.
If he loves you he will tell you in his own time.
2007-07-22 11:27:38 · answer #6 · answered by Morley 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Better brace yourself for the possibility that there could be a really logical reason for him not to admit it-- as in, he doesn't.
2007-07-22 11:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by palan57 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You don't.You wait until he's ready & has admitted it to himself otherwise how are you gonna know if he's being genuine?
2007-07-22 11:28:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's in his touch &kindness.If he a brut & treats you mean he dosen't
2007-07-22 11:28:01 · answer #9 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will admit that he loves you by marrying you.
2007-07-22 11:27:30 · answer #10 · answered by @NGEL B@BY 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋