so he was having some trouble at home & needed a place to crash for the night. he asked if he could crash at my place but i told him he couldnt cuz my parents would flip. so i told my best friend about his situation but i didn't think she'd invite him to stay at her place. so that night he called & said he was spending the night at his friend's apartment. so then my best friend went to go visit him & his friend. then when she was there she told him that he could crash at her place and he agreed. but he called me to ask if it would be fine with me if i let him crash at her house. i had a bad feeling at the start but i let him anyways. then later that night while he was already at her house i started thinking that it was really suspicious to me that she would immediatly offer him to crash at her place. long story short i find out a week later that he & my best friend got drunk that night and did some stuff together...he cheated on me with my best friend. wat do i do about my best friend?
2007-07-22 21:26:51 · 17 answers · asked by chocolateT 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how can u call her a best friend....just leave them both and remember that u cant have a really good friend in this world...this world is fake...friendship is fake today...every body loves him self only.. don't try to be innocent in this world..just forget them n try to make your friend and boy friend how much you were hurt by them..let them enjoy ...you know this world is round and one day they will suffer what u suffered
2007-07-22 21:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
"Some stuff"? Age is a huge factor here. Booze another. You have two options: 1.) Either she's your best friend and you'll be cussing at her 30-40 years from now about the time she got schnockered and $%%@@$@ "what's-his-name?" OR 2.) You move on. Adolescence is a very "dramatic" time. Everything is ssssooooo heartfelt and soooo intense. You'll find you can barely count the number of real tight friends u have just 5 years outta High school. All those dazed and confused and dramatic and schnockered times are a very distant "blip" on the radar.- in essence..F'em both. Once a ho' always a 'ho! Oh yeah, Trust you're judgement in the future. Don't be naive. 5'll getcha' 10 that this mighta been orchestrated right in fronta U.
2007-07-22 21:44:36 · answer #2 · answered by SwtDckWlly 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well your best friend did you a favor she found out he is a cheater i dont care how drunk you get if this guy was in love with you it would have never happened he would have told your friend that he wasnt interested and he would have left or 2 that subject would have never came up at all. Your friend also has to pay a price to and that is called trust you need to confront her and tell her how you feel and that if your relationship is continue you wont beable to trust her ever again with any of your Boyfriends
2007-07-22 21:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by rick k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh, I'm sorry :(
I think you need to get away from her, if she could do that to you.
If she seems genuinely sorry, listen to her story. If you can forgive her, maybe you should eventually.
But don't forgive her automatically, or any time soon. She has to know that what she did was absolutely horrible.
Feel free to yell and scream at her, if you want. That was like the ultimate betrayal.
2007-07-22 21:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much for me to read but great, just dump him. Cheating is one thing with your best friend , is another. You would never feel comfortable with around your mates and it just is not worth the stress.How much does he care for you to do this. It is simple dump asap.
2007-07-22 21:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump them both. if she were really your friend she would not have done that you in the first place. you dont need people like that in your life that are going to hurt you.
2007-07-22 21:30:46 · answer #6 · answered by Lil Mami so Fly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is dump them both...You would never trust this friend ever again...I'm glad you dumped the bf, very smart move on your part....Thumbs up!!!!
2007-07-22 22:06:30 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does take two to tango. It isn't just the guys fault. Either join them or cut them lose, those are the choices before you.
2007-07-22 22:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by duaneb_59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u sure they did stuff? confirm it first.
if it's true, dump both of them, but u must admit it was happened cause u allow it to. never let any girl replace u for any reason
2007-07-22 21:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by ordinary1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of them both obviously he doesn't see you for what you're worth which is a lot more then what he thinks, and a true best friend wouldn't do that to you
2007-07-22 21:35:02 · answer #10 · answered by Love_4_eva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋