is it possible that men's jealousy is away to show us their love?

Question

my boy friend and i have a special relationship, i can see the way he's looking at me, it's full of love and passion, and so do i, the only problem that we're facing is his jealousy, it drives me crasy, he tells me sometimes that the reason behind his jealousy is the fact that every time we're together with my friends he just can't let go their looks to me , and he always says to me that he doesn't trust them or any other guy i meet,so is it me that can't regonize men's intention or it's just his blind jealousy?

Answer 1

I think a slight jealously is perfectly normal, but he seems a bit overboard - that's a problem a lot of guys have.
You have to tell him to trust YOU. Which I know he must.
Remind him that, yeah, there might be some guys that will look at you with bad intentions, but you won't give in to them or anything, so nothing can happen.
Tell him you understand if maybe he doesn't trust the guys that look at you that way, but he has to trust you, you're half of it.

Answer 2

I see your point. It is impossible to just switch from love to hate, even when you hear that your loved one did something horrific to you. You're not alone. It would be so much easier of we could hate everyone who wrongs us, but it's never that simple. To some it might take a lot more work than others, but you can move on without hating him. Why hate? It's not worth your time. I mean, you can just keep on ignoring him as best you can..but that's not going to make you hate him anymore. It's understandable that you miss the companionship. Who wouldn't? But you just have to know deep down in your heart that you WILL find someone else who will make you feel protected again. Hang in there!

Answer 3

Some jealousy is normal for people. If other guys flirted with you, tried to get close to you or blatantly hit on you and your boyfriend got a little jealous, it would be normal.

If you have common friends that you hung out with and your boyfriend went crazy just because they admit you're attractive... that's not a good sign.

Answer 4

theres many different reasons for jealousy. but i know for sure that over jealousy can break relationships (happened to me -__- )

he could be jealous because hes insecure and he doesnt want to lose you. since girls can get boyfriends better than guys can get girlfriends, hes probably just afraid that you might find someone else and dump him. there are a lot of cocky jerks out that that steals girls away from other guys. or it could be that your boyfriend is a jerk, and wants to keep you all to himself. you'll lose friends this way, when he takes you out a lot and you never get to see your friends. but yeah, short answer is, hes insecure.

Answer 5

Speaking as a guy I dont trust anyone who is Jealous because the only reason he is jealous is because he is either doing something he should nt or he is thinking about it.

Also Women can also be Jealous its not just men.

Answer 6

Whoah! A selfish one, huh?

Hey, don't you get soffucated?

So you said it yourself, he tells you the reason of why he gets jealous..

Anyway, his jealousy, in reality, can only tell two things:

1.) He really does love you.

or

2.) It's his way of getting you both into fight and well, an easy way to say, "That's it. I quit."

Answer 7

No, men's jealousy is a way to show you that you are a possession to him and not an equal partner.

Answer 8

I D0NT THiNK iTS G00D F0R PE0PLE T0 BE JEAL0US iN A RELATi0NSHiP. BUT iN A WAY i GUESS iTS SH0WiNG L0VE. HE JUST NEEDS TO TRUST Y0U AND Y0UR FRiENDS. iF HE D0ES TRUST Y0U THEN THERE iS N0 REAS0N F0R HiM T0 BE JEAL0US LiKE THAT. THATS JUST MY 0PiNi0N.

Answer 9

tes dudettes its the way of men,on how they can show to the girl that he love her .The reason is the man is afraid that the girl will find another and he doesnt want to lose that girl.............!

Answer 10

Run away! Run away! Controlling FREAK Alert!