hi there, my birthday was on wednsday and i met my gf for it. i wanted to spend the day with her, and i told her my mum wanted to spend the day with me but i chose to spend it with her. I went there for a couple of hours and we made love for the first time on my bday and then she just had a shower and said to me she is going to go see her mate and i said but i wanted to spend time with you. she replied saying i should be with my family even tho i wanted to spend time with her. each time i see her and i want to spend time with her she stays with me for a 2 to 4 hours and then says she wants to go see her mate or cousins so on. i feel as if tho she gets bored with me and she does this all time trying to get away from me after a while. i only see her once or twice a week and want to see her more. i asked her why she behaves this way she said " i dnt want 2 talk about this now, maybe i want 2 much cos on my days off i wants to 2 spend tym wiv u n my friends" what should i do ? help
2007-07-22 23:48:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give her some space dude.. 2-4 hours is a long time.. she has a life beyond u.. and u need to life beyond her {}
2007-07-22 23:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by who ?? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she needs her space, or she is not ready for commitment with you. Besides, just because she is your "gf," that does not mean she has to spend every free time with you. She has to have life. And so do you. You should preoccupy yourself as well so you are not constantly thinking about her. Why don't you try to include her/your friends/family when you two get together? That way she does not have to choose you over anyone.
2007-07-22 23:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goodness...a girl senses a clingy guy and the tendancy is to edge away or just RUN. Don't be so needy, it's a big turn off.
Try to put some mystery in your relationship.
Maybe not be so predictable.
Maybe have other sources of joy that help you not think of her?
2007-07-22 23:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
together as once or twice a week for some hours is existence like, per danger she purely isn't used to lots extra. as a substitute of attempting to get her to spend extra time with you, you may attempt doing different issues you delight in. She'll maximum possibly ask your self why you're actually not around as much as you used to and could inquire approximately spending extra time at the same time, or she would be able to be delighted which you and he or she are on the comparable internet site. as a substitute of enjoying theses stupid cat and mouse/chase video games, or contemporary in a lackluster dating, purely flow on. discover somebody who you're extra properly suited with.
2016-11-10 03:58:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
email me man ok please
this stuff happens to nice guys all the time and you dont have to take it, look you deserve better. so just leave tell her that you dont like how she treats you and you need to find someone that will be good to you.
then walk away and dont come back she will find out just how much she misses you and how good you were to her and maybe the next girl will be a better one
i went threw this she will walk all over you if you dont end it
she will be throwing herself at you when you walk out that door,
2007-07-22 23:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy to say hard to do....
Let her spend time with her friends.... don't initiate first contact....
Send her a message or something saying you respect what she's saying...and she wins...
Meanwhile...you DO NOT veg at home....you go out and be with your friends....and let her do her thing...
If she genuinely feels something for you then....she'll come looking for you....if not then it's better to end it...why waste your time on someone who doesn't want you...
To quote my quote "If you're not worth her time, she's not worth your effort"
2007-07-22 23:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by missceekay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in telling people exactly how I feel dude.You've got to be straight with her and tell what her actions are doing to you.It could also be that she doesn't love you as much as you love her.So ask her how she feels about you and tell her to be honest with you.Loving someone who refuses to return your love is like some one trying to correct a dead horse.
2007-07-22 23:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. ask her if you can go with her to meet her friends,
2. If she says you cant and then keeps on acting like this, then DUMP HER!
2007-07-22 23:51:47 · answer #8 · answered by Andy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your coming on too strong or trying to get serious too quickly! give her space and see does she come running!
2007-07-22 23:51:13 · answer #9 · answered by aa_fugitive 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Deal with it or leave her. It doesn't sound like she is in love with you anyway.
2007-07-22 23:51:10 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋