Ihave been seeing my Boyfirend for nearly a year now but I cant seem to stop getting so jealous and paranoid of him having girlfriends or even speakin to girls in General. I have no right to be like this as i was a bit of a girl in the past and was often hurt. he knows everything which hurt him really bad knowing i wasnt as gd as i made out. The thing that hurts me the most is he is best firends with his ex, which i just cant understand. They work together phone each other (he even confided in her re my past!) I know they have no intention of gettin back together but ho can i get past these feelings?
2007-07-22 21:56:47 · 5 answers · asked by Natalie F 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
firstly stop being so hard on yourself, that guy liked and he stills likes u.u will drive him away, so have to try be detached but attached if u know what i mean. If u suffocate a guy, he will find other ways to get fresh air, even if means talking to other girls, if u not confident in yourself, he will lose interest. so give your guy (guy time), if u doubt him dont just keep all inside coz it will turn into resentment and u would want to blame him. so talk to him not in an accussive manner, say something like babe, i don knw but i feel like, that is just an idea, U DO UR OWN THING, stop concertrating so much on him,there is a reason why u guys have been together for a year.
2007-07-22 22:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know from your experiences, that a lot of guys suck. Your gonna keep getting hurt by guys no matter what, but thats why makes the good times so good. You can't really stop those feelings of jealousy, and i think that you have every right to feel that way. I think that it would be good to talk to him about those feelings. As long as your not asking him not to hang out with them because of it you should be fine. As you might know, guys like to think about one thing, and thats probably why he hangs out with his ex. You can't really stop him from cheating on you with his ex, because if hes thinking about it, hes gonna do it. I agree with those other people and i would probably get out before it gets too intense.
2007-07-23 05:05:29 · answer #2 · answered by Ryan L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its natural but u need to hang out wit his crowd so u feel better
2007-07-23 04:59:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did not love you, why would he be with you?
2007-07-23 05:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dump him.. u cant handle him.. it will just hurt u more.. am serious... {}
2007-07-23 04:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by who ?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋