My ex-girl called me one day and kept telling me to take her back forgiving her for starting a relationship with another guy (where in their very brief romance they had sex - she told me) .
I said if she waits for me a year without forming any relationships with guys (she's still 18) and can control herself for that time I would take her back - she showered me with lots of kisses (over the phone) said thank you a million times, promised that she'll do it and I did not hear from her since - this happened like a month ago.
Yesterday one of my friends has seen her with another guy whose not family at 10 p.m. on a mobike. WTF??? WTF am I to do??? I just feel like killing this *****!!!! WTF am I to do????
2007-07-22 22:39:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should ignore her begs for forgiveness, clearly she has issues with being faithful in relationships. She wants you to be the security pillow she can land on if everything fails. You deserve better, avoid her and any contact she attempts.
2007-07-22 22:43:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ring her up and say "If you can't work out the difference between staying faithful for a year and staying faithful for a day...sorry babe".
Ditch her, fast. Don't get nasty but let her know you know. Be the bigger person and just say that you are too good for her. Because you are. Ignore the tears and tantrums.
2007-07-23 05:43:37 · answer #2 · answered by Janey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really had forgiven her, im sure you would take her back.its the result of your time asking.how can you ask a girl to be without a guy for a year knowing she has tasted something nice?you are to blame too.but let her leave her own life.she doesnt deserve you
2007-07-23 05:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by Mkay3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you a are already going around with another girl and cannot leave her as you have found the love of your life.
Tell her to go away from your life.
2007-07-23 06:12:49 · answer #4 · answered by Nanu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plz dont take her back,b'cos she likes guys and more over she willl cheat on u.girls like dat dont stick to one guy.
2007-07-23 07:23:19 · answer #5 · answered by c blinks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't even called her in a month, what did you expect?
2007-07-23 05:43:43 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on its gonna happen again you dont need her!
2007-07-23 05:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by epena86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should she wait for a year for you? Please, I would have gone out with another guy as well. If you don't want o be with her then tell her that wait a year PLEASE.
2007-07-23 06:02:23 · answer #8 · answered by soldierlady226 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what you really feel about the situation then forget her...
2007-07-23 05:49:55 · answer #9 · answered by rica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her
2007-07-23 05:46:47 · answer #10 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋