Family & Relationships - 26 July 2007

Me and my girlfriend have been together two years. Loved each other dearly. Had our bumps and obsticals like all couples but nothing ever too incredibly drastic. We were sure to get married one day and be together forever etc. etc.. However recently shes been saying that I have pushed her away slowly. Then she said she thought she needed to date other people to be sure im the one to spend her life with. After hearing that i made a lot of changes and righted a lot of wrongs. But then she said she thinks she doesnt love me as much anymore, maybe even only as a friend. Please, if anyone has any serious advice as to how i can win her back, im desparate and open to anything to get back the love of my life.

2007-07-26 08:54:00 · 6 answers · asked by Noah 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a sophomore guy who's in love with a senior girl. The age difference doesn't sound that bad, me being 15 and her being 17. I would give anything to date her, however, each time the subject comes up and we talk about "us", she stresses that she's going to be going through things as a senior - about to leave the world of high school and move on to college - that I won't be able to understand or relate to. I consider myself quite mature for my age, which is why we had a connection in the first place.

I'd change in any way possible to make it work, but I don't know if that would be enough. She's my best friend, so I know we've got a good foundation to build upon...

So my questions - is there really too much of a gulch between us to ever make things work, or can love overcome it? Serious answers please :)

Thanks for the help!

2007-07-26 08:53:39 · 7 answers · asked by Ron Winters 2 in Singles & Dating

lol this is a wierd question but do you guys like thin girls.. or thick?! becuase us girls are always trying to look skiny just for the guys

2007-07-26 08:53:32 · 11 answers · asked by circassian 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with this guy off and on for at least 11yrs now we have made alot of mistakes in the past but we always come back to each other and I know he loves me and I love him, He is very money oriented and wants to be established in life and well doesn't want me as a girlfriend or really commit but we still always see each other and I know he has no time really for any one else I don't know maybe i am stupid but I love him and no one else is for me I really feel he feels the same but well I don't like being pushy and he doesn't like it when I am pushy so what should I do?!

2007-07-26 08:52:17 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-26 08:51:20 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Lately it seems that family and friends getting married, on guest invitations, have included my name on the one to my parents that live in another town. I haven’t lived with my parents since graduating high school 8 yrs ago. I have a career, my own home and a life in a different town. I don’t have a husband or kids. I see myself as a family of one. Does the fact that I’ve never married nor have kids make me a dependant of my parents that I haven’t lived with for yrs? They know where I live. One bride, a good friend, sent an invitation to my parents with my name included on their envelope. Another bride, my aunt, addressed the envelope as “Mr. & Mrs. Smith & family”. I, nor my married-w/children sister that lives 400 miles away, did not receive a separate invitation. Are my sister and I invited to my aunt’s wedding or does the “and family” just include my younger sis that still lives at home? Is their way proper etiquette? Am I wrong for feeling offended?

2007-07-26 08:50:57 · 16 answers · asked by sugar sweet 5 in Weddings

I've been with my boyfriend or fiance, as he likes to call it, for 2 years now. We've been through crazy ups and downs and I think I still love him, but I know I'm not in love with him anymore. I guess what the problem really is is that I've never been alone before & I'm comfortable with him. I've recently caught him talking to another girl. He claimed that this girl was the wife of a long time friend, and when I talked to this girl to find out what the deal was, she told me that my man was crazy because she just started talking to him and he started stalking her!! Wife of a friend huh? Yeah right! Another Lie! All of this got back to his company, he lost his job, house and company vehicle and claims that he is so sorry and loves me and really wants to marry me. He said he has no idea why he did it, he just did. I am so heart broken! Should I move on or give him another chance? Oh yeah, and by the way, this isn't the first time he's lied and I've caught him red handed!

2007-07-26 08:50:54 · 17 answers · asked by Stephanie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he asked me to move out of state with him and bring my six month old son along with me. he wants to move closer to his family. what little he has left. which is great. we have been friends for many years and just recently started dating. i live with my mom and dad right now and it really sucks ya know how it is. i trust him and i know he loves me because my son isnt his son and he took him in as his own. i love him very much but i am scared what is your opinion on this?

2007-07-26 08:49:30 · 6 answers · asked by Tara 9600 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I started wearing a bra 1 month ago. It sucks, it's hot, I asked mom to get started in the fall but she said I need one and couldn't wait. She's nice, a great mom, I really love her but when she makes a decision she doesn't back off. I complained, complained just to get some kisses and a soft "no way hun, you have to get used, love ya". I promised I'd wear and wouldn't take it off behind her back. Yesterday I was at a friend's home w/ other girls, it was hot and they took off their bras. They told me to take off mine too, no one would see us. I said I promised mom to keep it on, they laughed, said Ok, it's up to you. I called mom and asked her if I could take my bra off, she said Come on, you call me at work to ask something like that! But then she laughed and just said No way hun. I obeyed. But would it be OK if I took it off without asking her? No one would see. Can't I take it off when I'm in my room? Is this a disobedience? Sometimes we pay a price for being a good girl

2007-07-26 08:48:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I luv my man and all, but i met this other guy and he was a real gentleman, you no, so we got together and now he is asking me to leave my man or we have to stop having sex. I luv my man, but the sex just isnt freaky, u no?

I try to tell him i need to get satisfied, but he won't take a hint. Now i don't know what to do, stay with my man who looks after me and crap, or leave him for the other guy who actually understand how to get down with it?

It's not fair, i told him i needed proper sexual fufillment but at the same time i feel really guilty and bad. What do i do? I think he's properlly upset.

So which one? I'm a red blooded female, but my man looks after me

2007-07-26 08:47:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

that is, while your @ work of course.

2007-07-26 08:46:10 · 7 answers · asked by Looking for the REAL answer! 3 in Singles & Dating

k so there is this girl ive liked for a long time now but then a friend of mine asked her out. thats ok with me cause i didn't make a move it's alright. so then she dumped him for another guy (his best friend), but there are some all powerful forces preventing them from being together (she explained it once but i didnt understand) so after a few months of them not going out i decided to make a move.
I got the let's just be friends speech and now im kinda scared of her "Boyfriend" (cause he is huge, once punch and id be out)

should i have waited to make my move or what?

2007-07-26 08:44:44 · 5 answers · asked by Do I look Like I'm Joking 4 in Singles & Dating

They just stop talking to you and send you forwarded messages all day?And has this ever happened to you?

2007-07-26 08:43:36 · 3 answers · asked by Actualmente, Disfruto Siendo Lycantropica 7 in Friends

do u expect to get a kiss on the first date? if so, do u like it to last long or just a peck on the cheek? tell the truth. and be nice about it.

2007-07-26 08:43:28 · 11 answers · asked by michelle f 3 in Singles & Dating

you despise talking to...i mean they are boring and you are not even on the same page all the time but still they are a friend??you dont share common things to talk but other things like being from the same town or school...i dont know what to do..what should i do to bear their friendship??

2007-07-26 08:42:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-26 08:40:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So please tell me what problems i will face in the future so that i can prepare myself.

I know about some problems like-->
>No one will be there to help me if i fall ill.
>Alone
>Do everything(like washing,cooking,cleaning myself)

Can you suggests me some more please.

2007-07-26 08:36:12 · 13 answers · asked by good.boy999 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have 5 kids and i just found out that i'm expecting again instead of an abortion i though of allowing my little brother to adopt so the child stays with family.This might sound weird to some but i would feel more confident if i could keep an eye on this baby.

2007-07-26 08:36:09 · 35 answers · asked by veronica m 1 in Family

just out of curiosity.

And do you prefer easy girls over hard to get girls?

2007-07-26 08:34:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I’m in a dilemma. My brother-in-laws and their wives are coming next month to our area and they are expecting me to go out with them one night for dinner. Problem is, they are hot-tempered alcoholics and have ruined every dinner out for the past 5 years for me. Asking them to curb back on their drinking so I can enjoy myself isn’t going to work and I just don’t want to spend hard earned money on a night where the police are almost getting involved with our party. To keep the peace, I told my husband that I am going to tell them a white lie on the morning of the outing, that a friend from work lost their mother and I have to attend the wake. My husband says that’s sounds too suspicious and I don’t because these kinds of events happen all the time. Any suggestions?

2007-07-26 08:33:43 · 13 answers · asked by DAR76 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 14 not really looking for a boy friend just wondering what you guys look for in a girl do you like them to wear make up or not I personally don't wear it that offten and I feel I can pull it off with out but I have never had a boy friend in my life what do you look for in a girl I also have no guy friend I think Im little shy towards guys

2007-07-26 08:33:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Silly question, I know...... just had a huge bug crawl across my desk and there was no one here to kill it but me! They say chivalry is dead..... I think bug killing falls under this one! lol! Would you rescue your girl from this scenario?????

2007-07-26 08:31:08 · 12 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Please I really, really want some new friends! my other friends are never on! so i'm bored all of the time! Please somebody be my friend!

2007-07-26 08:28:55 · 27 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

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2007-07-26 08:24:39 · 55 answers · asked by Niomi G 2 in Singles & Dating

a higher up at my company in a different dept. seemed to like me for a bit. he is in a much higher position and is 6 years older. Lately, he'd always kind of watch and sweetly smile at me. since we've become friendly, i have felt free to ask him questions about technical stuff. today, i asked him for a favor and when we were talking, i guess my tone was a little attitudinal when i misconstrued something he said. all of a sudden, he's like, "you always call me obnoxious but then you're always asking for help." i felt badly, so i immediately apologized. i dont get why he snapped at me.

2007-07-26 08:23:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I dated for almost 6 months, he was HORRIBLE to me, 4 the most part. We did nothing but argue. I know I have my faults too, but for example, 1 time I cooked 4 him and I messed something up, well he started yelling at me and blah blah. Another time I was going 2 take him out for a picnic, well I couldnt find the road to get to the place I wanted to go, and I got yelled at. Another time, I picked him up at his house and there are bricks that you can easily hit the car door on, well he hit it and blamed it on me that it was my fault that I parked 2 close to the wall. So this guy I was talking to on MSN, who happened to be a part of my ex boyfriends life told me to do whatever made me happy. Well I couldnt take nemore arguments, so I finally broke it off. A week later, this boy I had been talking to on MSN asked me out. Now we are 2gether & he is absolutely wonderful to me. We werent "talking" before my ex and I broke up. Did I do n e thing wrong? Did I make a good choice?

2007-07-26 08:21:46 · 55 answers · asked by ibleedorange 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-26 08:20:01 · 8 answers · asked by frog luver 1 in Family

Well, I have worked with this guy for several months now. He's a 19 yr. old guy and I'm trying to figure out what's going on. He used to wait til i was done working then he would take his break and sit and talk with me outside until my ride came. Then recently when he came back from the beach he got a tattoo on his chest and showed it to me and i asked him why he got it and he said for me. Then when he found out i got my liscense (i never told him so he must have found out from another source) he said i should come pick him up and we could ride around. Then during work he accidentally hurt my hand and he said it was a "love pinch" What should I think of this guy?

2007-07-26 08:19:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

On aim one night my ex-girlfriend told me she had a crazy dream. The dream was that she was pregnant with twin boys and they were mine. In the dream i didnt know about it and when she called to tell me i hung up on her. She said the dream felt so real and when she woke up she felt sad because she really liked those kids. The stories not all that important but i still like my ex a lot! and i was wondering if by this dream do you think she still has some feelings for me that might lead to us getting back together?

2007-07-26 08:18:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fmil has told us this a few times, although she loves the idea of us getting married (she even paid for the engagement party--and has been begging me to spend more time w/her). But why wait? We already live as a married couple, we do the finances as a married couple and have been together for 3 years-lived together for 2 of those years.

We'll be done with undergrad in the spring, then off to grad school in the same city. Wedding 09/08.

2007-07-26 08:17:33 · 18 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2 in Weddings