On aim one night my ex-girlfriend told me she had a crazy dream. The dream was that she was pregnant with twin boys and they were mine. In the dream i didnt know about it and when she called to tell me i hung up on her. She said the dream felt so real and when she woke up she felt sad because she really liked those kids. The stories not all that important but i still like my ex a lot! and i was wondering if by this dream do you think she still has some feelings for me that might lead to us getting back together?
2007-07-26 08:18:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dreams are symbolic, and the people in dreams very often do not represent the people they seem to be. So just because you appeared to be in her dream doesn't mean she dreamed of you. She was probably dreaming of someone or something with qualities you embody. That being said, I think it's clear that she still thinks about and likes you a lot, if you are representative of someone or something she is close enough to have children with and to confide in. Symbolically, both very intimate acts.
In the waking world, the fact that you maintain a friendly relationship and still talk via IM tells me that there's still an emotional connection of some sort. Have you tried asking her how she feels about possibly doing some light dating to see if things might work out again?
Rather than trying to jump back into the relationship at the deep end, it's an idea to start out hanging out as friends and start the dating fresh. Keep it light and friendly, then see if it progresses. It seems you really like this woman, but rather than pressure her by moving toward an intense relationship right off, if you start as friends, and see how it goes, you have the option of keeping it light if it doesn't move on. You have a better chance of keeping what seems like a great friendship, and not freaking her out, if she's not quite ready to move deeper or isn't into you that way anymore.
Good luck!
2007-07-26 08:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing that she was trying to communicate feelings for you. If she really had the dream, because it could be possible she made it up just to have an easier way to tell you how she feels, then its makes sense that she would tell you if she still had feelings for you. If she had the dream and didn't have feelings for you, most likely she wouldn't tell you about it because it might be awkward, and she probably wouldn't want you to get the wrong idea.
Based on what you've said, she probably still has feelings for you.
2007-07-26 08:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by Becca R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's crazy when that happens. I know I've had dreams about having children, and when I wake up, I miss them.
Obviously she still has some kind of feelings for you since the topic of the dream is so significant. It depends I guess on what she felt in the dream in terms of you being the father. Was she happy about it? Disappointed? Excited? There in lies the meaning and the relevance.
2007-07-26 08:22:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how she feels about you. A dream doesn't have to mean she wants you back but, the fact that she brought it up sounds good. I wouldn't bring up a dream like that with someone I didn't like.
2007-07-26 08:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be for the two of you to talk. There may (or may not) be some things that are unsettled. She may not feel the same way. If she does, then great! But if you don't make your point heard (you still have feelings) then if something like this occurs again, then who knows what will happen, she confided something to you, time to reciprocate. Best of luck mate!
2007-07-26 08:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by lewisthomasp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could possibly might still like you.
My friend recently had a dream about her ex-boyfriend and today she texted me and said that she talking to him over aim and she didn't feel excited or nervous. That could also be a factor.... that she was talking to you and getting over you.
2007-07-26 08:21:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just a dream. You can still get back together but the dream has nothing to do with it. Good luck
2007-07-26 08:20:55 · answer #7 · answered by logan28 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably does have feelings for you. Maybe not because of the dream but because she called you and told you about it. Ask her out again.
2007-07-26 08:21:31 · answer #8 · answered by Annabanana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if a girl that dream about u then yes she dose but u really need 2 ask ur sel do u want 2 get back 2gether with her
2007-07-26 08:22:20 · answer #9 · answered by missbossyeve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously.
But you should ask yourself if you really want to get back together. There's a reason that you split up in the first place.
2007-07-26 08:21:22 · answer #10 · answered by mikeburns55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋